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reader, stina +, writes (11 September 2007):
 Hello again Charleston,
You should only have sex if you both feel comfortable with it. Have you two talked about it before? If you're reluctant to even bring it up with your guy, then my personal opinion is that you're not ready. But I'm not you, only you can determine when the best time is for yourself. And coming to that conclusion will probably partially depend on how the talk with your boyfriend goes, as well.
Sorry I can't be of more help, but I think that highly personal decisions like this should be made by the person asking the question.
Take care.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (11 September 2007):
 If you truly are in the age group that you indicate, why do you ask this question? You certainly should have the wisdom by now to decide this for yourself!
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reader, charleston_belle +, writes (11 September 2007):
charleston_belle is verified as being by the original poster of the question We want to have sex now and I'm really afraid to take it to that level. We have been seeing each other for 4 months now and I know that this day in time, that's long enough as far as sex goes. I feel totally comfortable in every way with him and I am just wondering if that will be the case sex wise also! I'm sorry I didn't make my question a little more detailed before!=)Has it been long enough? Do you think I should wait a while longer?
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reader, kenny  +, writes (11 September 2007):
 Like stina says, the next step could mean a number of things, next step in a relationship, like marriage or to start having sex.
If you elaborate a little more as to what you mean to will get more answers to you question.
All the best x
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reader, stina +, writes (11 September 2007):
Hello Charleston Belle,
What do you mean by next step? Do you mean sex or marriage...? Please give more details so we can give sound answers to your question.
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