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writes:A couple of months ago my friend told me she like the boy i liked...and i found out he liked me...we went to a party...flirted hidiously and then spent the whole night together and she completely cut me off...all my friends sed she should just be happy for me because i was when she did it to me...Now things have got really nasty and i dnt want him to feel like its his fault but i want to sort it out... Reply to this Question
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (11 September 2007):
 well she proberly feels betrayed as she confided in you about her crush and you went and dated him still, so its understandable shes a little angry. All you can do here is let her cool off and give her time to get past this.
Though i find it hard for people to think she should be happy for you if your dating someone she likes, from my personal experience i found it hard (though my friend didnt do this to me)
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reader, becca07 +, writes (11 September 2007):
 hey
it seems like your friend is jelose of u. if ur friend was a good friend then they would be pleased for you. however i can see why your friend is mad but they wount be mad for you forever. jus let the dust settle, try not to be nasty to your friend and ask her out on the weekend shopping or somthing but without the boy so you to can bond again. you and your new boyfriend will have to try your hardest to be nice to the girl even if she is nasty to you. after a while if she is a true friend she will see sence and be happy for you.
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reader, superbunny +, writes (11 September 2007):
 Maybe your friend is feeling a little betrayed because you knew how much she liked this guy? Although, it's probably jealousy more than anything else - give her time, she'll cool off eventually, I'm sure. :]
You should talk to her about it, when it's just the two of you. Invite her over your house, or talk on the phone. x
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