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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What are the signs that the one I love loves me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How would i know if a man i love feels the same way about me?... (15 words)

I made a mistake in breaking up with my long-time GF but she doesn't want me back now! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Recently i broke up with my girlfriend. We had been together for a long time and questions of marriage and where exactly our relationship was headed. I had never been very good with emotions so like always i freaked out and broke up with her, and visited a friend in California. ... (220 words)

I'm only 15 but my BF wants to stop using condoms and make me pregnant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there I have been speaking to my bf and he wants me 2 have sex with him without a condom. He wants my kids but I'm only 15! wot do i do?... (34 words)

Why do people seem to be bailing on relationships so quickly these days? I just want someone to grow old with!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do people seem to be hopping in and out of relationships these days at an increasing level of frequency? I find it really depressing. I want to find someone to grow old with, but I feel silly thinking this since most people tend to think it is unrealistic. I am 31, ... (196 words)

My desire for sex and wetness have decreased, is it due to the birth control pills I'm now on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6382 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've recently started taking Birth Control pills. I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now, and I usually get very turned out when we have sex/foreplay. When I started taking the pill, I began losing my horniness for sex.{desire rather} I can't seem to get wet. ... (64 words)

My ex of a year ago wants to meet up again because he wants to try again - can the second time around ever work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am feeling rather confused at the moment. My ex, who i still love even though he caused me a lot of heartache, has become very interested in me again the last couple of weeks. We have remained in contact over the last year, but he has been contacting me a lot in t... (217 words)

She says she loves me but feels that there is "something more" out there... How can this marriage be saved?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

16 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 6 years and I love my wife. She told me that she loves me and I am her best friend, but says she feels like there is something more out there. I always felt we had a good, stable, and honest marriage, but she asked me for a divorce. I asked her and ... (149 words)

I want to do something unique and special for my BFs birthday - any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is turning 17 soon. I want to do something special for him. Any ideas? We've been going out for almost a year. I want to do something more that just a nice dinner out kind of thing, I'm looking for something unique. Thanks for any help.... (51 words)

My BF doesn't wear deodorant and I'm afraid of what other people will think of him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F) - Say you have this boyfriend. He doesn't smell extremely bad but a little because he doesn't wear deordorant. You are afraid of what other people will think of him or even of you dating him. Would you feel bad for thinking this? Would you tell him he should wear cologne without ... (61 words)

I'm 16 and I've only kissed my BF - is the relationship moving too fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 16 and my 16 year old sister says i am moving to fast in my relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months and we have snogged and we roll around on the bed kissing quite a lot. Am i moving to fast sexually? i dont think i am, i could be having sex now! but i w... (66 words)

I feel shy around my BFs mates and he is getting annoyed with me! How can I be more confident?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

- I have been with my boyfriend nearly 3 months and things are good i even get on with his mates quite well. Heres the problem im fine with all the guys as long as im not the only girl. However if im the only girl with like 3 guys for example i become abit shy and quiet. My bf ... (119 words)

My BF was emailing other women that he loved them, I have agreed to try again but I just don't know if I can trust him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i recently found out that my boyfriend of a few years has been sending emails to other women telling them he loves them! We split up but have decided to try again, but i dont know if i can trust him anymore. Theres a weird atmosphere, but i dont know if its all in my head ... (76 words)

We've been married 19 years but my wife goes to clubs to meet single men!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

16 May 2007 (M)

age - My wife and I have been married for about 19 years. She's 39 and I'm 44. For the past 6 months she's been hanging out with her recently divorced cousin (female - 44) and they have been going to nightclubs for the past 6 months about 2-3 times/week and usually staying ... (522 words)

My GF of 4 years is hiding her phone bill from me, texting other guys and we haven't had sex in 5 months!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

16 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I started a relationship 4 years ago with a girl who i love dearly. Like most relationships it was lustful but this wained somewhat as time went by. Last year i found she was texting one of the guys at work, who has invited her down to his house to be No15. I asked her about ... (242 words)

My BF said he has dreams about me but wouldn't say what exactly! Does that mean they are sexual and he wants to have sex with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im 16 and so is my boyfriend who i have been with for 5 months. today we were talking about our dreams and i was asking him if he had any about me ever. He said he does but he doesn't really want to tell me what some of them are. Then he said 'well cant you guess why I'm ... (124 words)

How do we avoid running out of things to talk about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I just wanted to know what the best way to keep things fresh in a long-term relationship is? I'm 17 and recently started dating and i chat with my gf for at least an hour every day. But i'm worried that, at some stage, we might run out of topics to talk about or something ... (74 words)

What can I do to get some happiness into my life again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

