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writes:I have written on here previously titled:-My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe.I dont know what to do anymore with my situation.I am still in love with my ex sooo much that it seriously hurts.everywhere i go he's there and i cant escape him.the thing is he lives close by and drives past everyday. sometimes does work for my parents and when i'm in the sane space as him he peeps at me and watches me!He texts me sometimes and tries to be friendly and then sometimes is nice as pie with me and others completely offish.Asked me last time had i got anyone else and stuff and when i said i hadnt he looked releived but then went on how he couldnt have a relationship.I just need to know what to do?please advise me xx
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reader, jackie69 +, writes (30 July 2008):
jackie69 is verified as being by the original poster of the question He's been around my house again today and texting me.
Being nice as pie and acting normal.
I am sooo hurt and confused. He keeps coming back into my life all the time and it is killing me!!!!
I have never loved anyone like this. even though he has done the things he has I still believe that underneath his bravado he still loves me and cares about me.
Please someone help me!!?
I cry everyday and am literally making myself ill over him!
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reader, jackie69 +, writes (29 July 2008):
jackie69 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWEll... last night I had him texting me telling me how he hade seen me yesterday and thought how fit and attractive i was and that he thinks about me and him cuddling in ed everynight.
I said well... thats only your doing that ur not cus u were the one who told me you didnt want to be with me"
then he say" I'll just have to survive without you then"
What does this mean????
what is he playing at texting me???
Then today he texting me asking what im doing and good luck with my day etc.
Is this someone who doesnt care???
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reader, jimbob711297 +, writes (28 July 2008):
trust me i know how you feel i am in exactlt the same situation, my ex lives just up the road and i have to stop myself from riding up there and seeing what she is doing. all i can say is try and forget about him altogether!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): From what you have described he has shown no interest in getting back together. I know some things he says can give you hope, but he is not the one giving you hope. YOU are the one giving yourself hope. In fact, when ur still inlove with someone who rejects you, just about anything they say, even the fact that they still even talk to to you, can seem like a sign that they want you back. You'll try to make sense of anything and everything. But there is only ONE thing you need to pay attention to: He said he doesn't want a relationship. That's all there is to it so forget all the rest. So everytime he looks at you or makes small talk with you, remember his words: he doesn't want a relationship. Take him seriously. He's not lying. So its time to move on for good cause he is not going to change his mind anytime soon if ever.
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