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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Have I blown it? Has she gone off me? I don't know what to do now!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help. I really like this girl that I've known for nearly a year but we've only got close recently. We both go to a dance school but at different places and we only see each other on Wednesday's at our Elite dance school. She lives about 30-45 minutes away from me. We ... (874 words)

Should I write my number down on a piece of paper and give it to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

1 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Just wondering as there is a girl I like who is in my regular cafe lol, I like her n I think she likes me because of the way we look at each other, If I wrote my number down an passed it to her on a piece of a paper? Is that a good idea or a bad 1? thanxs... (68 words)

He wants to wait 5 years to save for a house but I need security here, and I have 3 kids to think about.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - well first off i am in a long distance relationship, we are exactly 257 miles apart..i trust him completely and he trusts me..we are definitely in love..we met online, i drove there to meet him the first time and that was dec 29th..and we spent new year together...the thing is ... (488 words)

I feel like "we belong together" and like "he is MINE". I sound like a stalker!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 33 and I've started seeing a guy who I really like. We've only seen each other a few times but have known each other for almost 6 months. We click. The feelings I have for him I've never had for anybody else before, and I'm quite shocked that I could feel like this out ... (215 words)

What is the best way to approach a woman (in a bookstore)?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - when you approach a woman at a bookstore, is it better to do so when she is sitting and reading, or when she is looking around at books at the store? surely women do come to look around as well?... (41 words)

He has no time for me any more and lies about his porn on the PC

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) age 51-59 - hi there dont know what to do got a bit of a problem what would you think if your partner was downloading porn on the computer you told him you didnt like it the first time and how it hurt you espicially when he said he didnt until you showed him what you had found .Then he ... (169 words)

I'm in love with two people...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Help, I think that I'm in love with two people. I'm a 23 year old single mom. I first got involved with this 33 year old who now wants to marry me after a very abusive relationship with my child's father. He has a great job and everything going for himself, but for the past 4 ... (185 words)

Am I wrong to keep being friends with him or am I just punishing myself doing that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I doing the right thing? My boyfriend and I have currently called it quits. It was hard to believe that it could end, he would tell me he wanted to be with me forever and hint at moving in together and perhaps one day having children, but it did. However, we've talked and... (315 words)

My boyfriend and I fight all the time, how can we learn to communicate properly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5974 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I really need help. My boyfriend and I are having differences, and when there is a fight ...he yells so much and then blames me for starting the fight and then goes on saying that i am manipulating him and or the situation and that i am making myself look like the victim. ... (106 words)

I don't seem to be able to trust my boyfriend, I know he loves me to bits, it's just me... I can't help it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6439 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - i dont seem to be able to trust my boyfriend. i love him and i trust him with my life but when it comes to other women being around him it drives me crazy. anywhere where hes goin out with girls and friends and things, i want to be there. There hasn't been one relationship ... (198 words)

There are 8 of us living in a 3 bedroom house and it's driving me up the wall!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6289 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid... i dont know what to do. i have a really bad home life and its driving me up the walls. my parents are divorced and my mum currently has a boyfriend who lives with us along with his four kids. but the problem is only one of them is over 10 and i have to share a ... (134 words)

If you have sex before you start your peiod does it do any damage inside you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i am just wondering if you have sex before you start your peiods does it do any damage inside you. i have posted this questions 4 times and it doesnt seem to come up. i really need to know. i am sexually active although i am 16 i havnt yet stared periods and i never bleed ... (75 words)

How can I stop being so coy and gain a bit of confidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

1 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I'm 27 and have been single for around 5 months now. My problem is though that if a girl catches my eye in a club or pub etc. I have a total lack of confidence to approach her and I go clueless as to what to say to break the ice. Say for example even if I walk p... (171 words)

I'm asking about a medical operation that would remove a hymen.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - if there are doctors here, or people who happen to know: I'm asking about a medical operation that would remove a hymen. I would be curious about the costs, but that's not the place to ask that. So could you please tell me about the RISKS? Any operation must imply a risk... ... (96 words)

Please help, I feel my relationship is dead.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

1 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear All I feel my relationship is dead :( Basically, I was in love for the first time with an amazing girl. I had never loved someone like I did her and I'm not one of your average under sixteen teenagers who has an alleged 'girl friend' every other day! We were unof... (993 words)

