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writes:Please help,Im still ridiculously in love with my ex bf even though we broke up a year ago. I feel like im wasting my life hoping we'll get back together but then again we are still in constant contact and he is always asking me to meet up? Do you think he might want to get back together? I love him but meeting up with him makes me feel so nervous. I have been with 3 other guys since we broke up thats all and i havent really given any of them a proper chance because of my feelings for him. He has also been with other girls too but again nothing has stuck for him either.I feel like these should be the best years of my life and i am so miserable and lonely thinking about him. i really want to feel that intimacy , that closeness with him again. I feel so alone. My logical rational side is telling me to move on and its ridiculous to still be thinking like this after all this time but I cant let go. I feel like im running outa time..Like if we dont get back together now we never will. Please any advice, especially from guys. Would you be texting your ex if you didnt still care about them??
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone, I think i should meet up when he asks again (if he asks again) and see how it goes..Im just really nervous bout it. Also the fact that we have both been with other people since we broke up and im sure he has been with other girls lately even though he is still in constant contact with me. That confuses me a bit too.
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reader, doddster_24 +, writes (28 July 2008):
 well being a guy who has had several ex's in the past and i admit one or two i just couldnt get over till i had one more try, i didnt know then....,but it just didnt work out with them.... so the best advice i can give is give it anouther go and see what happens... then u will know for sure good luck and all the bestx
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reader, Destiny28  +, writes (28 July 2008):
Hi darling,
Well...put yourself out of your agony and meet up with him... if both your hearts are with each other then see what it comes to..yóu'll never know until you go for it...yes, the first time it didn't work...a year is a year and both of you have tried to move on.... a lof of people would tell you once it's over it's over...but I don't believe it anymore as I proved myself wrong...n ended up going back to see if it would work...I think you are suffering more without him then with him... GO N SEE HIM otherwise you'll never move on in life...DON"T LEAVE WHAT IF IN YOUR LIFE....good luck!!!
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