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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm 28, gay, never dated, and my sex drive is out of control... Help!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6430 days ago

14 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 28 year old gay single male. Ive always been single and never had a partner or even a sexual encounter of any kind. I think someone kissed me on the cheek once. The fact is im not a very good looking guy at all and despite my best efforts i have still not even come close ... (177 words)

How do I choose between my two boyfriends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i love 2 guys as much as the other,i know i cant carry on like this but i don't want to be on my own either,i know it isn't fair on any ov them or myself. they both know about each other and i feel suffocated as they both want 2 be with me, i love these 2 guys an cant bear the ... (75 words)

did I do the right thing in forcing him to choose between me and the weed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hia everyone ive been with my boyfriend for a year now and through out this year all we've done is argue and instead of sorting it out it gets swept under the carpet. not so long ago he kicked the living day lights out of me (literlly) and im all badly bruised and then he ... (176 words)

My son doesn't like my Ex's new girlfriend. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - me and my partner broke up 2 weeks ago as he was seeing someone else he said that we didnt sleep together or hug or talk or nothing and thats why it happened i agree we didnt sleep together much no more but the rest is not true he has cheated on me twice before once with my ... (216 words)

My boyfriend is worried I'll become an alcoholic like my dad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - MY dad is an alcoholic. He used to be aggressive but he's not anymore just narky. he can drink from 5 gasses - 3 bottles a night of red wine. He's an ok guy when he's sober. he cant say 'i love you' because of problems with his parents. My boyfriend is great bin with him a ... (194 words)

How do I make my friends understand how much the aspberger syndrome affects my everyday life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

14 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have recently been diagnosed with asperger syndrome. When I tell my friends they don't seem to really take in how hard it is for me to do the things they do. Whats the best thing to say to them? Any help would be much appreciated... (46 words)

Does he see me as quick sex or someone likeable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i am 15 years old and i know that people say that it is to young to be in love but i am, i also know that however is reading this is having a good laugh but i don't care i just need to speak to someone. anyway i am in love he has sent me a text saying if i wanted to shag ... (128 words)

He cheated on me and he makes me do things I don't really want to do. Does he care about me at all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6430 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

- im confused about my boyfriend. we have been together for 4 years and live together with a small baby. iam 23 and he is 34. he tells me he loves me and cares for me and i think he genuinly believes that he does but he has treated me quite badly over the years. he has ... (289 words)

I don't feel badly that I cheated on her with a 14 year girl! Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6430 days ago

14 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i an 18 and i have a 15 year old girlfriend. i cheated on her with a 14 year old. this isnt the first time this has happened. i dont really feel bad about it either. what should i do?... (40 words)

Should I tell him that we either need to move on with the relationship, or the sex talk needs to stop

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy a few months back. At first, I thought the relationship was just going to be sex, but he seemed to be true to his girlfriend and I was ok with that, respected it, even after he told me he has not been in love with her for awhile (they've been together for seven ... (352 words)

Sice we moved in together..we don't show affection and talk as much. Was this the right thing to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a same sex relationship and have been with my partner for 4 year. I have recently moved in together. Since we have moved in things seem to have gone wrong. We dont talk as much, dont show each other any affection. I'm not sure if this is the right thing for us. I dont ... (79 words)

He plays computers games until 4 am with friends! Should I be upset, and jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6430 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I love my boyfriend very much and he loves me too. we have an apartment together and sometimes one of his friends and his brother comes over to play computer games. Once they get there that is all he does and I feel really left out and kinda jealous because he is doing all ... (106 words)

Can only make love if I think of my ex... will this last forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

14 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i still love my x i no this but i have exepted that she doesnt want me wich hurts i am having sex with another women but the only way i can get it up is if i think off my x will this eventually change... (46 words)

She has a ring -how do I find out if she's married or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6430 days ago

14 May 2007 (M) - There is this girl at work who is really cool, we got cool with one another through a freind and been saying hello and talking to one another from that day. Now I don't want to mess things up but I really wanting to ask her out but thats when I looked down on her hand and saw a ... (271 words)

Gf of five years left me and I am struggling to get over all this. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6430 days ago

14 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Sorry This Is So Long... My girlfriend of 5 years left me a few weeks ago and im really struggling to get over her. there are of course many factors that caused it but no infidelity on either part. The reason she gave for leaving is that she was getting feelings to go a... (536 words)

