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*exiestgirlalive18
writes:I always fight and argue with my boyfriend. I am always the one starting the arguments and always blaming him for everything. I know and I can see that it is hurting him and I dont know how to stop doing that. It hurts me because i put him through everything that aint his fault. When I was being raised i always seen fighting and arguing and maybethat is why i am like i am. I just want to quit fighting and be nice. He loves me to death and will never leave me he says and I love him to death and i couldnt see myself without him what can I do about this. Someone please help i dont want to lose him. After a while i just get really mad or i feel really guilty for putting him through this but i do it again. I just dont know what to does someone please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2007): You obviously need help on this, perhaps counselling or something.I imagine that when you're in one of your foul moods he'll think you're anything but 'the sexiest girl alive'!Don't kid yourself that he loves you too much to leave you. I'm willing to bet that if a calmer, more level-headed alternative passes his way he'll realise what a destructive relationship he's now in and move on.Phil
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reader, 1lostluv +, writes (11 September 2007):
 Well I think before you two start arguing you should think first is it worth going through all of that, then think before you speak. I am having the same problems but it is her that always blame me. I just pray, and try to have hope. Keep your head up. It will soon get better
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (11 September 2007):
 Is there a way you can get into some anger management counseling? It sounds like you have other issues and are just using your boyfriend as a whipping boy to vent your frustrations on. The counseling may even be free or of minimal cost to you. Check it out. Anger management is relatively easily done with good therapy. Get going and good luck.
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