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*lostluv
writes:Hi, well I am in a situation that I don't know how to get out of. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 7 years. All of 7 we fight. She is very aggressive, tempered. I am kind of scared of her but then again I'm not. Everyday we argue. EVERYDAY. I have starting to have depression problem, panic attacks, and more. I want to try to work it out but it is hard. I can never speak what's on my mind without her taking it the wrong way. If i do say whats on my mind its either i have a fly mouth or i get hit. What do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, lilmizagony +, writes (12 September 2007):
leave her if you have been fighting for 7 years then you ent going to sort it out move on plus noone should have to be scared of there partner take control of your life you can do so much better you only in your 20s find someone else someone better someone who really loves you before its 2 late hope that helps hunnie xxx
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reader, honestheart  +, writes (12 September 2007):
You must leave this woman right away. Love is displayed by kindness and trust, not violence and abuse. You are an abused spouse whether you like it or not. There are support networks out there who help men as well as women and you may benefit from seeing a counsillor. If your relationship has been like this for 7 years, she will never change. If you feel you can't leave just yet, see a councillor and inform your girlfriend that next time she becomes violent you will be filing charges.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (12 September 2007):
Run away from this relationship. You must be confusing the fighting for love. Is this the kind of relationship you want?
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (12 September 2007):
Leave her. Now. You don't deserve being hit. I think you're more worried about what she'll do if you tell her you're leaving her, but you must.
How much love can there be if you're scared of her. Look at what it is doing to you, triggering panic attacks and anxiety. Walk, right now.
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (12 September 2007):
 Leave her. Your starting to react physiologically to a being in an abusive relationship. Imagine the peace and quiet you will have when you are on your own. You cannot change her, but can change yourself and your circumstances. Be a man and get control of your life back.
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