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*razySEXYc00l557
writes:Okie, so this is the deal, me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now and we have has sex only about four times already, but every time we do have sex, he cums too fast [in like 2 minutes!]and leaves me unsatisfied. Without taking pills or crazy organic crap and without seekin medical advice is there any way he can keep himself from cuming so fast? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): My boyfriend had the same problem and in the end things got easier as he got more relaxed about the sex - things can be a little 'trigger happy' at the start. Give it some time and maybe spend longer over foreplay or there are some techniques (look in a sex guide or similar) that a woman and man can do to slow him down a bit (things like withdrawing and relaxing again as he feels he is about to come). Try and be, as you are, as supportive as possible through this time as frustration on both your parts will lead to further problems.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (11 September 2007):
Every minute and a half have him pull out, the squeeze arround the head of the penis until he begins to soften. With his help keep this process unti you see how long he can last. Have him think of non sexual things. Make it a game.Another idea is to just let him cum and start over immediately. I find I slow down after the 5th time.
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