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*blitherate
writes:Hello, I had/have a crush on this girl from my school, who was in most of my classes grade 9 year, we talked and stuff, she was nice, attractive, etc. Grade 9 Grad came and I asked her to it and she declined. Over the year it was leaked that i liked her and some of my friends asked her out for me. Then finally the end of grade 9 i asked her out and she let me down really gently. I see her at my workplace everynow and then shopping, and when i see her i kind of get aggresive looking, ie not smiling etc. I can't even look her in the eyes anymore, and i don't think i have feelings for her anymore but i'm not sure. And also i was told by someone who was in her class grade 8 that she wasn't allowed to date till she was 16. Am I holding onto hope? or am i just bitter? I've tried to move on, but i've not really had feelings for anyone else.
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reader, Oblitherate +, writes (29 July 2008):
Oblitherate is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni'm not sure if i like her anymore, i used to get butterflies around her, but i don't know if i do anymore, because we haven't talked since the end of grade 9. i also don't want to come off as insistent or annoying by asking her out again, the last time she said that she didn't like me as anything more than a friend.
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reader, JCWil909  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 i totally agree with LaydeeOfSorrows if u like or love her ask her out if not try meeting other people at work or school or where ever u will find some one sooner or later it may take awhile or it might be in this week u will never no unless u try
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reader, LaydeeOfSorrows  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 I dont think your bitter, You just haven't found anyone else that interests you yet.
If you still like this girl, try asking her out now that she is 16.
But if you want to move on, try meeting new people at work, school, through frineds, parties etc...
You'll find someone eventually, you just have to keep looking!
Good luck
xx
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