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writes:HiMe and my boyfriend have been having sex for a while now, its great everytime but theres one problem:(he comes everytime, and i dont. i told him its harder for me, and he explains to me everytime that guys come quiker or alot ealier than girls, but i dont think he understands that i actually never do. what do i do to try and get a help in hand??i would apprectiate no critism pls :) pleasee help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): Don't let him get off (again) unless and until he gets you off. And I don't mean just once; I mean every time. That way, you're assured things are 50/50, as they should be. If you keep giving him what he wants for free, what motivation does he have to change? Don't let him get away with being such a selfish lover - it does harm to you both.
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reader, lexilou +, writes (28 July 2008):
 You are both very young so sex is often unexciting at this age as you are probably a little tense and shy and dont really know your own bodies let alone each others. It takes time and patience and practice to get it right. Show him what you like, experiment with different positions that you are comfortable with. And dont forget the contraception!!!! x
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reader, bambislaughter  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 Well, naturally guys come faster than women, I guess we're just like that. We're big crazy ass animals and we fuck like crazy animals.
This is really common in relationships, so neither of you should feel bad (not that i'm saying you are)
Listen, if you really want a nice orgasm, and he cant give it to you in sex, and you're unsatisfied, try to get him to finger you and give you one that way. Sometimes it's much easier to get women to climax through fingering rather then sex.
Im really sorry if I didnt help, im not a psychiatrist but i tried my best.
Also, if its just because he cant control himself then thats his fault and he should be ashamed =P (no criticism intended)
Theres also books for this type of thing as well, google it.
Again, really sorry if I didn't help. Best of luck
-Logan
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