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He said he only "liked" me, but would wait for me, and then he cheated. Should I take him back?

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Question - (27 July 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 September 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *mileee94 writes:

Ok. There is a guy that I have had a thing with for a while. We decided not to start dating yet and to wait about a month or two. He told me he only liked me and would wait as long as it took, and everything always seemed fine between us. Well I just found out that he had been with another girl a couple of times behind my back and wasn't going to tell me. My best friend was the one that finally did tell me. When I confronted him about it, he begged for forgiveness and told me it was a mistake and that he would never do it again, and that he was truly sorry. I told him I needed some time to think alone and we could discuss it at another time.

I dont know what to do though!! I really really really do like him but I just can't trust him anymore. Was it wrong of him to that to me and hide it, or was it Ok because we aren't really "together". But he had made me promises, that he broke. I want to take him back but i dont know if thats the right thing to do. Please, what should I do?

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A female reader, Aunty Em United Kingdom +, writes (19 September 2008):

Aunty Em agony auntI think in your heart of hearts you already know the answer as you ask them in your questions.

Together or not, he promised you certain things and failed to deliver. Not only that, but he lied to you about them afterwards. If you're certain you can't ever trust him again with your heart, you have no grounds for a successful relationship.

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