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writes:well my prob is:iv known this guy really well for quite a long time now and we've always been really close, i tell him everything and he always helps me and is there for me.the problem is i am now starting to fall for him really bad, i cant get him out of my head. Thats the one thing i havent told him but iv been thinking about him for ages and even start to cry myself to sleep about it. But thats not the worst of it, im only 15 and he is 18 going on 19. Please help as it is driving me insane and really muffing up all my school work, hes the one iv always told about my problems but this seems to be the one thing i cant.. help x Reply to this Question
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reader, Emzy1591 +, writes (12 September 2007):
 Why dont u try asking him out? Im 15 and ive been out with an 18 year old. It sounds like you really like him so why not find out if something could happen?
Secondly you do need to focus on ur schoolwork, maybe talking to this guy and explaining how you feel my help u focus a bit more because the feeling could either be mutual or not. if it is mutual then you can concentrate on ur schoolwork knowing he will be there after you've finished. Im in the same situation as you except my guys moving away. If i was you, speak to him.
Mail me if u want more help
xxxx
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (11 September 2007):
 okay i no what it feels like to go thru tht kinda thing but seriously, u need to somehow focus ur mind back on ur school work wiv gcses coming up u need to focus and u cnt if hes in ur mind.... and rele u jst need to sort out the situation between the pair of you otherwise its gonna bug u like crazy i no been there...but seriously it seems to be a dificult situation for u but it might be hormones???
not sure as i dnt no u only from wat u said, bt sort the work and tlk to the boy..tht should sort things out
Good luck
mail me if u wanna tlk more
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reader, superbunny +, writes (11 September 2007):
 Honey, sounds like you've got yourself in a bit of a muddle! :[
Well, as boring as this is going to sound, you've got to sort out your head about your school work. Trust me, I just messed up my A Levels because I was quite lazy and quite besotted about my then-boyfriend.
You're going through so many changes atm, so it's not suprising you've developed deeper feelings for someone you're normally close to.
Try to focus on guys a similar age to you; older guys who go out with younger girls [at that age] are sometimes more trouble than their worth.
Hope everything turns out okay.
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