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writes:im 18 and i carnt have a orgasum with my partner but i can through oral sex and mastubation, i dont wont to tell my bf because he thinks i do have one during sex, i get the arousal feeling during sex but i never seem 2b able have one, i dont no what i can do
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 this is VERY normal dont worry. alot of women NEVER orgasm through intercourse without a little added help (fingers, vibrator etc). you need to stop faking it though, i fell into that trap years ago and it doesnt end well. he thinks that he's doing fine, so goes on doing it, your not climaxing so eventually you will not want it. vaginal orgasm is alot harder to get than clitoral orgasm. try getting oral and when you feel an orgasm coming have sex. or try new positions, experiment - not only will it help you but he'll love it!! you can check out loads of sites and books about this. if you want email me and ill give you a few links. but hunny DONT WORRY 100% normal. you just need to try and little harder. xxx
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 This is the same question that reoccurs time and time again on DearCupid - Women of every age who rarely or never experience orgasm(s) with their male companions. In my opinion, this worldwide problem is the result of males, the vast majority of whom know little to nothing about pleasing a woman. Period.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008): I think you need to maybe try a different position, or have him give you oral before you have intercourse. Experiment a little to see what works best for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008): So do you stimulate your self while having intercourse with him? If not do so. My husband love to watch me paly with myself. He actually gets off on it. I dont no a man alive who dont like to watch a woman enjoy themselves. While you are making love stimulate yourself the same way you would as if you were by yourself. The orgasm will way more intence. Try it and see.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008): sweetheart, the problem ur facing here is because ur body doesnt become too sexually aroused to produce vaginal or cloitral orgasm...all u need to do is speak to ur boyfriend and ask him to do something else which will make u sexually aroused in a better way..something what u feel would make u crazy and lead to orgasms. its not bad to try new things
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