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Can a lasting relationship come out of cheating, and how does it feel to be the "other guy" ?

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Question - (11 September 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 September 2007)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

A couple of questions:

What does it feel like to be the "other guy"?

Is it possible to have a relationship with a girl you've been cheating with?

Can a lasting relationship come out of this scenario?

Any tips/hints/suggestions you could provide would be helpful. I am about to leave a dead relationship and the "other guy" has sparked feelings in me I've never had with anyone - I feel like I could actually marry this guy and have his babies - something I never felt with my ex. I am trying to figure out if there is any way this could work between us. I am crazy about him.

He says he wants this too and waited patiently, without any pressure while I packed up and am now picking up the pieces. We talk and text all day, every day since we've met.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007):

Yes it can work. I left my ex after being together 5 years for a friend of his that I had known the entire time. We all used to hang out. We've been together about 18 months, I have his baby another on the way and were getting married this weekend. So go for it..

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A female reader, sexi South Africa +, writes (11 September 2007):

sexi agony auntHi

This can definately work. I have done the exact same thing. Last year i left my relationships (of 2 years) i felt there was nothing left.I am now in another relationship which i started last year and this month would be a year that we are together. My current bf has made me so happy more then i have ever been and i dont regret 1 moment of ever leaving my other relationship.I love this guy and he is the one. I would say go for it and be happy.Im happy, you could be too.

Regards,mail me if you wanna talk

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007):

I am sure that it can work. You are just two people that found each other and have a very strong connection that you have not had elsewhere. Good luck.

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