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male
age
51-59,
*he narrator
writes: Hi, Me and my wife have sepperated permantly, aiming to get divorced. The problem is, i've met a girl who I like alot and she likes me. Should I go for it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): If you feel you are ready then yes. Just take your time and go at a speed you are completely comfortable with.
Good Luck.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (28 July 2008):
Hi
Yes. If its all ammicable with the estranged wife and no feelings are still involved. Otherwise, wait, and just be friends with the new person. Not fair to drag her into any unfinished business. Ive been there and done that and its not pleasant and doomed to fail!
C xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): Not yet. Wait until your divorce is all done and dusted, the financial details are sorted out and you've got a decree absolute in your hand. Your new girl will get pissed off at all the arguments that are bound to ensue, but she'll wait if she's keen on you.
Trust me on this, I speak from 2 lots of experience.
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