Lost.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i find my question i wrote in here... (10 words)

I'm blonde--he's brunette..will our children have 'ginger' hair?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4753 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - if i am blonde haired and my boyfriend is brown haired does this mean our children have a good chance of having ginger hair?... (24 words)

I'm 13 and have an embarrasing problem of excessively sweaty hands! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am only 13 but have a real problem with sweaty hands! It is really embarrasing becuase i feel like i can never dance with anyone at partys or hold hands when dancing (one of my favourtie hobbies!) i really dont want surgical treatment but i would li... (92 words)

We've been together 4 years but I have loving feelings for someone else! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6430 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a great long term relationship of 4 years with my boyfriend. He's sweet and loving but recently I've found myself having loving feelings towards someone else. I'm afraid that if i say something to my boyfriend he'll leave me and if i say something to the other person ... (67 words)

I told her I liked her now she's acting differently - does it mean she likes me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Following up from my question (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/gf-dumped-me-and-now-i-cant-get.html) I want this girl and she asked me who i like so i said guess, so she guessed and guessed she wasn't getting it so i told her to look at the PC sceren and i had typed YOU on t... (135 words)

She told me she had fallen for me, I needed time to think it through, but now she is seeing someone else! I am so hurt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok a friend told me she had fallen for me but i wasnt sure how i felt so i said i needed time to sort out my feelings because i wasnt sure. She said she would always like me and would wait. However, ive just found out that shes seeing someone else. She's not officially ... (121 words)

I am offering her a life of happiness but she still stays tied to her abusive ex because of their kid!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I know this woman wants me and she's said that I'm the best man she's ever met. Yet, she has a child from a previous relationship and her ex has started making more demands of her time, expecting her to take the kid to and from him for visits. She's also lent him alot of ... (165 words)

Would it be right to get back with my ex after he cheated? I still love him!,

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - would it be rite to get bk with my ex after he cheated, i was seeing sum1 else to but didn't sleep with this guy while livin with my ex, he had a drunken 1 nite stand and i kicked him out. im now this the lad i was seeing an starting to have seccond thoughts. i know my ex luvs ... (75 words)

He's Christian and doesn't want to have sex with me... I want to have sex. Will this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I've been in a relationship for about a year and a half with a very kind, sweet guy whom I was at school with - for about a year it has been a long distance relationship as we're now at different universities. I'm physically attracted to him, but sometimes I feel... (185 words)

Had an operation on my leg and now--I can't ejaculate! What has happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently went 4 an operation on my leg, but since this i have been unable to ejaculate. At first i cudn't even get a hard on, but now i can i still find it hard to cum. Is there anything i can do 2 help me?... (49 words)

I cheated on my bf and he is stressed! Do I start the long process of letting go when there may still be a chance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6425 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

- Hey all, it seems to be the end of my 3 and a half year relationship.....at least think it is. Last year I cheated on my boyfriend one night with my ex and although everyone said it was never going to happen- he took me back. What I encountered was the most amazing experience ... (597 words)

17 and in love with a 12 year old boy... is it wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm a 17 year old girl and i think i'm in love with a 12 year old boy. we're friends and we hang out almost everyday. he's friends with my brother who is 13 and that's how i met him. most of my friends are younger then me(like 12 and older) because i like hanging out with ... (94 words)

I think one of the tennis pros really likes me! What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I play at a tennis club and i really like one of the pros there the only problem is he's 8 years older than me, (me being 16,he 24) im not sure or not if he likes me or not, but he talks to me alot, always asking a lot of questions about how the tennis is coming along, where i ... (173 words)

She was assualted and her fiancee won't allow her to go out, anywhere! How can I convince her to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have a friend who was sexually assaulted about 1 month ago and she says that she thinks she is ready to go out and face the world again only the problem is, she is in a relationship and her fiancee doesnt want her to go out anymore. She said that after what has happened ... (244 words)

Friend problems! Should I ditch my so called old friends and be a loner at school or carry on being un-happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

- I have a problem with my group of 'close nit' friends. We have been friends since first school we are now in year 10 at high school and its going really bad - i feel so upset about it all! Firstly i chose different lessons to all my friends because they do dance etc and i do... (241 words)

I hate being this vulnerable but I worry if my bf really likes me! An I being insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Could it be that i am paranoid or too little insecure when i feel that my current boyfriend of two months is either seeing someone or he is just not ready for a relationship.... Actually this is not the first time this has happened. My relationships never go past one mont... (418 words)