What's the best way to get over someone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

- Im in my late 30's and I've just finished a 4 year relationship because i found out that he was cheating on me with another woman, i was devastated because i thought he was happy with me. How do I get over him? because i feel so depressed, i won't take him back but i really ... (88 words)

Please help me, I don't want to lose someone so important just because I'm scared.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im not the type of girl to fall in love... im not the type of girl who falls in love like most of my mates. I tend to stear clear of deep relationships because i know they end up with tears and broken hearts. ive been with my boyfriend now for a little over 3 months. Dont... (136 words)

I know she likes me and god I like her, I really want to tell her but don't know how to.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi me and this girl have been best friends since we were at juniors. For the past 3 yrs i have started to have feelings for her but i've kept them to myself. But these past few months its getting impossible for people not to notice. Everytime i was near here i wanted to hold ... (350 words)

We are both so insecure in our relationship, will things EVER get any better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey,, ive been with my boyfriend now for 3 months and have already had our fair share of problems. The thing is that we are both so insecure with ourselves that its nearly bloody impossible to keep our relationship goin. Our annerversay was this saturday gone and lets just say ... (117 words)

What's the chance of this actually succeeding and, if not, how long can such relationships last?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

1 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - This one is long, but my ultimate question after I have described the following relationship is, what's the chance of this actually succeeding and, if not, how longcan such relationships last? I have a 22 y/o guy friend who has been in a long-distance relationsh... (644 words)

I can't stop thinking about my girlfriend's previous partners.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

1 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriends previous partners Okay, I really need the help of the DearCupid Online community with this issue I'm having with my girlfriend of a year. I'm a 24 year old male, in a serious relationship with a 20 year old girl. We've been together for a year now and h... (556 words)

He says he'll never cheat on me again and wants me back but how do I know his affair was a one off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just had my divorce finalised to my husband of twenty years. We divorced as he had an affair for a few months with a 20 year old prostitute. He finished it after we split. Problem is that a few days ago we started being friendly to one another but one thing led to ... (126 words)

Three weeks ago my bf's ex-wife had moved back to town with her bf. They had a big fight and next thing you know she moved in with us with her 5 kids.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age - I have been with the same guy for a year and a half. Like most relationships it has had some bad times but more good times. We (until recently) had a 3 br apartment and 1 roommate. The roommate has three small kids and works part time. Three weeks ago my bf's ex-wife had ... (153 words)

I am 18 and pregnant and really don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Help! i am 18 and pregnant. i moved out of home a year ago and have lived in differnet places and have now got the perfect home. i live with my local vicar and his family. me and his 18 year old son got on from day one when we first met 2 years ago and when i moved in we hit it ... (115 words)

How can I bring her closer to me emotionally even if she dares not to break her marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

1 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm involved with a married woman and i do not want to lose her, I really love her so much and she is confused and she does try to forget me to make believe that is worthless trying. How can I bring her closer to me emotionally even if she dares not to break her marriage? Would ... (73 words)

She went on to say that in a relationship you should be willing to give up anything if you really love the person in your life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a lesbian. Recently my ex girlfriend said she wanted to have a relationship with me. She was adamant that I was the person she really wanted to be with. She has been back and forth between me and another person for years and it was very wearing. However she said and ... (695 words)

We have lived together just over a year and our contract is due to run out in 2 months and he wants to find seperate places to live.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a wonderful boyfriend and I love him to pieces and can't bear to think of my life without him but recently he's started a new job and we dont see each other much as he's working 50 hours at a restuarant then moonlighting at a secuity job Friday, Saturday and Sunday nites ... (230 words)

I fancy my teacher...........

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6249 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, I am in love (or at least fancy) my teacher. Everyone who has given me online advice says that this is perfectly normal although I can't talk to anybody because I know that It will become gossip. I think about him all the time and everyone says I should get a boyfriend but ... (125 words)

He chose to get drunk with his friends instead of spending time with me and it really hurt and angered me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently had an argument with my boyfriend for not showing up when he was supposed to - he chose to get drunk with his friends instead of spending time with me. He apologised the next day, but only spent a couple of hours with me and went out with his friends that night - i ... (129 words)

How can I make my stomach normal (both sides the same?)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) - dear cupid i have posted a question before and never got a reply and i need male advice, here the link from the previos question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-get-my-stomach-to-look.html and i would like any one to either help me get both side of the stomach t... (64 words)

