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*ei26
writes:I was working in the same company were my Bf is the co-owner we're leaving together for almost 9 months. He's a hot and attractive guy. I can tell that coz a lot of our employee has a crush on him. One of the employee really likes him to the point that she was offering her body towards him. This girl was my friend before but when somebody told me that she was spreading gossip that my Bf likes her I stop talking to her and told her to back off. I really don't know whats the real score between them, when I asked my guy if he likes the girl he said NO and I'm the greatest girl for him!! Until one weekend he went out for a drink with this girl and other employee's. He went home really drunk and suddenly he cried out. He confessed what he did in the bar. He said when he went to the comfort room to pee the girl followed him and insisted to give him head because he was so drunk he can't control his self and he let the girl to go down on him. According to him he didn't finished because he suddenly remember me so she stop the girl. This girl was the reason why we almost break up before coz I found out that they were exchanging text, he put the girls name under a friend name to hide it from me and he's kinda attracted to her. He asked for second chance that he'll not gonna do it again, that time he was crying and I seen the guilt feelings while he was saying sorry. but he was drunk when he confessed it. When he was sober he explained everything to me he say he was honest now and can't hide, It just so happened because he was so drunk and the girl initiated the move. It was so painful when i heard it. Its like I was broken and teared coz he cheated on me.I wanna kick the girl coz she's really a dirty slut. I need an advise what to do with the girl that until now is still working in the company. To my Bf that I know I love him and I can forgive him but the problem now is I can't trust him, I don't have peace of mind. I'm afraid that he might able to it again.
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reader, kei26 +, writes (12 September 2007):
kei26 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI confronted the girl yesterday and she said its my bf who told her to follow in the comfort room while he was taking a pee. I told her to resign coz I don't want to see her anymore. She said she was drunk that's why she give my bf head. I also asked my guy about what the girl said to me, he said she wasn't telling the truth she was making story. I'm confuse now, who's telling the truth? If he really wants to cheat on me why he needs to confess everything to me when he got home. Why he really feel sorry about what he did. Now he was afraid that I might do some revenge. He suddenly feel distant coz he was thinking that I'm sneaking out while I was in the office. To think we're working on the same office. I'm afraid that it will happen again. I can't afford to lose him but I can't trust him now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): Why are you so worried only about the girl? I be watching out for your B/F as well. I wouldn't trust him, he must have been planning something if he hid her number in he's phone, alarm bells ringing here? This girl really wants your b/f, your b/f obviously attracted to her and let her give him head. I see him cheating on you again, sorry
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): NO WAY!! Tell him to buggar off! Sorry to be so blunt but that is how i see it.
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