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*ecca07
writes:On sunday, i was really unwell with womens problems and i had a migraine. i really wanted my boyfriend to come over and pick me up because like every girl gets, i was tearful and upset and felt although i really needed a cuddle. the day before we went to a theame park and he drove for 5 hours so he was tired. anyway..... i was really upset, dont know why (like every girl get sometimes.) however the rugby was on the whole day. i felt lonly and he didnt care. i dont even like rugby but i was begging him to come and pick me up jus to have a cuddle cos it would make me feel loads better an i didnt wanna cry myself 2 sleep. the worse thing was i was so desperate for him to pick me up tha i sent him a text saying ' ill meet you by the shop in town, you can either come and pick me up or you can leave me there, its up 2 u.' he sent me one back saying 'have fun then' does he care? i was feeling extremly unwell but i was still prepared to meet him in town and wait for him and maybe he wasnt even going to go? why does he always choose rugby over me? i just wish that just once he would put me before rugby when i need him most. hes done it lots of times before. but now its really effecting me. thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): Dont worry, men/boys always put sport before everything it doesnt mean he dont love you in anyway its just how men are they dont understand womens feelings as long as he asked you if you was feeling okay then everythings fine and even if he didnt he probably just wants to sounds manly this can be at its worst in front of other men. Just ask him if he cares if your that worried but do it in a coversation dont just bring it up then he will think you are on to him. take care xx
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reader, Skeez +, writes (11 September 2007):
 He sounds like an ignorant person lovey.
Of course he should put you first before a silly game of rugby. Next time he asks you to come over just say no. becuase your doing something else.
Once you give this attitude back to him he will probably realise what he is doing. And if he doesnt then maybe breaking up with him would be best becuase he is disrespectful and doesnt seem to care about you as much as he should.
Yoo know you can do much much better hun
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