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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm 6 months pregnant, we are in couples therapy but he is still sleeping with someone else! How do I walk away?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6135 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having a difficult time walking away from someone and I need to. I am six months pregnant and really love this man, but he is sleeping with someone else and he can't make a decision. We have been in a relationship for over 3 years and were planning on getting married.... (234 words)

We were together for 4 years, he is now with someone else but he stills tries to touch and kiss me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i was in a relashinship for about four years and was madly and deeply in love with him and still am. we broke up over something very silly, he is with someone else now. he still rings me and talks to me regualer he also visits now and again just as friends. but when he visit... (111 words)

I am not coping at all with our 2 year old son since he isn't around to help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6405 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - How can i get my ex to see how much he's hurting me? He fails to see how much im in love with him. I cant turn my feelings on and off and to add to my misery our son, whom is 2yrs old, is such a handful and all the signs point to ADHD and there is nobody to give me a break ex... (155 words)

We've been having an affair for 5 years but we won't leave his family for me - how do I move on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6163 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Help, I'm in love with a man whos 18 years older than me (I'm 28 now) whos married (unhappily) and has 2 kids (both now over 20 years old). We've been together for 5 and a half years. I understand he can't leave her because it will hurt so many people (his kids, his parents, ... (230 words)

I just can't bring my GF to orgasm and it doesn't help that she tells me all her friends have them! Is it my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I just wonder one thing, how can i make my GF to get orgasm? it's always like this that al her friends tell her how many times they had it while they had their last sex, and she when she tells me that, i always think that it's my fault that she cant get it...so please can ... (82 words)

I'm 3 weeks pregnant with my ex's baby, but he wants nothing to do with it because he wants to get back with his ex! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm about 3 weeks pregnant with my ex-boyfriends baby, we broke up in january after a very brief relationship, (although, having a physical one since last summer) because he is still in love with his ex-girlfriend from 2 years ago. About a week after my getting pregnant... (267 words)

I'm not nervous when having sex but I can't maintain my erection!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I went clubbin the other day and pulled a girl. We went back to her house, but when it came down to the sex i started off with an erection n just as i was about to enter i lost it. It seemed though her vagina was quite tight to get inside and i did finger her for a while ... (88 words)

My BF of 6 years wants me to move out of our house to give him a break but I just can't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age - help my partner of 6 years has had enough of me. We both own the house, but he wants me to move out for awhile to give us/him a break, and see how we feel. I don't want to move out. I am 45yrs old and before i met my partner owned my own little house and car, but sold u... (166 words)

Should I meet up with my ex even though I now have a BF?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6405 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm meeting up with my ex this weekend. I only went out with him for a few months back in 2004, we split up because I felt that there wasn't that spark there, plus it was a long distance between us. I've been with my current boyfriend since December 2004 and I met up wit... (258 words)

I'm in love with my best friend - should I tell her before she leaves the country for good or just enjoy our time together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

8 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - In love with my best friend... Should I stop seeing her? I went out with a close friend for a while and eventually she dumped me and broke my heart. We stayed friends, though it was really hard for me. She's currently got a boyfriend of 7 months. We're still very close... (112 words)

Torn apart by our breakup and the thought of my ex with other guys...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend broke up with me almost a month ago and I have not been able to accept that yet. We had a big fight at first I tried to resist the anger but she kept on sayin rubbish and lastly I exploded this made the story turn upside down. I still love her and want her back, ... (142 words)

My marriage is in trouble being of his lying, other females and his running away when he doesn't like something!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6405 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do with my marriage. We have been together for almost 5 yrs 2 of them married. We have 2 kids together and everytime he gets mad he leaves. Whether it's for a week or a month he leaves us with NOTHING. He works and I stay at home with the kids. I am in ... (229 words)

I haven't been able to trust my BF since he made out with 12 guys on New Years Eve 2006!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6404 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have been having some problems with my boyfriend of almost 9 months, for what feels like a rather long time. On new years eve last year (2006) my boyfriend cheated on me with 12 men while he was drunk. I saw him make out with them and since then I have never been abl... (390 words)

What should I expect when I'm with a boy and he wants to 'get off' with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6405 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi just a quick question! im kinda confused please can u tell me excactly what a boy expects when you get off with them? I haven't been put in this situation before and i want to know excactly what to do when it comes to it... please help i need to know asap! thankoo sooooooo... (61 words)

I'm thinking of packing my GFs bags because she flirts and latches onto random guys when we go out together!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6405 days ago

