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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi a few weeks ago I accused my gf of cheating on me and demanded to see her paycheck. She didn't cheat of course I act jealous a lot but she got mad really mad and started slapping me. The next day I slapped her to see how she would react and she slapped me more. After we made up we said we wouldn't do that stuff but I got mad at her a while later and slapped her again. I never slapped her before all this, am I what they call an abuser because I hit a woman or is it equal level because she hit me too? Shouldn't it be an equal thing or should a man hold himself back no matter what? It doesn't seem so fair but I know society would disapprove more of me than her. What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): You're both messed up. And yes, a man should not hit a woman, if she slapped you 1st you should have just walked away & perhaps ended it if you can't trust her.
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reader, In_need_of_advice  +, writes (11 September 2007):
I think you both have a lot of growing up to do. Slapping one another solves absolutely nothing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): i think u should both stop slappin equally.
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