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30-35,
*roubledLover
writes:would it be a good idea to take a break from all my friends and boyfriend for 3 days to clear my head cause of all the stress that is going on with me and my friends.. cause my best friend ashley feels that im with my other friend cynthia and my friend justin and boyfriend too much.. but i don't know what to do im like loosing my mind cause i wanna make things right..cause i hate stress and it makes me go like nuts.. i feel if i take 3 days to my self i should be fine and then just make a plan to see my bff for 2 days a a week by my self and make room for my boyfriend and my other friend..does it seeem like a good idea if i do that? and if you have any other ideas about what to doo.. to actually keep everyone happy please tell me it would help me so much!
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 well in reality if you keep doing what your doing you arnt going to be going far. if you dont deal with things they will stay the same or get worse..so you need to address the problems.. it would seem ashley seems left out let me guess she dont have a bf? and their fore relys on you guys to keep her occupied when you are busy hanging out as a foursome..if she does have a bf maybe she is unhappy in her relationship if not she just old fashioned misses her good friend talk to her about it all ask her about all this if it applies..certainly take a day for yourself a week so you can have your own time to do what you want without others.. but as what you do with the rest of the week is your choice..if you want to spend all week with your bf and not your friends thats your choice..and as for spending too much time with your other friends thats your choice shes just trying to make you feel guilty you are not spending enough time with her... good luck with your choice aphex xx
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (28 July 2008):
Definitely. I think you are wise beyond your years :) Keep in mind though, that you cannot make EVERYBODY happy. You're only one person.
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