My ex said he needed space which I respected but now he won't stop contacting me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

- I wrote a couple of days ago about how my ex was emailing me. We broke up a little more than a week ago but now he keeps emailing me to see how I'm doing and wanted to call me last night but he didn't. I know he'll start calling me again. If I email him back, I keep it short ... (140 words)

I like a boy he says he likes me too but I get scared when I see him and I feel paranoid and scared when he is there.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

- Hi I like a boy he says he likes me too but I get scared when I see him and I feel paranoid and scared when he is there. I panic but I dont want to be like this, we speak on msn and things and he wants to meet me but im scared. ... (54 words)

He wants to do things with me but would rather no-one knows because he says he doesn't like things being spread.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

- Hi im a teenager who likes a boy and is beggining to like him more and more, he says he likes me and wants to meet up with me even tho we go to the same school but speak on msn we dont speak in school. He wants to do things with me but would rather no-one knows because he says ... (145 words)

I'm not long married and fancy the pants off my husband but I feel our sex life is going down the pan!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age - Help, i just married a few weeks ago, and sex is so boring. we are both in our 50's and i think my sex drive is higher than his. I have tried dressing up - he isn't interested. Sex was ok before marriage but now its going down the pan and i am trying hard to keep it going. I ... (212 words)

Is it true that sex is an act of reassurance for males from their partner or from opposite sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it true that sex is an act of reassurance for males from their partner or from opposite sex? Is it the same for women? ... (27 words)

Why can't we just see how things go instead of just being "friends?" Has he led me on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm from Romania, but I am living in Britain while I am at University. I have tried internet dating as I was lonely in the UK and have met several guys, but now I have a problem. I feel really confused. I have been dating a really nice guy for about a month. We have had a ... (309 words)

Is it possible for me to experience healthy sexual stimulation/attraction towards the opposite sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6442 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I have observed that humiliation is one of the ways i get sexually aroused. Same is the thing i have noticed in some girls i have been close to. In fact, for me the act of sex itself is one that of humiliating the woman i am involved with. And i am kind of a guy who is much in ... (119 words)

I don't know whether she likes me or what she is thinking since I kissed her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

1 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I work with a girl who told my workmates that she really fancied me. I decided not to let on that I knew. We went out as a group last week, had a laugh and she kissed me at the end of the night. I really like her but am not sure if she's had second thoughts and there have been ... (171 words)

Met online, dated 2months, suddenly he ends it! Should I stay friends with him ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

- Hi there. Im a 39 year old woman and had a wonder 2 month relationship with a guy I had met online. Last weekend he went to his hometown to a friend's party, and text me the next day that he was not ready for any relationship and wanted us to part. He said being with his ... (204 words)

Im with someone new, things are great, but I'm so paranoid he will hurt me like the last guy!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm going out with someone now, and I think i'ts great! He's kind, funny and quite sweet to me. But, I just can't help feeling parnoid that he'll end up hurting me like someone else did to me :( I just want to stop panicking about it, and I do NOT want to turn into one of ... (144 words)

I love my man but hate his drinking habit! What can I do about this ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend but i hate his drink habits. I don't like drinking so we are quite opposites in this area. He used to drink 5 or 6 cans of beer a couple of years ago in the evening after work which when i asked to cut back is now down to 2 or 3 on the nights i see him - ... (207 words)

Does anyone else feel sickened by the increasing erosion of personal intimacy in relationships?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

- Is there anyone else out there getting as sickened as I am by the increasing erosion of personal intimacy in relationships? I find myself amazed at the way that sex seems to be meaningless, you can have threeway, with other people while you are married, with a hanky on line, ... (281 words)

Im really hurt by what his family say to me, he doesnt care and says I'm taking it too personal!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 7 years but from the begining my husband familiy made it clear that they don't like me even now they still make me feel unworthy by saying little comments here and there but my husband thinks that i take things to personnaly and doesnot understand that ... (65 words)

I've been depressed for so long.. How do I get rid of it without going to the doctors!?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age - What is the best way to get rid of depression? I have had it for years and daren't go to the doctors. i don't want it on my records. What if this comes back to haunt me in the future. But - honestly i just cannot go on. i am so down all the time. I have tried, walking while ... (141 words)