Are any ladies or men who can give me some advice on what males of 23 think, want in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Hey Hey, I'm seeing this 23 year old....and there's a 7 year difference between us. Like... I wanna get inside his head...know or understand what he's thinking. I wanna know what 23 yr old males think and what they want. I wanna know conversation topics stuff like that. So... (96 words)

I want to get closer to him and get out lovemaking back... but how!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband and i havebeen toghether for 13yrs and we have a 5yr old son together. We have always had a happy marriage until a few years ago my father died and i became very depressed. My husband started to become distant,then started lying to me about things. started of wit... (184 words)

All I wanted was his support for my friend who passed away. Was I out of line?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months. At first everything was great. But things have changed. A good friend of mine passed away recently and I hadn't seend my boyfriend since I was with the family. Well, I asked my bf if he and I could spend some time together, go to a ... (274 words)

I got dumped 5 months ago and feel like I can't face any more bad luck! How do I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex dumped me nearly 5 months ago. I am starting to feel that I am getting over him now, although I still get upset from time to time. Thing is, I feel totally inadequate now. My impression and others is that he wasn't over his ex, who had treated him really badly, and he ... (527 words)

Will he finally come to his senses and we can work this out ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been broken up and after cutting me off completely we finally talked and stayed the night together and he told me how much he loved me and missed me, but at the same time he cant be with me again, will he eventually come around to see he misses so much ... (77 words)

I cant wait to see him with another woman, but he thinks it will break us up!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6429 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

- Me and my boyfriend have finally found someone to join us in a threesome. I just can't wait to see him with another woman! Am I crazy? He thinks it's going to break us up and won't do it if it will. Am I mental for wanting to do this? Help!!!... (51 words)

He never seems to have time to chat. Will this ever work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently met a man on a dating site, he said that he would love to talk to me if I am interested then I said yes I am. We hit it off from there. I have been on the site for 4 months, he for one year and I was going over other sites, I found out that he is a member of another ... (189 words)

How can I prevent my bf from possibly going out with his new "friend"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F) - My b/f recently got a new friend---the friend is smart and nice BUT i don't like his lifestyle--his girlfriend is pregnant and the girlfriend and family live about 3 hours away--he is into real estate and also does some other work so i guess they pay for him to be away right ... (432 words)

She's so talented and I'm a geek. Does she really want to be with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so, I met this girl online a few months ago (just to make it clear, I am a bisexual girl myself), we started emailing each other, we would write really long ones every day and talk about everything and anything. We sort of just connected. After a few weeks we exchanged ... (613 words)

Ever since the fight my gf gives me vague answers. Did she loose interest in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - hi. i had a fight wit my gfriend 2months ago. since then we really talk and wheneva we talk most she has nonclear answers eg if i ask her if we still together she tells me she doesnt know. my qn is -is has she lost interst in me or she is playing hard to get. what should i do?... (60 words)

Would it be right for us to have a baby before the marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F) age 41-50 - hi everyone i just need an advice from you guys, im with my bf for a year now then just recently he asked me for us to make a baby just to make sure that we could have one he's 30 and im 26, i told him that i wanted marriage first before anything else, but on the other side ya ... (153 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to be more liberal in bed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is very uptight in bed, but he doesnt mind me being open and I always lead him. Sometimes he just doesnt wanna have sex, but i always force him because we are not always together.... Sometimes I worry that he will think i am a whore, because Im experienced with sex ... (254 words)

How can I get him to have more sex with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there I am 21 years old my boyfriend is 23. We have been together for 3 years. Our sex life was great but recently he doesn't want to have sex as much as he use to, I now have to make the first move but he always says he's tired and doesn't want to do it. Is this behavior ... (93 words)

I slept with another guy during our break and after my bf and I got back together he found out about it and ditched me. Will he love me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Until a few days ago I'd been with my boyfriend for 3 years, while on a break about a year ago i was extremely drunk (not that that is a good excuse) and slept with one of my closest guy friends but never had the courage to tell my boyfriend as we were both virgins when we met ... (157 words)

Why do I always fall for people who are not interested in me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am sixteen years old and I have never had a boyfriend. I am not delusional. I know that I am not extraordinarily pretty. And I know that not everyone you fall for will feel the same way towards you. But, seriously, for me it's a repetitive cycle of disinterest. I ... (130 words)

