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*allingapart3
writes:Okay, my twin sister is pregnant and should be due any day now, if not day then in a week. The people that she is living with are stressing her out by making her babysit 8 kids at a time everyday. The stress build up is getting to her, could that hurt the baby? She had to go to the hospital because she was dehydrated because she never has time to sit and have a drink or eat anything. Couldn't that cause highblood pressure or something? Could she go into a stressful labour? Can people give me some info on pregnancy please Reply to this Question
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reader, fallingapart3 +, writes (6 August 2008):
fallingapart3 is verified as being by the original poster of the question im getting my own house on the 15th just so she can come home to a full house, she can live in it rent free because this will be my 2nd house.. all she will have to do is HELP pay bills. I cant put all the bills on her with a newborn on the way.. babies are important and alot of money.. even if she cant pay bills for 1 year im not worried.. its a better place to be then where she is now
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): If she's able to babysit 8 kids at a time, that's worth a lot more than rent!!! She should get a job working for a real daycare, then at least she'd get benefits, sick leave, and vacations.
Sheesh, in the U.S. a good babysitter will get at least $12/hour, and for two kids it would be at least $20/hour if not more.
It's sad she is putting herself through this, but it's her choice so you can only let her know that she's worth more than this and she can come home when she's had enough.
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reader, fallingapart3 +, writes (2 August 2008):
fallingapart3 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionya we all want her to move back home.. but she thinks that the babys daddy and her will go back to dating yet all of us can see hes treating her like shit and using her. Ya she has to babysit in order to live where shes living.
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reader, sappygirl  +, writes (27 July 2008):
 Yes..stress can cause you to go into early labor. It also can cause damage during childbirth. Since she is in around her due date. She needs to take it easy.
Most important is she needs to take care of herself and her baby first. There has to be some other arrangements. Can she move home? No one can "make" you do anything you don't want to. Tell your sister to say NO.
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