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How long should our break last? Will we be able to get back together and move on?

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Question - (11 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 September 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I had been together for four years. About 5 months ago he got drunk and kissed a girl, but told me that night and apologized. I attempted to get over it but was devastated for the next few months. I lost the emotional aspect of our attraction and in that time pushed him away.

We broke up this past weekend in order to spend time apart and determine if we are truly right for each other. Do you think we will be able to get back together and move on? And how long should we be apart?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007):

I have forgiven him and gotten over it. But I feel like he has not forgotten the way I treated him for the past few months. I know we need to be apart for a while to determine how much we care about each other. I need to know how to get him back and if you think he will come back?

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A female reader, L.O.S.E.R. Serbia +, writes (11 September 2007):

L.O.S.E.R. agony auntHe JUST kissed her?AND apologized you on the SAME night?Oh girl,PLEASE try to get over it if you love him cause it's soooooooooo NOT big deal.I think you'll certainly be able to get back together...just if you'll be able to get close to him again.Definitely it's no big deal at all,I just hope you'll realize that too before you push him away forever:(Try not to be apart for a long period though and start enjoying in what you have with him:)Hope I've been helpful.x

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