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Should I pursue this online relationship with this girl? We live 400 miles apart.

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Question - (27 July 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 July 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hey everyone, I would really like anyones help on this little situation I'm in.

A little while back I met a girl online through an extremely large art website (deviantART for those of you wishing to know) so her and I started talking on there and on Instant Messenger, jump ahead a few days, we both begin to like each other more.

I've been through this online dating stuff before, however this time it's a bit different. For one, I actually know who I'm talking to and also this time around, she actually lives somewhat close to me (about 400 miles from me)

Both of us are able to meet each other, just not right now being that both of us are going to college.

Anyways I wanted to know if I should continue to pursue this or if you all think it won't ever work, just a quick FYI, she's 19 and I'm 21

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A female reader, xxbecksyxx United Kingdom +, writes (27 July 2008):

xxbecksyxx agony auntTalk to her more, get to know her better, and when you both finish college maybe talk about meeting up somewhere.

Just remember that not everyone you meet online are genuine. Take precautions before you decide to meet her.

Good luck x

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A female reader, molly4 Australia +, writes (27 July 2008):

molly4 agony auntI think that you should continue to be friends with her, and get to know eachother better, but not to anything official until you know that you will be able to see eachodther, and go out together. You would hate to find out that you are great talking online but not in real life...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008):

You have nothing to lose really.

You can even suggest meeting up on a weekend somewhere.

But keep in mond that net relationships rarely, if ever, work out and most go onto either death or a pretty close friendship.

Flynn 24

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