My Bf and my best friend are at logger heads over who spends time with me! Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, Please Can Someone Help.. My Best Friend And My Boyfriend Always Argue With Each Other Over Who Spends More Time With Me I Try To Spend An Equal amount of time with them both, but they still find a way to argue over me. One Night They Had A Really Huge Argument And Now... (95 words)

We want a 3some with my best friend, But I dont want to lose either of them, what do I do ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance wants to have a threesome with me and my best friend. My best friend and I have had sex together twice, but he doesn't know about it. I quite like the idea and I am pretty sure she would be up for it, but I don't want to lose her or my fiance. Should we do it?... (61 words)

Is it possible to have deeper trust developed before getting intimate ? Or are my expectations unrealistic?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6439 days ago

1 May 2007 (M) age 41-50 - Ok, i have been approached by quite some girls in my life since i was young. I am 26 right now and my problem has been that i haven't really found a girl who treats me the way i would like her to. Most of them end up trying to dominate me or force me to enter in to something ... (272 words)

Our sex drives are different, I sought attention elsewhere, nothing happend sexually, but now she doest trust me!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

1 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Been married to a gorgeous girl for 3 years and we have a 6 month old daughter. I love my wife very much but we have very different sex drives. Mine is high and hers is low. When we don't have sex for a length of time I feel undesirable and I crave reassurance. this has lead to ... (175 words)

He said he goes to his ex when hes angry with me to know what his options are ! ! !

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a man 2 months after my son passed away from cancer. We have been dating 1 year and two months. After 5 years alone I let my walls down to allow him into my life. I immediately fell in love and trusted him fully until I found out he went to a concert with his ex and ... (176 words)

I told him I just wanted to be friends, but think I've changed my mind! Do I tell him ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im really confused bout my feelins 4 a friend (lets call him "A") (im 20, hes 22) "A" told me he fancied me but i werent so sure coz i needed 2 get 2 know him betta. We then started speakin every day all day (by text msg) and sometimes by the phone 4 a few hours. i then... (202 words)

I'd like to get him a little token of love to keep for the times we are apart, any suggestions ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi just a bit of advice, I have met the most amazing man ever and it was love at first sight for the both of us and after such a short time we are both starting to fall in love with each other. Our relationship is somewhat long distance (bout 80 miles) and we do have to spend ... (101 words)

Since the birth of my 2nd child we rarely have sex, is there anything we can do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6445 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am happly married with 2 children. i am in my mid 30s. i love my husband very much and he too loves me very much. so far we ve never faced any problems. but, after my 2nd delivery, my husband and i hardly had sex. infact, we have sex once or twice in a month. i am ... (88 words)

I have never orgasmed while being fingered or recieving oral.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I really love when my boyfriend fingers me, and performs oral sex on me. For some reason, I have never orgasmed before. Is there something wrong with me? How do I achieve orgasm?... (34 words)

My husband of 22yrs has never truly desired me, I dont want to feel like his room mate, I want to be his wife!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 May 2007 (F) - I have been married to the same man for 22 years. In all those years, my husband has never really acted like he truely desires me. Very few kisses and even less hugs. Even in the beginning there never has been romantic moments like hand holding and lying on the sofa together. ... (124 words)

Our relationship has reached crisis point. My wife has met another man while chatting through Skype. I want to save our relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

1 May 2007 (M)

age - I have been married to my wife for 11 years and we have 2 children - 11 and 8. Where to start.... firstly our relationship has reached crisis point. My wife has met another man (a business partner in America) while chatting through skype. I want to save our relationship, but ... (243 words)

My bf is the "Picture Guy" Am I being dramatic by seeing it as more ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

1 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Ive been dating my boyfriend for about five months now, and ever since I met him he's been known as "The picture guy"...When everyone's out he takes all the drunken pictures and sends them to them by email so they can have them. Alot of them are very attractive girls making out ... (251 words)

What are these small bumps on my penis and are they normal ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Is this normal? I have small bumps all over my penis, I know it's not an STD or anything, but I'm still concerned as to whether or not its natural, most of all I'm wondering if that would weird girls out. thanks... (46 words)

What are the phone rules when planning a date together ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this nice guy, he asked me out for dinner and we have not gone yet.He calls me sometimes and I don't want to scare him away,so i am not sure how much I should call him if at all etc. Can you tell me some phone rules? ... (51 words)