8 May 2007 (M)

- Hi Havent done this before so hope Im doing it right! I have a girl been seeing for almost a year right. Nice lass and good fun. One thing. We like to go out a bit. When we are out as a couple we meet other couples and this is fine. Good chat and all. But when w... (485 words)

Am I being jealous of the attention my fiancee paid to the blonde-haired girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F) - Am I being jealous? My fiance and I were at dinner the other night with some of my friends. And one of my friends dyed her hair blonde. (My fiance likes blondes). Anyways, when she walked in he looked at her for awhile which made me mad. Then he had the audacity to compliment ... (255 words)

I need help with premature ejaculation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6404 days ago

8 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi All I had problem of Premature Ejaculation with my only 2 out of 4 sex experiences with diffrent girls. Someone in this forum suggested me to stop masturbating which i normally used to do every day. Now i stopped completely because the person in this FORUM told me that my ... (78 words)

He told me that he doesn't love me, like I love him! Where can I go from here?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have two children, one with my boyfriend now and one from a previous relationship. My boyfriend has taking on both children like they are both his own and his is a WONDERFUL father but we have been struggling. I love him more than anything especially for the father that he ... (179 words)

He's only 17, going to get engaged with his GF, but I am falling in love with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - We'll call him *Dave* He's going to get engaged to his girlfriend but I think she's more interested in the ring. He's only 17 but he's really devoted to her. I've had past relationships which have been abusive and very unbareable as one ex boyfriend tried to reanact horror ... (210 words)

My BF tries to beat me in the quality of electronics we both own and we just can't stop arguing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F) - I don't know how to stop the arguing in my relationship. I don't know if it is my fault or his. He always says it's mine. For example, he got mad that I didn't want to have sex anymore because of my beliefs and said I must be cheating or that I don't love him. Then, last nig... (186 words)

I worry that i may not be good enough for her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I'm not used to using these kind of things, however, i'm not sure where to turn. Friends of mine seldom give advice and i'm one of those who cannot take his own. My problem is as follows; I've found a partner that i beileve to be great for me. We've been together so... (143 words)

We just became good friends at work, others judged us and condemned us, but surely I can still remain friends with him ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6405 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi.. i want some advice. well i work with this guy who i met on my first day at work, he was really helpful to me but he kept wanting to be working near me all the time. at first i thought this was a bit weird but then i got used to it (and also because i told my cousin who ... (393 words)

My BF broke up with me so he can sort his depression out, should I wait for him or move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm incredibly confused right now. My longtime boyfriend and I broke up a couple of days ago after nearly a year together. We were close friends for years before we started dating. His reason for ending things is because he is depressed, needs time alone to figure himself ... (141 words)

I'm 16, just lost my virginity and now my BF wants me to shave down there!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6404 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey am 16 and and i just lost it to my b/f who i have been with for about 2 years now and he said he would like me to shave all my hair on my pussy... would it make a diffrence if i did or not?... (47 words)

Having a suspended license makes it hard to see her! I am worried about losing her..what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my girlfriend have been going out for 4 months now, and everythings been perfect between us, but she lives about 30 minutes away from me and i'm not driving right now because i have a suspended license. so it makes it really hard to see her when i want to, or when she ... (190 words)

He calls out his 17 year old daughter's name in bed and he likes underage porn! What is going on with this guy?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

8 May 2007 (F) age 41-50 - My boyfriend has a giant porn collection that i discovered recently. he watches them when i leave the house even if its for a few minutes. some of the dvds are underage porn. i am worried because his 17 yr old daughter is coming to live with us. Sometimes he likes me to call ... (126 words)

How do I know if my boyfriend is cheating on me ?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4514 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - how do i know if my boyfriend is cheating on me ? and wheather or not this relationship is serious enough to continue ?... (24 words)

My needs aren't being met in this relationship. How I can be more assertive, to improve life for us both??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (M)

- Objectively speaking, the girl I'm seeing is a real catch: smart, confident, caring, thoughtful, successful and hard working. We have a lot in common and share similar goals for the future. She has said she loves me many times and clearly means it. I, on the other hand, do ... (187 words)

He cut me off completely...is this because he needs spacea and does it sound like we'll get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6405 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had dated for 5 months but we became so close in those 5 months. Our relationship was what I consider healthy and we didnt fight much. One day however we did get in a fight and that ended our relationship, he broke it off suddenly and asked for his space due ... (120 words)

