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anonymous
writes:hi just wanted to ask a question mostly to females.how do you cope with a relationship thats long distance and you have fallen head over heels and the first thing you think of is i dont want to get hurt because it seems so wonderful and i dont want to come crashing to the floor..i love my bf with all my heart and we both ventured into each others pasts to help us understand each other better although thinking now sometimes its best leaving the past were it is..one thought is that he wishes things were different with his ex but knows it could never be. and that im the one for him..that thought doesnt fill me with happyness. he speaks to her on a odd occasions as it was an mutual ish split up..though he hasnt told her off me thinks it would hurt her and he doesnt want to do that..i seem to have alot of mixed emotions about it all.. i love him dearly and hope things do work out with me and him, but how do you learn to deal with things and put them behind you? nad fully trust him that you wont come crashing to a halt.. he says the most wonderful things to me but its like i need something more than i love you and want to be with you but i cant seem to put it accross to him.. i feel confused and in a mess i cant seem to untangle.. any opinions welcome women opinions prefered thanks ANON XXXXXX
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reader, loco123  +, writes (20 August 2008):
i know your in a risky situation but first thing is you cant stop loving someone and you cant stop falling in love your heart takes control but your mind questions is he right for me? or will i get hurt? and you have to think ahead i little bit and look at what mite happen...... you could risk it and take a chance KNOWING what could happen that is what i did i was with a bf for at least a year and he was a jerk so i broke it off it really killed me cause i still really loved him and later on i gave him a second chance but this time i let him know what i expected from him and i told my self that i would not cry this time and later he wasnt what i wanted anymore and i broke it up AGAIN and i didnt cry!! ............. sorry for telling you that cause its like not part of you question but i just thought i would share it with you... i hope i helped!!! good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes
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