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writes:My question is probably a bit hard to answer but i'm just basically asking to see other peoples experiences and hopefully try and not worry. The first time i had sex it hurt but i didnt bleed. Then the second time it hurt a little at the strat and i bled. Will i bleed on my next time too? I really dont want to bleed again? And will the pleasure get better?Thanks..x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008): Not sure how long you will bleed for or at what try it will get better. That kind of thing varies from person to person. I didn't ever bleed but as I recall it took roughly 7 or 8 times before I started to enjoy having sex. But yes eventually, with time, it will become more pleasurable. First though you have to learn what you like and you can only do that through experience. I think the amount of enjoyment you get out of it also has to with becoming comfortable with your partner, letting him no what you like and finding out what works for the both of you. Hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008): Thinking back to my first secual experience, I too didnt bleed the first time did on the second. The third to be honest I dont remember, but am pretty sure I didnt. The bleeding will stop - all that happened is your hymen was broken, its completely normal.
As for pleasure... in my experience sex isnt just something that is great. It doesnt matter how experienced you or your partner is, what makes it great is the bond you have, how much you trust them, the relationship you have.
Yes,some people have great sex with strangers but I genuinally believe that sex with a partner you love is always better. You can experience newthings together, talk to him about what you like or think you may like, try different things. get to know each others physically.
Hope this helps!
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