I'm still in college and my Bf who is 10 yrs older is concerned hes holding me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I wrote a question the other day, but it ended up being interpreted wrong, so I will try to rephrase it. I have been dating the same guy for 2 years now, and we understand eachother and connect on so many levels. The problem we're having right now is that I'm going to college ... (267 words)

He must like me to hold my hand... right!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6445 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok... I really like this boy... and well we flirt all the time in class. we even got called out by the teacher and she gave us detentions for showing feelings in "her" class. Well heres the thing... were always sitting next to eachother and holding hands. And we havent told ... (79 words)

Any other birth control methods aside from condoms?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing my fella for a wee while now and I'm considering different types of birth control to go on. Just now we always use condoms, but he really doesn't like them and I think they do interupt our sex life but alway have to use them as I'm on no other form of birth ... (172 words)

I've got this white discharge, I dont want to see a doctor, anyone know what it is ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi There. Im 23 years old and im married. I have got a problem regarding discharges. I have a lot of discharges every month after my period and on my first two days of my dischrages i get light pink blood (little bit). I dont know why i get blood with my discharges and the ... (95 words)

She moved out after 6mths, still has feelings for me, but things are not the same we are drifting!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6444 days ago

1 May 2007 (M)

age - Girl im dating moved out after 6 months with me.Says it felt to much like marrage and does'nt want to be married right now.She says her feelings for me haven't changed but I can feel us drifting a part.Have'nt been intamate in over a month due to her possible menopause.I am so ... (61 words)

He's blowing hot and cold with me and I don't know whether he's really interested or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, there's this guy, that i work, that i've had feeling for, for sometime, about 4 years ago he tried to hit on me, but i declined as i was going out with his best friend, the problem is that i cant stop thinking about him, i broke up with my ex because of him, we're really ... (123 words)

She's told me she's fallen out of love with me and now I don't know what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

1 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this girl for 7 months now and things where going great at first. Then we started getting into fights and it seemed my only way of settling it was to break up and I have done it 2 or so more times now. So recently we got into a fight and I did it again, but ... (178 words)

Is it me or am I fighting a losing battle and should I just walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

1 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dating a guy for over 5 years. In the beginnging, things were great. He lived with me, told me loved me all the time, and wanted to be with me forever. Now for the last 2 years, nothing. He says he's bitter about marriage and because his ex-wife hates me and ... (111 words)

I am afraid during sex that it will 'slip out' and hurt us - how do I cure my phobia?

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1 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am aftaid during sex that it will 'slip out' and hurt us - how do I cure my phobia? I have been sexually active for 10 years, but 1 year ago I had a painful experience with a penis 'snapping' and he had to go to hospital. It hurt me as well. Now that I have a wonderful ... (87 words)

I seem to date guys for a week or so then get bored. Why does this keep happening?

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1 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - In the past month or so I have gotten in a routine of dating guys for only a week. This is my fourth boyfriend in the past two months. They weren't meant for me but I really like the guy I'm with now. The only problem is it's been a week and I already feel bored. I don't have ... (91 words)

My aunt keeps trying to seduce me and I'm losing my will to say no!

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1 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - my aunt tries to seduce me a lot of times by showing her cleavage and tight ass but I keep a control over myself....... but it's unbearable and I'm losing strength to oppose... and can't say to my parents.. it will not be long before I end up f****** her... wat the f*** should ... (56 words)

How come I keep going for the girls that don't like me?

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1 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - How come I keep going for the girls that don't like me? I cant seem to get this girl I really like. She won't go out with me. I have been asked her out 6 times since I told her how I felt, so I don't think it's a matter that I am repulsive or somehthing like that. Anyone who ... (74 words)

My son's father and I have broken up after a rocky 7 year relationship but I still worry about him. How can I move on?

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1 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my son's father. We were together for 7 years. We had a rocky 7 year relationship. There was physical and mental abuse involved. We still talk but I find every time we talk we argue. He was my first and only one I ever did anything with. I'm guessing thats why it's so ... (135 words)

Has anyone else ever had to deal with this kind of marriage?

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1 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Has anyone ever been in a relationship with a person with ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder). I am currently seperated from this man. We have been married 11 years and have 2 children. He always has many projects and never finishes one. he loses things constantly. ... (102 words)