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writes:Ok i know this sounds perfetic but i was ment to see my bf 2nite weve been out 7 months and only spent 3 nites apart,anyway weve been shouting a lot recently and now 2nite he said we need to spend a few nites apart to see if we moan at each other less, it like one nite seeing each other and one nite off for the next couple of weeks to see. he said he wants to save the relationship and thats the only way it will work as we practicly see each other every day and live out each others pocket, But i think hes trying to get rid of me even tho he says hes trying to save it. am i being wrong and just trust what hes saying hes a lot more experienced with relationships then me what do you guys think. do i agree with his choose to save it? xxxxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): Give him a bit of space men need their own space. It will proberly do you some good too :). x
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reader, Destiny28  +, writes (28 July 2008):
Hmm...well... this all depends on the actual relationship... you haven't given enough info about the two of you. Was the realtionship intense when you started having these arguments or fights? What are you actually fighting about? Is it small things or fundemental things? How much do you trust him? There's a lot of factors involved here before being able to draw a true conclusion but you are here looking for advice which is great but you are to some extent worried and suspicious or it seem to be out of his ordinary behaviour. Give it a couple of days and a good suggestion would be to go out and enjoy yourself keep yourself busy with other stuff let him see you having your own life and that he can see that you can survive and still have fun no your own without him being around... enjoy life and put this energy on something else... let me know how you go!!! Good luck!!!!
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (28 July 2008):
 Hey sweet,
I think a couple of days to cool down will be best for the both of you. It sounds like you may be getting a little crazy being around each other so much... maybe not being around each other all the time will be better for you. After all, distance does make the heart grow fonder! I really think your boyfriend is trying to do the best for your relationship together.
xx India
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (28 July 2008):
 well you got to ask yourself why are you arguing so much? to much to soon maybe ? your both adults so why are you both moaning alot? maybe your not ready to live in each other pockets. if he is sick of arguements and thinks if your not their for say 3 days a week hey sounds good to me less moaning to listen to..or you could suggest you wear headphones lmao.. sorry this is serious *gets game face on*..you need to think about why you argue thats the cause of this do you think time apart will cure the arguements? well maybe he does..best advice sort the reason out why you argue would be best bet to go with.. hope that helps aphexy xx
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