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anonymous
writes:I had been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months when i went on holiday for a week for a hen party, my boyfriend gave me such a hard time about it thinking that i was going to cheat on him. About a week after i came home he started getting some problems with his private bits we had to go to the STD clinic to be tested, He had caught chlamydia but i did not have it, he denies that he cheated on me, i want to believe him but find it hard too.Is it possible that he already had it before we started our relationship and i just did not catch it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2007): Well , there are some red flags here. HE was freaking out about you cheating on him, then you come home & he's got a std? Hmm...I think he cheated. And if you've had unprotected sex (without a condom) for the past 6 months there is no chance you would have not caught chlamydia by now. It is a bacterial infection, very easy to catch. Have you gone to a dr. to make sure you do not have it? There are often no symptoms in women, so you may indeed have it & just don't know it. Have you had sex without a condom from the time you came home to the time he was diagnosed with the std?
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reader, L.O.S.E.R.  +, writes (11 September 2007):
 I advice you to ask a doctor...clever,huh?No,seriously,just call any kind of health service phone line and ask them that as a hypothetical question since they're way more expert than anyone of us here could be:)Hope they'll say 'yes' as a reply lol,good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): hmmm. I do believe that in men, chlamydia symptoms usually start within a couple of weeks of contracting it. Something to think about. And clearly he should be TOTALLY understanding about your concern. Jeez.
If he didn't cheat on you, then who did he catch it from?? And when?? He should be trying to find this all out right now so that at least he can put your mind to rest. Certainly if that was me I would be doing that. And I would be totally understanding of my bf's concern.
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