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*estiny28
writes:He said, he has strong feelings for me...wanting to do everything with me...travel, business etc... He did all these beautiful things for me. Kept in touch and made me feel on top of the world...until I found out he hit on my g/f's found nasty texts on his phone etc...I broke it off... he wrote a text after that saying he can't stop thinking about me... n that's all I have ever heard from him since...until I wrote him an email and he replied saying he only want to be friends... but he need time...as mentioned in the other post I have written...I just don't understand how he can be like this...played...I am to one extent not convinced that what we shared was BS. Therefore I don't understand how he could just disappear like that as if he never existed...maybe he is too ashamed of himself for what he has done...or he can't escape the truth and no excuses to pull... I asked him the last day I saw him...how serious are you about us...he replied...pretty seriuos...why on earth would someone do this to another human????It's been a while since he was present in my life...I miss him terribly.... (sigh)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): I can only tell you that people will say what ever at the moment when they still want something from you. It is best to just move on, and find somenoe who deserves your time. I am currently in the trying to move on stage. As I'm dealing with an a-hole who I still love and cant for the life of me figure out how or why... He is a waste of space. And it sound like the guy you are involved with is too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): Who Cares! Cause he sure doesn't. he's a creep. You deserve better than that. You did the rigt thing when you broke it off once you found out he was hitting on your friends. Now the next thing to do is to move on with your life and forget about him. He's already told you he just wanted to be friends, well do him one better and NOT be friends, cause if you miss him terribly now and he's not even in your life then it will only become worse if you become friends with him. All the crap he was telling you about being serious, and wanting to go places and do things was exactly what you were afraid to call it...but i'm not....it was complete BULL SHIT.....he only said those things to keep you around...probably for sex..... If he felt that strongly about you and him then he never would have hit on your very own friends. Do your self a favor and move on with you life
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 How can he do it? Because he doesn't really know what he wants in life yet.
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