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anonymous
writes:Hello,I cannot decide what to do. I need outside advice. My son's father who I still care for somewhat wants to come back. I left him before my son was born, not sure if it was my pregnancy hormones or what. Now he makes excuses to come over to my house. We have been split for, (well I can't really say because we keep going back to each other because he always finds a way to keep in touch)let's say 2 years. Ok in this time frame he went back to his ex. He left her in the beginning of this year moved to another state and tried to get me to move with him, I declined. He packed up from there came back to our state moved back in with her. He has recently left her again. He is now with another young lady who he tells me the thrill is already lost with her. I told him he is not giving the new girl a chance. Anyway he keeps hinting at us, I am confused I thought he just wanted to be my friend now he wants to take it further. Sometimes when I feel lonely I would like to take it further too. But something keeps telling me to be cautious. Can anyone help. What does this man want from me. I never bother him in his relationships, ever. So if he has someone new. And I have a significant other. Why does he want to be more than friends. Although I am not sure of his intentions don't we both owe it to ourself to try these new relationships. I Thank You all in advance for your replies.
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reader, faith scott boreanaz  +, writes (11 September 2007):
 My advice is to stay just as friends he seems quite unfaithul and rash. you do need to give these new relationships a chance. if he acts like he wants to take it further explain you just want to be friends, if he asks why say you feel it would be better for your son insted of you two ruinning a perfectly good friendship. All the best XfaithX
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): he loves you silly. Stop having cold feet and go for it.
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