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I have boyfriends, but find myself looking at women too. Is this normal?

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Question - (28 July 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 August 2008)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

im really confused. am i straight?! i this normal? im 16 and since i was 13 i have had boyfriends, in real i think boys are very attractive, i always comment on cute guys i see or if im out with my friends and i see someone i like, which is pretty often i will point him out, i am interested in guys. but then i am amazed by the female body, epecially in magazines and on tv programmes and photos. i always find myself checkin out girls breasts. i compare their arse to my arse, i look at girls myspace pictures and looking through them i find myself proper starin and checkin them out. i dont feel like id want to be in a relationship with a girl but i do find them attractive, although i do find boys attractive and do enjoy relationships with them :S its so weird is this a common thing or am i a bisexual?

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A female reader, JustPlainAmanda United Kingdom +, writes (2 August 2008):

JustPlainAmanda agony aunttrust me its common, everyone goes through the stage of liking someone of the same sex!

it is just a fling and will fly over because you would know for definate. tv is a really bad thing to look at and compare to, same as magazines. they are just normal people not particulaly pretty but because of computer technology have bigger breasts, bums and look stunning. there nothing much to look at in real life and talk to you bf about it you might be suprised to find out he look at guys bodies and compares himself to them, it doesnt mean your both gay or bi! dnt worry it'll blow over

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008):

If you're gay then I'm like super gay...trust me sweety its normal especially at your age considered to be "the years of exploration". I look at girls all the time, girls turn me on at times too, I can't imagine being in a committed relationship but sometimes I think about having sex with thme but that's about as far as I go. Girls are amazing in so many ways. I'd rather go to a female strip club over a male one any day. Girls just look better, we're curvy and juicy and luscious, I mean who can't help not to stare... I hope this helps... : )

Mrs.c2b

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A female reader, howcomehoney France +, writes (29 July 2008):

howcomehoney agony auntDon't worry about it. Girls are pretty things, they're nice to look at. There's a possibility you're bi, but it's no big deal. It might just be from sheer aesthetism. Just have fun, and don't stress about it. Nothing's wrong with you at all.

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A female reader, WiccanWonder United Kingdom +, writes (28 July 2008):

WiccanWonder agony aunti think you may be going through a bi-curious stage, or you could be bi, just give both sides a chance.

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A female reader, vsnod United States +, writes (28 July 2008):

vsnod agony auntI can't say weather or not you are bisexual, but I would guess that you are not because you say you have a hard time imagining being in a relationship with a girl. I will tell you that I am strait and I like to look at other women too, especially in the movies and magazines. I think Angelina Jolie is beautiful. There is nothing wrong with you. And if you do discover that you are bisexual, there is nothing wrong with that either.

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