I've always been good to her, would she really leave me for her weed-smoking semi-criminal ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i need help here. i've been with this girl on and off for about 10 months now. i love her so much but it always feels like she sends me mixed messages. we both go to college together and now were both at home for the summer. the problem is that theres this guy who she used to ... (264 words)

What can I do to not become aroused so easily?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6430 days ago

14 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - When I'm with a girl I'm easily aroused. Something as simple as making out often causes me to blow my load and it's rather frustrating. I've had this problem for as long as I can remember(since I was 17). Only thing I've found to offset it is when I'm drunk and I'd rather ... (72 words)

My girlfriend gets annoyed when I don't stay errect. What can I do to make her understand it's not helping?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

14 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my G/F have had sex about 4 times. Before we finally had sex I was a virgin and we had to try 3 times cause I kept losing my erection. Partly because of nerves and partly because of her...how should I say this...Lack of Stimulation. 2 of the times we had sex I had a ... (303 words)

He signed himself up on a dating site and he's looking for singles adds in the papers. Is he looking to cheat on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

14 May 2007 (F) age 41-50 - My 30 yr. old boyfriend just built one of those interactive webpages were you can meet new people and add them to your list of 'friends'. Like everything he does and likes he has become kind of addicted to it, adding his pictures to the page (me included) adding old friends and ... (623 words)

Is or isn't going to a casino the same as going out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (M)

age - Am I getting brain washed? The woman I've been seeing for the past few months enjoys going out on the weekends, dancing with her friends. She recently said she would only go out one night of the weekend and spend the other with me (I work weekends). She originally was going ... (181 words)

When I asked my bf, if he took his female friend to a soccer game, he reacted very strongly! What's going on here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is being protective of his female friend of his for some reason and I dont understand why. While I was out of town, he took her to a soccer game, and then when I asked he was reluctant to say but threatened our relationship to be over. Then, he creates a myspace ... (195 words)

Is our differences with each other because of our age gap or because we were raised in different countries?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya I'm Crystal and I'm dating a man named Robert. We have a great relationship and everything seems wonderful...the relationship started out as a friendship and has slowly progressed into the "love" area, and I couldn't ask for better. The only problem is some diffe... (179 words)

When she drunk she comes onto me sexually! Is she bi-sexual..like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hey, i'm eighteen and bisexual. recently, me and my (straight) best friend, have been doing stuff together such as fingering and kissing. but it tends to only happen when we're drunk, and i highly doubt she can ever remember any of it because she never says anything days la... (174 words)

Should I continue talking to my friend even though she hooked up with the guy that I liked?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I like this guy who is just awsome.He cares about me he doesnt want me to skip school or hang around with bad influences.So this guy also talks to my friends.Well a couple days ago my friends called him and he went over their house.Well him and my friend started to flirt ... (135 words)

How do I get my new girlfriend to feel more open about sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (M)

- how do i get my new girlfriend to feel more open about sex? in the past 4 weeks i've been talking about sex alot with my new girlfriend trying to pick out what she like what she dont like. but i always get " shut up " or she ignores me. she doesn't like 2 talk about sex at... (481 words)

I have fallen in love with this man but he is married and has a kid.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

14 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi I have fallen in love with this man but he is married and has a kid. I don't know what to do i am 18 and he is 41. i really want to be with him what shall i do.... (41 words)

What can I do to get more satisfying results when I masturbate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

14 May 2007 (?) - i masturbate every few days. i dont seem satisfied with it. i remember once i spent an hour watchin porn and when i came it was heaven. i cant seem to get the same results. i'm 16. can i do somethin to get more satisfyin results?... (47 words)

I'm 16. I think there's somethin wrong which I am unaware of?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6432 days ago

14 May 2007 (?) - I'm 16. I think there's somethin wrong which I am unaware of! i get into a lot of arguements but recently i have argued alot with my friends. yesterday i got to a point where i was about to punch my mate over a foul in a football match i was playin. i shout abuse and always... (105 words)

What is the best way to ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

14 May 2007 (?) - i really like this girl. i want to ask her to the cinema just as mates. she's always around her mates. i'm afraid she'll say no. we are friends but dont talk to much in school although online we talk more often. any suggestions how i can go about askin? if i ask to speak al... (72 words)