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male
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30-35,
*urricane
writes: I've been complemented on having a nice and big ass, but the thing girls don't realize that i have a hairy ass. So here's my question, is it a turn-off, or do girls mind if guys have hairy asses?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, rhythmbug +, writes (24 July 2009):
dude, some girls won't like it, some will - end of story.
I've got a hairy ass and I've only had compliments.
If a girl ever asked me to shave or wax it I'd say see ya later! Be proud to be who you are. And if it's incredibly hairy well chances are everything else is too.......how stupid would it look to have a baby's ass and hairy legs.
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female
reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (28 July 2008):
If you have a carpet on your butt, check out a salon and get a wax!! However, some hair on your butt is natural and okay. I certainly wouldn't mind... but if I can't tell in the dark if I'm grabbing you or my dog, then there will probably be some problems.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): If it's really hairy then yes shave. I mean if you have a nice chest then you got a hairy bum, well it's a turn off. Women on here may say no but most girls our age don't like hairy men.
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female
reader, lexilou +, writes (28 July 2008):
My ex husband was non hairy and I always used to say uugghhh if I saw a hairy man. However the men I dated after I left him seemed to be hairy, maybe because my ex was fair and all the new blokes were dark haired.
My 2nd husband is VERY hairy on the front of his body and over the last few years his back has started to get hairy to so Im waiing for it to spread to his bum too!! I love running my fingers through his chest hair x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): I certainly would be turned off. If you expect a hair-free ass from your partner, you'd darned well better have a hair-free ass yourself. Anything less is rather hypocritical.
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female
reader, babewithbrains +, writes (28 July 2008):
Everyone is different, and as long as the hair isn't matted or dirty then, no, I don't think it is a problem. Lots of women like hairy men.
Jelly
xx
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): Hairy makes the man appear more masculine, so don't worry. My partner is hairy and I love it!
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male
reader, StudentOfLife +, writes (28 July 2008):
I think they judge your more on performance than anything else , judging from what I see here on dear cupid.
I often see stuff like "My husband can't bring me to orgasm" etc. I never saw something like "My husband as an hairy ass, how can I tell him to shave it?"
From what I saw anyway.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): Just how hairy are we talking? Men are expected to be hairy but if it is really hairy, some waxing would be appropriate. Think sweater vest hairy.
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female
reader, scythe +, writes (28 July 2008):
nope, not if the girl in question cares about you. you're a guy.. it doesnt really matter if you have body hair. and if a girl does mind then i dont think shes the type of chick you wanna be with
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): Yes.
Shave or use depilatory cream on hairy shoulders, back and bottom.
Sorry.
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reader, lovehate +, writes (28 July 2008):
If they don't realise fine. Yet in general yess hairy asses are a BIG turn-off.
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reader, skygirl123 +, writes (28 July 2008):
Hi Hurricane,
I guess it really depends on the girl. My ex boyfriend was a hottie. On our first date for some reason he decided to go commando and bent over to pick something up and gave me (and the horrified shop keeper) full exposure to his extremely hairy arse! lol
It wasnlt really a rpoblem for me. He was sexy, good personality...well not always..hence EX! Plus there's always ways around it if you feel self conscious....waxing? It will hurt but imagine how smooth it will be after and grabalicous! lol.........Most importantly be yourself, if you like your arse the wya it is then thats all that matters.
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