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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months. We recently had a pregnancy scare and now our relationship feels different. Now I don't know if we should break-up or see if we can get back to where we were. Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): You both put yourself in a scary and stressful situation and there is some guilt and/or resentment from both of you. It seems you and the relationship are not very mature. Relationships are tested during difficult times. That's why is so important for you to understand that if it is like this and there's no baby imagine what could happen to your relationship if everythign's about a baby and you have to stop your happy lives to work and maybe get married and assume all that pressure. Not a pretty picture Huh? I'm against premarital sex so I personally don't approve anything that involves it but other than that you are young and I guess you don't lose anything if you try to rebuild the relationship and trust. Given the time if you both feel it's not the same you will want to break up. The important thing is to learn from this.
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 maybe its hit home to him that oh yeah he was almost a father phew close shave..do you use contraception ? that might be a factor..maybe he dont want anymore close shaves and is being distant as to not be in that situation again..what do you mean by different ? if hes acting odd or not him usual self..then why not ask him how he is feeling about things, say you feel like the air has changed between you or maybe you are wrong but you just wanted to ask if everything was ok. hope that helps aphexy xx good luck
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