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*upcake22
writes:i was wondering.me and my b/f has been datin 4 7 mths and he dosnt rlly pressure me he has told me he wants to do it..im ready and i want to have sex with my b/f but im a lil scared tht he might not be the one should i give him my virginlatity or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (27 July 2008):
 Although you have been with him for 7 months, and you are not sure he is the one. Are you scared to give your virginity to him because you guys may break up in the future?Have you discussed with him about the future and where this relationship is going? It seems to me you are on the lookout for Mr Right, and to you he has to be worthy of your virginity being taken by that guy. I must say I am a little surprised at your age you have waited this long to have sex. Look just go with the flow and then see how you feel.
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reader, xxbecksyxx +, writes (27 July 2008):
 You've found a boyfriend that will wait until you are completely ready. If you want to have sex with him, and have considered the consequences, then give it a go. You'll never know until you try.
However, if you still have a few worries, talk them over with him and try to come to a conclusion about what you are or aren't comfortable with. If he loves you, he'll wait.
Just remember to take precautions against potential pregnancies or STD's.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008): Your body is your own.
I personally believe that if you are having a few doubts then you should wait until you have resolved or gotten over them. Your boyfriend is sweet and is waiting for you. There's no hurry.
IF you lost your virginity to your boyfriend and he was NOT the one how would this affect you and how would you feel?
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x +, writes (27 July 2008):
 If you feel you are ready to, then I think you should do it. You're not going to know whether he is "the one" or not until you either do it or until you realise he isn't. Either way, as long as you are ready it shouldn't matter whether he was or not. Most people don't lose their virginity to "the one", but if you like him a lot or love him and if you both feel you are ready to, go ahead. And good luck!Wishing you the best.xx
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (27 July 2008):
 If you want to, why not. If you feel you need to, no.
It is your choice and nobody elses.
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