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writes:I don't understand...why do some girls feel ticklish during oral sex and others not? I've been with this one girl for about a month and a half on and off and a couple times I got the impression from her body language that she did not want oral sex...A few times when she was more inebriated she seemed to like it, but one time she explicitly told me "It tickles," as I went down on her, something I came across once before with another girl. I hate when I get that response! I know it is selfish of me, but I like to give oral sex and I don't like being denied. My last girlfriend absolutely loved oral sex...was this a fluke? Do some girls just not really like it? Any advice would be much appreciated thanks...
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reader, Female user with answers +, writes (28 May 2014):
Hi
Ticklish down under here.
So it has been only a few . When I mean few I really mean 2! That have been able to go down on me. Over all I would say it tickles the most when done lightly. Also it is definitely a comfort thing. If I am a bit nervous it will tickle a lot. Drinking prior to oral sex play has helped. In regards to actual stimulating. Try using your tongue more on the side of the clitoris not the head of the clitoris
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reader, howcomehoney  +, writes (27 July 2008):
 The reason it's tickling her is because she isn't relaxed enough. She needs to be completely at ease before she will let herself take pleasure from oral sex. That's why she was okay with it when she was drunk - she found it easier to relax. It's not a question of being ticklish, it's just because when you aren't at ease, your body sees that kind of contact as a sort of invasion and reacts accordingly.
What you need to do is take it slowly. Don't push her too hard, because if she does let you do it, it will end up tickling her again. Lots of foreplay. Tell her she's beautiful. Make sure she is completely relaxed and turned on. Does she prefer the lights off? Lights on? Everything should be the way she likes it, to make her more at ease. I'm sure this will all work out for you, it just might take some time (but hey, working on it is fun too!).
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008): As far as tickling goes. Next time that you go down on her take your time and have her tell you exactly where it tickles and what exactly you are doing at that moment and just try to find a diffrent way to do it. Cause I have noticed that when my husband goes down on me if he spends to much time on one specific area then it begins to tickle. So i just tell him to move on. Also a tickling sensation could mean that you made her come. Hope this helps.
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (27 July 2008):
 I'll let the female "aunts" address the question of ticklish.
I do know that some women are extremely sensitive down there, and have to be dealt with very carefully. Several ladies of my experience, for example, did much better if I used a lubricant (KY or other water-based lube ... you don't want to be "eating" a silicone-based lube) during the process. It sort of "spread out" the sensation for them, and it also prevented chafing.
I have gotten some issues because of ticklishness due to my beard and mustache, especially in the belly and on the inner thighs. But I tend to be very oral and like to spend a lot of time exploring various areas quite thoroughly.
But as far as "why", well, some people are just more ticklish than others. My girlfriends have often been disgusted by the fact that they can tickle my ribs or feet as long as they like and never get a response. I just don't tickle. But they really don't like it when I do it to them, for the most part.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (27 July 2008):
 Some women here have said they don't like it, and to each their own preference. Some perhaps have simply not experienced it, or have not experienced it done well. Others are afraid that their aroma or taste will be unpleasant for their man, but if healthy and clean, this is rarely a real problem. As for my personal experience (about 40 years worth), I cannot recall any woman "complaining" about tickles although I've often sported a fairly large mustache.
On the other hand, some techniques when performing cunnilingus are intended to tickle a bit. Certainly, lightly brushing a mustache or lips up and down the inner thighs and around the mound should give a tickling sensation, but I've always thought it was part of the arousal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008): has she ever gone down on you ? if no then thats why she hasent let u do 2 her, mabey if you try coming on 2 her differently ie, instead of rough try romanticly , soft kisses on lips, neck,stomach, inside her leg, stroking her legs, whilst doing this totaly forget about touching her down there just try and turn her on this way first , then after give it a nother go, you may be suprised
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