16 May 2007 (?) age 30-35 - dear agony aunts__x it isnt exactly a question i have but i need to get it out and off my chest, i am a complete mess!!! i dont know what to do, who to talk to, who not to talk to, where to go, where not to go and i am soo paranoid!!! well ill try cut it as short as... (532 words)

Can I still trust my friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

- Hey there, where to start... im 17 and im having problems trusting my best mate as i recently found out she slept with my ex boyfriend twice when we were still together. me and my boyfriend split up around 2 months ago over a row we had because i said i couldn't trust him and ... (148 words)

Do I stick around to see if she changes her mind about being with me, or are there some better strategies out there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there, im daniel, from australia and i really need some help here! I known this girl for about 4 years now in which we worked together for sum 6 months or so. she had a bf at the time we first met...she had a house with him and all and she was basically set. (this was... (431 words)

He kissed her during our break and I don't know how to get over the pain

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship which broke up a month ago. throughout the relationship my boyfriend spent a lot of time with his 'friend' an old flame. when we first started seeing each other she told him that she still had feelings for him and felt that i was in the way. My ex ... (237 words)

Everyone say he's using me for school, but I can't get over him. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old I started college last october and met someone who had the charm to make me weak at my knees! we were chatting for 2 weeks every night and during cay in college we would do work together but every1 came to know about it and loads of close friends got involved ... (210 words)

She shouted out a name when we were making love... her broth-in-law's!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - After an evening apart over the weekend (me out with my mates and my girlfriend out with her sister and brother-in-law) we were in bed the following morning. Both sleepy and both still a little tipsy from the night before we started playing around and end up having wild and ... (255 words)

her bf hugged me and she somehow smelt that on me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi , I know this is stupid but my mate hugged me and she smelt her boyfriend on me because I hugged him earlier and she went off on one sayin that I got off with him and Shes making a big deal about it. Today She rang after me and slapped me and tryed to punch me and strangle ... (94 words)

Afraid I'm become a doormat!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age - I am becoming more and more a doormat. I don't know what to do or how to raise my self esteem. I'm afraid that I'm comfortable as a doormat and don't expect more. I need female consciousness raising. Men quickly learn I'm a softie. I tried to yell at my bf last night, and... (84 words)

My best mate's bf snogged me and now she blames it all on me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey , Well I was just walking home by myself and I saw my best mates boyfriend and we just talked for a bit and then suddenly , he just snogged me. I didn't want him to but My best mate found out and her boyfriend is blaming it all on me. My best mate believes him because ... (112 words)

Should I just give him space and hope he changes his mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6426 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I broke up. He said that he didn't have time for racing and a girlfriend and we were both tired of arguing. We are trying the whole friends thing. I still love him alot and care about him deeply...he still holds the key to my heart...I just don't know what to ... (90 words)

What songs are good for kissing to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

16 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I know this may sound like a bit of a stupid question but here goes: I'm curious as to what songs are good for kissing to. I've figured that "Truly, Madly, Deeply" is a good one along with "Don't Wanna Miss a Thing" and when you're 8 years old "2 become 1" by Spice Girls was ... (121 words)

Are the nudie pics on his phone really normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - is it normal for my boyfriend to masturbate watching tv, while i sleep beside him, is it normal for a man of 38 yrs old to have naked pictures of other women on his phone, is it normal for him to hide porn in our home. We are 3yrs together, have 2yr old son, i am 35, he is 38... (80 words)

Should I tell his girlfriend that he's sending me all these cute messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy... he's taken. I love him. I can't get him off my mind. He texts me loads outta the blue just to say " hey how are you?" and the other night he asked me to call him for a chat... He doesn't know I love him... I try to back off and give him one word answers, ... (160 words)

I want to go back to the man I cheated on, but he has a new woman now. How do I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - where do i start!! i cheated on my partner with a work colleague, which resulted in both us leaving our partners to be with each other, we now live together, for almost 17 months. i have always been in contact with my ex, but cant seem to let him go!! he can be such a pain, but ... (186 words)

What else can we do to enjoy sex without loosing our virginities?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

16 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my girlfriend now for 3years. We are now both 17 and feel it is the right time to lose our virginity to each other. We have done all the bj thing, but i feel that we needed to go further. So last night she came over to my house and we got into bed ... (145 words)

How can I trust people again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i know i'm an insecure person and i'm paranoid too !! i find it hard to trust anyone basically because when i did they let me down. but how can i change ? i tried to speak with close friends about this issue but it seems like none of them could help...can you help me ? thnakx... (58 words)

It's as if they dont want me as soon as they know they can have me. How can i get to the next level

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been single for two years and keep meeting guys that seem very interested, call me / text me regularly and say they really like me. I hang back alittle until i am sure i like them too or believe what they are saying then all of a sudden they pull away. When i try to ... (91 words)

