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writes:So I met this guy in my group from an orientation for school. The group exchanged phone numbers. WHY was this necessary? I'm not quite sure but it was initiated by some girl in the group.Anyways, the same guy got my number and called me throughout the week to hang out, watching movie/dinner. I finally decided to go with him .. as friends. We went to watch a movie...but right afterwards I had to leave to go somewhere so he made me promise id go eat dinner with him another time. Took a bit of his persuading but later I gave into it. So last night we went out to eat, after eating dinner we went to play pool...everything was friendly friendly until after playing pool and we were taking a long walk to the car. He tried to hold my hands and I swinging my hands as a joke and 'swung' his hands off mine. Later in the car a friend called to check up on me..and some how he got ahold of my hands again. I admit I probably sound pretty immature about this whole thing but I really have no intentions of being his new gf or anything...which HE probably wants. I have no problems being friends but how can I tell him this now?..that I dont have the feelings for him.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (11 September 2007):
 The only thing you can be here is totally honest with him with how you feel. If you don't tell him he is going to build his hopes up that he stands a chance leading him to a even bigger fall. Tell him sooner rather than later, the longer you leave it the harder it will get. It will be a weight off your shoulders as you know you will have done the right thing. Tell him your sorry but you can never see him as anything more than just a friend.
All the best x
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