Seeing another lady as my marriage is soo unhappy! I need opinions on this letter I wrote to the 'other' woman...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6405 days ago

8 May 2007 (M)

age - I have been unhappily married as I said in my last e mail I have been seeing someone else and this is a copy of the letter I have written to her. Please could you suggest what i should do next. Dear Lisa Just writing to you as I do need someone to speak to and ... (761 words)

They say I'm not as tall as I am and it's annoying me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6405 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

- My friends are adament that I'm not 5'7'', even though countless members of my family have measured me, my teacher has measured me, and all have said I'm 5'7''. I'm the tallest out of my friends, yet they disagree that I'm taller by 4 inches, yet refuse to contemplate that the... (80 words)

Cut off contact with my ex bf so I could heal! Was this the right decision?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

- After my boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago now because he has commitment issues. He was still emailing me, I finally ended it with him saying I think we shouldn't contact each other anymore. I told him that I need to heal and move on with my life and that one day(when I'm ... (141 words)

My husband and another man, stripped and kissed each other at a party..I was so embarrassed! Is he actually gay?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Apologies for the length of this but I really really need to get this off my chest. Recently we had a party at our house and there was alcohol supplied, good music and a lot of food. However, it got embarrassing when my husband and his friend began stripping down to their ... (411 words)

His so-called friend is creating problems in our relationship! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6405 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My future husband has a friend which is constantly trying to ruin our relationship out of jealousy as he spends all his money and days getting drunk. My fiancee knows im sensitive about him as we have only gotten into arguments when he has been with him last week he went out ... (151 words)

I broke off with him on a Friday but he texted me on a Saturday. I don't get it-what is his problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age - i have been seeing this guy for 6 months,he is 40 i'm 44 we get on quite well,only he trys to make me jealous,tells me not to get attached to him,changes his mind from one week to the next,i finished with him friday night,but saturday night he is txting me,then he was off with ... (146 words)

Having neighbours-from-hell problems!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

8 May 2007 (F) - Here is the trouble, my hubby and I are having with our neighbor's 13 year old daughter. She is continously either crying for attention or really agitating us to get a reaction that will stick to rebel for some reason; that I could not understand. We have lived in our neighbor... (899 words)

He thought I was too young to date so he stopped contact. But I can't get over him-what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, so there's this boy and I met him on my work experience. I'm 15, 16 this september and he had just turned 18. So we got talking + he got my number, nothing more happened while I was there, but after we texted each other a lot and eventually got to see each other. We didn't ... (164 words)

How do I get past all the damage my alcoholic husband has caused?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6397 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I get past all the damage he's caused? My husband is an alcoholic and we've had some major issues in the past. For the past 2 years he gets real mean and aggressive when he drinks a lot. I have left him several times and each time I come back hoping for change. Once ... (285 words)

Could our carelessness have resulted in me getting pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya This a question and worry of mine about sex Im 15, and have a lovely boyfriend. We have been together for 2 months, and this weekend we were having sexual fun. we were giving him a hand job and when he came he got some on his hand, he thn fingered me. We thought we got i... (100 words)

Why isn't my Mom telling me ...she is seeing someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im 14 years old and my perents just broke up last summer...im sure my mum is seeing some one which is ok but she isnt telling me, she hides her phone, goes out with "friends" and coz of her "work" she is away half the time, what do i do?... (50 words)

She is fed up with my insecurities and she left me---what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hey, my heart is really broken and i REALLY want to save this relationship with my ex. she asked for a break a while ago, because things have been rocky. so i agreed, but i kept showing up and wanting to talk things out because i was really worried about our relationship. so i ... (155 words)

My bf is on a long trip, how do I keep my urges curbed without him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is away on a trip and it's been three months. I have never gone this long without sex before and it is totally getting to me. I'm totally irritable and depressed. I wouldn't dream of cheating on him, and masturbation is just not working like it used to. I miss HIM. ... (57 words)

How can I make myself last longer while having sex?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

8 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im 15 years old, and when me and my girlfriend are having sex i sometimes have orgasm too quickly, sometimes it doesn't even take a minute. I don't really mind this that much, and even my GF says it is ok, but it makes me feel that i am not able to satisfy her, can ... (73 words)

How do I best please my girlfriend so that she will forget how clumsy I was the first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (M)

- I had sex for the first time with my girlfriend (and ever) a few days ago. It was so bad even I had to admit that to myself, and it was my fault. It was really clumsy among other things. Should I just ask her what makes her aroused or should I just try out things to see what ... (69 words)

