A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I really love when my boyfriend fingers me, and performs oral sex on me. For some reason, I have never orgasmed before. Is there something wrong with me? How do I achieve orgasm?
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male
reader, Dr. Mark +, writes (2 May 2007):
Do you masturbate? Masturbation is an excellent way to learn to orgasm. You may not get it at first, or for a while, but you can enjoy yourself and experiment with what feels really good, and what creates the most intensity.
A survey once taken of nurses found that the more she masturbated as a child, the more likely she was to be orgasmic as an adult. If you don't masturbate already, this is a good time to start.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2007): There is nothing wrong with you. Its actually a common thing for a woman to struggle to orgasm. There is honestly nothing to panic about.
Its probably more difficult for woman to orgasm having oral sex because sometimes you need a little more thrust to orgasm.
Just relax! It may be that you have to find something that is comfortable and makes you orgasm. Practice makes perfect!
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