How do I keep my cool with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this lovely guy online, we got on really well and met up last weekend, I realised straight away that I had fallen for him in a big way and I think I got too serious too soon. I'm now worried that I have frightened him away. I have asked him to tell me one way or the other ... (125 words)

He is not good at keeping jobs, I'm pregnant and have two other kids. Should I let him move in with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi,i'm 24 and 6mths pregnant. i also have 2 boys, 1 of 5 and the other 1 yr. my 1 yr olds dad (21yrs) left me 2 days after my nan had passed away now he wants me back saying he wants 2 be a proper dad and family, he doesn't work he has just started to get a job but from his ... (196 words)

I said something that came out wrong, should I try to explain it to him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

- My bf of one yr has three kids from a previous relationship I haven't met them (they live a way away) but talk to him about them and try to be supportive as he only gets to see them once a month. A few nights ago he was trying to relax and kept getting phone calls as they were ... (185 words)

Should I continue to give her space in the hope you will come round in time ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I split up 6 weeks ago after 3 1/2 years together. Over the past few weekends we have met up talked and been intimate together. I have finally got it out of her that she is still angry with me for a row that happened last august when we had a major bust up - ... (141 words)

How do I deal with my manic depressive mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (M) age 41-50 - My mother plays dirty tricks every now and then to come close to me somehow. Like she would keep my things in a place i cannot find easily and would unnecessarily cause me to enter in to an argument with her, which gives her a sense of control over me. I have always hated her ... (141 words)

My parents were over protective when I was young, Im now 21 and dont feel I have a normal life and I'm scarred!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F) - I grew up with two very overprotective parents, who wouldn't allow me to grow up, in fear of losing their little girl forever. Whenever I tried to act my age, they would give me a hard time and I would get in trouble, even if I was doing something normal for my age that wasn't ... (89 words)

How do you truly express that you love someone when they dont believe you!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you say to someone whom you love so much to keep them?How do you express how you really feel if they dont believe you when you say you love them?... (32 words)

He only went and dated the random girl that contacted him on Valentines when we broke up! Were giving it another go, but should I dump him ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My previous boyfriend and I, both 22 and never married, had been dating for almost 2 years. During out realtionship, I took him to a hockey game on Valentines Day, and he got a call from a random girl. I asked him who it was, and he said it was a girl that his friend introduced ... (374 words)

How can I communicate with my partner so that we can have a better relationship together ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a few questions. First, how do I communicate so he can't turn every problem around on me? Why can't he try to see and fix his faults for good? (He changes for a few days then goes right back to normal...) Why won't he stay home with me during the last week of my ... (119 words)

can you get pregnant from giving a blow job?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there i was wondering if you were to give a guy a blow-job and he cums is there a possible chance that you can get pregnant?i need answers asap!!!!!thankyou:)... (30 words)

We tried being friends after the breakup, but suddenly hes got nasty!! I dont get why!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6430 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

- Thank you to any who respond here. I broke up with my boyfriend a couple of months ago and we are tried the friendship route. We had occasional contact through email...not phone. A couple of nights ago he left a really nasty email being super accusatory about something I had ... (92 words)

I'm embarrased to ask her out... Should I tell her to meet me somewhere by leaving a note ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm in love with this realy hot girl in my class in school and i think she loves me to and i dont wanna get in trouble or get embarresed in front of all her friends and all of mine im thinking of sending her a note on her desk and telling her to meet me at the corner of the ... (101 words)

He is a drug-user and we don't see each other any more. Do I need to tell him about the baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

- Recently I met a man on the internet and he seemed like everything I wanted in someone, however the first time he called me he was drunk (and driving), I know this is not a good start. However he called me 3 days afterwards and was sober and nice so I agreed to meet up with ... (342 words)

He tells me he's Gay and everyone else hes Bi.. He says he likes me but I'm confused!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6429 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have dated this guy for 3 months, and then after that, we decided to just be friends, but cause we weren't an "item" anymore, we became toys for eachother. When the moment came where it was almost his first time, he couldn't get a hard on, and ever since he's been very ... (182 words)

I've been chatting online to her for four days... Should I tell I've started to fall for her!!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6410 days ago

16 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I was recently having a lng distance relationship which I posted about a while ago. That's ended now and I'm over this girl. I've just met someone on a flirting website and we've exchanged emails and numbers (and it's only been 4 days) but we chat daily about everything. I wa... (117 words)

I'm 22, lesbian and in a relationship with no intimacy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

16 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, people who may be able to help me. Here is where I am going to whine about my problem: Okay, so, I'm twenty-two, lesbian, and have been with my girlfriend for over a year now. At the beginning we had our ups and downs, as in all relationships, but now... Well, ... (616 words)