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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've been dating this for the past 3 yrs my problem is he works from monday to saturday,he doesn't have time for movies or anything with me we only have a sunday for each other.the problem is that i'm a church goer so i just have time for him for 2hrs to be with him, this is the most boring relationship i've ever had.yesterday i didn't go to church so that we could spend time together only to find he just called me in the morning and after that he didn't call me until this morning trying to tell me some excuses the thing is i told him that i'm enough of this lonely life but he just drop the phone. the point i know he doesn't want to break up with me,the thing is im tired and confused about this so called love please help.i'm tired of making time for him and all he could do is to come up with excuses Reply to this Question
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reader, AskSusie  +, writes (28 July 2008):
Anonymous,
Look how old you are! Don't waste your time on this idiot and definitely don't trust him. Time's a ticking honey! This is what you need to do to move on:
Find a hobbie where you can meet new friends! Make sure that the friends you meet keep you busy throughout the week - including Sunday alllll day! Even if it means finding more than one new hobbie.
Delete this guys number no matter how hard it is.
Trying to get him to stop excuses will never work. Deep down you know this but you came to dearcupid for advice and this is it!
Goodluck
AskSusie
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reader, Rhandy  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 Just try to make things smoothly by telling him the feelings u felt, confront him and talk to him what you want to do. Dont hide the truth, tell him in a good way. and lets find out what he says.
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