I finally got him back. Do I keep him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of almost 2 years dumped me a week before my 18th birthday. We mainly broke up because i flip over the littlest things and treat him really badly.We spoke over the phone before my birthday and he said he would come. I needed to speak to him because i couldnt sleep ... (274 words)

Was I raped?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - is i rape if you wake up to find someone having sex with you?... (14 words)

I don't want my girlfriend to figure out beforehand what she will get for her birthday. Can someone give me an idea of a good gift?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (M) - Okay its my girlfriends birthday coming up and I have decided to ask peoples advice on what to get her. On her past birthdays and Xmases she has spoilt the surprise a lot by guessing what I have got her and I think that its a bit lame if its not a real surprise. I want to... (177 words)

Our marriage has become boring. What can I do to get the spark back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

8 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife of 7 years last night told me she was unhappy with the marrage and felt like that for a year. she says that she feels like she is living with a brother rather than a husband and she doesn't know why she feels like this. we get on great like the same things have the ... (391 words)

Is it bad that I'm introducing my younger sibling to these kind of games? Any views.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F) - To some this may seem out of wack ... but I'm 7 years older than my one of my siblings children and we play all those spin the bottle to the next level or strip spin the bottle kind of games with our own made up rules (no sex involved) with their mate and a group of 6 their ... (161 words)

I'm jealous so I tested my boyfriends fidelity and now he doesn't want to be with me anymore. Should I try to get back with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with this guy for 2 years now, and we get on great - but we have some quite big arguments over nothing.. when we argue we both usually know that we'l be back together within an hour.. I am a jealous person, i cant help it i just am and he has let me down before. ... (196 words)

why do I get a headache after drinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Everytime i drink, i get a really bad headache about 3 hours after, and i have to make myself throw up to get it to stop. Do you have any idea causing this?... (36 words)

will my boyfriend think I love him less if I don't text him often?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not the kind of gf who texted my bf all the time, just like now he never texted me since this morning and its now bout 8pm at night now still haven't got a msg from him or a call from him like he used to, it doesn't bothered me for im just thinking that maybe he's just busy ... (123 words)

How do I deal with my left-over feelings from the last relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6405 days ago

8 May 2007 (M) age 51-59 - HI, I finished with my girlfriend last Wednesday. I said to her that if she didn't respect me or feel any attraction for me then that was fine and that we shouldn't see each other again. I've picked up on lots of things that have brought me to this point I might add. Her resp... (300 words)

We kissed, and now she feels we cannot be friends anymore. Do I ask her out or let her go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i used to go out with girl about 6 years ago and were pretty close, then we spilt up and went our different ways i got married and had a child, then about 2 months ago my wife and me spilt up i was devasted at first. then about 4 weeks ago i bumped into the old girlfrin... (317 words)

Should I throw away my fiancé for this older man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, im engaged and living with my partner of 1 year, the problem is i have fallen for someone else. he is old enough to be my dad but i just cant stop thinking about him, he like me to because he has told me. Should i risk throwing away what i have got for something that might ... (60 words)

My friend thinks I'm stalking him and is saying nasty things to me, why is he being like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F) - Hi there, Me and a guy were friends. We are part of the same group of friends. We all went out as a group most wkds. Well we ended up sleeping together, a few times. It all seemed fine neither of us wanted a relationship due to coming out of long ones not that long ago. ... (376 words)

What can I say to motivate my lazy grand-daughter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age - Tuesday 8 May 10.30 am My 14 year old granddaughter is bright, but lazy and prefers to spend time with friends than study. She consequently is not reaching her potential at school. Recently, through the recommendation of a family friend, she was offered an after-school job... (148 words)

my boyfriend is insecure, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I Thought Girls were supposed to be the obsessive ones???????? My boyfriend is so insecure, he cant go one day without talkin to me and although i love him sumtimes i do need a lil space. he freaks if i suggest a breal n if we argue n i talk about endin it he threatens to kil... (91 words)

Is it possible to fall in love after a short time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been going out with someone for almost a month now, but I feel like I'm starting to fall in love with him now. I just feel so special when I'm with him, and always get excited when I get to see him. (I only get to see him him every weekend, because of school and ... (116 words)

Am I stupid for staying with him when he doesn't see a future for us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriends has just told me that he doesn't see me in his future and that our relationship is going to end one day. When i told him that we should end it now he said that he didn't want to as he still loves me and wants to be with me. He says he just wants to tell the truth ... (119 words)

