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writes:I'm 13 and i know im not Gay. I like women and i want to have sex with a women. When i see 2 gay people kiss i get digusted. There is this kid that's a year older than me, i think he is a slight bit gay. Sometimes when I'm just thinking about stuff, i think sexual thoughts about him and things like that, but not like kissing and stuff, weird thngs, not like look him in the face sort of thing, but diffrent stuff, it's hard to explain. Am I Gay? or am i just bi-curious, i think I'm thinking sexual stuff about him because i think he is little and would be wore likely to do those sort of things, because all the girls i know,don't even think about sex, am i just desperate or confused? or am i gay??
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008): Going by your follow-up, seems I was right - you're so sexed-up but poss too young to do anything about it for a while yet. Except of course, keeping regular dates with Mrs. Palmer and her 5 daughters.
Good luck mate.
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reader, xxbecksyxx  +, writes (27 July 2008):
 Don't worry about getting a girl to perform oral for you just yet. You're too young for that. And don't worry about getting a serious girlfriend just yet, either. You're in highschool.I agree with FinnMcCool, you're just having a fantasy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008): It sounds like purely a sex thing young man. I don't think you're 'gay' for one minute, especially as you say two men kissing disgusts you - as it does all hetero men - believe me!
Us guys have sexual thoughts about all sorts of situations but rarely find ourselves there in reality. You sound like you're highly-sexed and imagining sexual encounters with the most unlikeliest of people. Normal.
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reader, kastheshizz +, writes (27 July 2008):
 babe your only 13 you dont know yet but it seems to me that your just curious alot of people can be it will pass and if not then you just have to accept your sexual relations to men:)
hope i can help.
coco(:
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008): it's not like i like guys, it's just i think i'm so desprate for a women to preform actions including oral, that i'm desprate to get it from anyone. I don't want to "recieve" and i don't like emn's genitals or i'm not attracted to the man itself. I think i just need to find a woman who would actually even go out with me(my school is so retarted, if anyone dates anyone its like they shot the president) no one hasn't even "dated since fith grade and in septmember i'll be in 7th grade
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reader, xxbecksyxx +, writes (27 July 2008):
You're at a confusing part of your life, considering you're 13.
What I think is happening, is you're just experiencing new things and are slightly confused about this boy you know. It is quite common that adolescents experience feelings for members of the same sex. You don't have to be gay to be feeling this. It's just a normal teenage fantasy, which everyone will encounter, at some point in their life.
Don't worry about it. x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (27 July 2008):
You have so many hormones in your body right now that it's actually causing you to grow a foot in height and get new hair folicles.
It'd be silly to think they are not going to have some effect on your thoughts as well.
It could be that you are bi-curious. Many teens go through a stage of being attracted to someone of the same sex. You might stop thinking this and have lots of girlfriends in the future or it could be the first sign that you will be Bisexual or even gay. No one can tell at this point.
I wouldn't worry about these feelings just accept that they are there and that they will probably go away in a month or two.
You shouldn't feel disgusted when you see 2 men kissing. Just accept that some men are gay and there is nothing wrong with that.
Good Luck!! xx
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