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writes:So heres the deal, I think I love my step-brother (I say I think I love him because I'm not 100% sure)We've fooled around before, but now I really want to tell him how I feel but I'm worried that he'll just think I'm an idiot . . . What should I do ?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2008): don't do it, it's wrong, even if you both love each other and your parents force you into it, it doesnt work out and just think how awkard everything is gonna be around him the rest of your life if it doesnt work out. find a someone else who loves you very much and would do anything for you thats close to you!!!!
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reader, LoveJoy +, writes (30 July 2008):
 Wierd... sometimes our feelings confuse us i had the same problem but i have had so much grief off my parents on this topic even though i know i dont love my step brother in that way but my parents don't think so, at the end of the day its your decision but i wouldn't bother so many people have this problem and parents never take it well, some cases have led to fines and separation of the two step siblings. Its not worth it at the end of the day.
Good luck ;)
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reader, xizzyx +, writes (30 July 2008):
 at the end of the day the choice is yours,
do you live with him all the time?
if so i'd wait till your not at home to pursue a relationship
and as for your parents, i'd keep it quiet till you know what you want, cause thats the thing that really matters, not what anyone else thinks.
good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2008): look, i had the same problem. I felt at one point i was completely in love with my step-sister. we did fool around a little bit, and trust me, i wanted at one point to have sex with her. but i didn't. were still close. i always think about what would've happend but, i also dont wanna know. if he loves u the same way, go for it. if he doesnt, just try to move on. i just hope ur happy with what ever u do, take ur chances, u never know what can happen.
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reader, Appletizer +, writes (29 July 2008):
Appletizer is verified as being by the original poster of the question Note: We dont' live togethe all the time and wernt brought up together. And . . . I know theres a differennce bettween love and fooling around . .
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008): There is a difference between love and uh, errm, fooling around. Nothing wrong with marrying your stepbro though, once you reach adulthood, that is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008): It is okay to love your step-brother, but it is not okay to have with him. He is part of your inner most circle of family, and if you turn your friendship into something ual you will regret it. Incest is wrong in my opinion. Having a ual relationship with your step-brother will only cause you and you friends, parents and family embarrassment and pain. Please don't cross the line with your step-brother. Only treat him like a brother. You will find another boy that you can kiss and have a ual relationship with. Stand your ground and say no to him.
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reader, Neoloverboy23  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 In my opinion,I feel that you should stop this before there's trouble because your family will find out about this and it will damage your life, his, and them. You must not go through this no matter what he thinks. You should trust your heart and make your own decision as to figure out why you are starting to have romantic feelings with your step-brother(and by the way, that's incest and it is wrong in my opinion).
If you really love him, then you have to tell him that both of you must stop this before someone gets hurt.
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