Do I believe the girl who is saying she's sleeping with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Who do i believe? My boyfriend or the girl hus textin me sayin shes sleeping with him?? Ive been with my guy for nearly 4 months and there hav always been other girls from his side that hav become an issue. hes been getting prank calls and texts from a girl he says he doesn... (186 words)

Am I being emotionally abused?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Is this emotional abuse?? hey, im 16 and in a relaionship with a 25 year old guy. but thats not the problem. We've had our fair share of problems, especially with other people trying to get in the way. A lot of his friends don't think I'm anything special and that he's ha... (152 words)

I'm together with an amazing woman, but I don't fancy her. What shall I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

8 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with an absolutely amazing woman. She is kind, caring and everything I could ever hope for. But I just don't fancy her. I am waiting for something to 'click in', but it isn't. I fall asleep with her at night feeling guilty and I am now making excuses not ... (136 words)

Do I miss her because I'm alone, or do I miss her because I love her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6403 days ago

8 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - 2 years ago I moved overseas with my girlfriend of 3 years. Everything went wrong almost straight away - mainly because she couldn't find work and I went away all the time with my job. She became depressed and took all her anxieties out on me which made me - which in turn made ... (253 words)

I have feelings for my cousin, but I don't know what to do

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

8 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in luv with my cousin for the last 4 years...I'm 18 now and an indian (kerala)...but i haven't told her... for that matter i haven't told anyone except my best friend...whenever we r together its a lot of fun...i really enjoy my time with her...and when she goes ... (201 words)

How can I tell my stalking acquaintance I don't want to meet him as often as he would like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you tell a friend that you can't see them anywhere like as much as they want to see you without hurting their feelings or even break the friendship off altogether? I have found him to be almost bordering on stalking and have explained to him that I just want to be ... (168 words)

How can my boyfriend move past his affection problems?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6407 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has a problem with affection. It's not constant but sometimes he'll freeze up and not want to be touched. He knows where it stems from but is clueless how to move past it (and therapy is not a financial option right now). He got very emotional and told me he wants ... (133 words)

Do men only become friends with women to get sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

8 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was talking to a guy at school and he told me how 99.9 percent of men will only befriend a girl if he thinks he's going to get something in return, i.e. sex. Is this true? I have plenty of guy friends and I don't get that vibe from them at all. Now I'm wondering whether he ... (71 words)

How do I get over my fear of being hurt?

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8 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I haven't been in a relationship with very many guys, but I have never been on an actual date. I just sort of jumped right into serious relationship mode. My first real relationship, 3 months after I moved in with him he started to threaten my life if I ever tried to leave him. ... (162 words)

How can I tell if another women is interested in women without asking?

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8 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I am looking for answers mostly from lesbiens and bisexual females who have had relationships with females. however, first a little about me. I am 21 years old, and a pansexual. This means that gender is irrelevent to me when it comes to a relationship, th... (420 words)

I dont feel a thing when we have sex!! What else can we try!?

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8 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't orgasm with my boyfriend! He and I have had sex three times, and each time, nada. I love him and I'm crazy about him... but whenever he "enters", I don't feel a thing. The longer he tries to get me there, the more uncomfortable it is- after a while, I just feel raw.... (146 words)

I'm 13 years and smart, does nobody like me?

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8 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 13 years old and am one of the smartest girls in my classes. To most guys I'm just a nerd but random people come up to me sometimes to tell me I'm pretty, but this doesn't happen at school. Am I a threat to them, Are the guys that like me afraid to tell me, or does no one ... (138 words)

What can I do to get my much older neighbour to like me?

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8 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my neighbor. He's way older than me and I'm only 16. I've hung out at his house, but nothing has happened yet. He's touched me, but never kissed me. I like him alot! What should I do? should I keep doing this or should I stop it?... (51 words)

my cousin is hitting on the guy I like, what can I do to make him like me?

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8 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my cousin totally told this guy that i like i liked him after i told her not to and now she's flirting with him and likes him it seems she just does it because she can but I'm not sure if he likes her and I've never talked to him but he always stares and smiles at me i really ... (108 words)

How do I break the ice with my girlfriend's father?

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8 May 2007 (M)

- Hey everyone! Has anyone got any good advice for getting around the quiet dad of my girlfriend?? When I first met him it was a very formal handshake, acknowledgment etc. He was very quiet, didn't make eye contact once as far as I noticed. I'm pretty sure I can sort this out ... (178 words)