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41-50,
*winkletoes30
writes:Hello again! I have another question.... any help would be really appreciated!If u have read my last 2 posts, u will know im lookin again after a long relationship. Well, it finally happened - with an old friend. We're havin a great time, every thing is really good... except, im not sure how to bring up the "what we like in bed" discussion. Its soo hard, i mean, ive known him for years, i was with him when his girlfriend died, his ex took his son to live in Oz...i dont wanna mess this up. hes really special to me, always has been, and i know he thinks the same as me. Sex is nice, but how do i tell him what i want/ like in bed?? I only had 2 partners b4, and sex was never great. I want this to work out for us... any suggestions????
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reader, twinkletoes30 +, writes (29 July 2008):
twinkletoes30 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for your reply! I have to admit, i have never really enjoyed sex as much as i could have - and i think at my age, its about time i got some pleasure! I will give your advice a try, and see how it goes - wish me luck!!!
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reader, Curiousbynature  +, writes (28 July 2008):
Sex can be the most exciting experience, if with the right person and is done correctly. I say talk to him. If you two are as close as you say you should be able to. At your age, you need it! It sounds like you have never even enjoyed sex, its time you should! Talk to him, maybe even while you are doing it. Say let’s try this or is there anything I can do for you? I always ask the guy what I can do and usually they reciprocate with the same question. So try it out, just talk to him and it will make you more comfortable which will allow complete satisfaction.
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