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30-35,
*pfpmo
writes:I have been goin out wid my gf for a while now n we see each other most nights. After a week or so i started touching her which she doesnt mind at all she enjoys it. i have also given her oral sex, i dont mind doing it it turns me on however she never returns the favour. she refuses to use her mouth on me and has onli used her hands like twice. I get the feeling i am being used as she told me bout this other guy that she was with for onli 2 weeks and in that time had sex and oral sex with him. she keeps talkin bout how fit he is and relates most conversations to him. am i bein paraniod or am i bein used??
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reader, Gemini1506 +, writes (15 September 2007):
maybe with this other guy hurt her so she wants to take things slow.
or she simply doesnt like it, either way you cant force her to do anything she dont want to do. give her space and maybe one day she will return the favour.
she aint using u love
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reader, superbunny +, writes (11 September 2007):
 First of all, have you considered that she may not want to rush into things? Sure, she had this guy, but maybe she wants to slow it down a bit, maybe she didn't enjoy performing oral sex? If so, that's something you need to consider.
I'm a great believer in you shouldn't do something for someone in order to get it back, or expect something back.
I know it's a cliche, but you should try talking to her and also about how uncomfortable her talking about this guy is making you feel. If she's any sort of girl, she'll respect that and respect you for talking to her about it.
Hope everthing works out for the best. :] x
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