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female
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*avhez
writes:Help seriously me and my ex broke up 8months ago and he still calls me about every 3weeks then after 2 weeks he stops, then starts again after -4weeks this started straight away. i cudn't take it at first i was so cofused but now i jus kind of feel sorry for him. i think i still love him but more in a look after way and i miss him alot i dont no what he wants tho. We dont live anywhere near each other so he shud av got over me by now every time he calls he always says that he misses me and then says that a love song is all about me i really want to get on with my life i like talking to him but i dont want to be responible for him!!! what do u think he is feeling and what do u thnk i' am feeling.. i suppose i want to keep him as a back up and maybe he feels the same but if i think that i get upset...HELP
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reader, amyCorreia  +, writes (28 July 2008):
Please don't keep him as a 'backup'. That is just not right.Probable, when you both find someone special for you, you'll get over the past. This is just a temp phase until you start seeing someone else. Just remember the reason why you both broke up and analyse it again. If you think you both were wrong and both are willing to make things right again, then you should get back together.
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