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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Jealousy, physical fights...will he ever change?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6362 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I,ve recently split with my partner again for the 4th time. I gave up my job and friends 4 him he promised he change, we've had loads of physical fights cause of his jealousy now he's promising yet again he change. I've heared it all b4 but this time he reakons he means it, ... (129 words)

A confusing love triangle! What's a girl to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone i like this boy in my class but his best friend likes me it is a bit of a love triangle but i dont like his best friend but now his best friend does not like me no more and i have no idea why and he doesnt know i like his best friend how can i ask him whats going on ... (76 words)

I am literally crazy about her--how do I let her know how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

26 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ok i'm kinda stuck. lets put you in the situation. if you really really really liked a girl and you would try and talk to her so much because it makes you happy. your dream is to go out with her but you cannot because it's not as easy! this girl i see at school, she my friend y... (322 words)

My gf seems to hate it whenever her family talks to me! This is so bizarre..why does she do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

26 May 2007 (M) - Whenever I am around at my girlfriends her parents and brothers try and speak to me. Whenever one of them attempts to speak to me, my girlfriend tells them to go away or tells them that 'I don't want to talk to them' for no apparant reason! When her mum talks to me I can see ... (161 words)

He flirted and texted girls who disliked me...just for an ego boost! How do I ever trust him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I really appreciate any advice. i found out a few months ago that my boyfriend had been talking to girls from early on in our relationship. he had even arranged to have sex but had changed his mind. I found some of these texts and confronted him. he eventually admitted it ... (108 words)

I really like her...how do I get an invite to her birthday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

26 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - there's this girl who i fancy. she's my friend. the problem is she doesnt know. it's her birthday in a few days. i want to be invited. if i'm not invited i just wont be able to take it. i know this may sound stupid and weak but it will kill me knowin i wasn't invited! i just ... (79 words)

My bf was on the phone with a friend for 3 hours and I'm worried! Will he dump me for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - this is a bit of a boy question but i really want some one to help me. i am going out with a boy. lets say he is called andy. and i have a best m8 lest say she is called jen. i have been going out with andy for about 4 months now but i am worried that he is going to dump me... (191 words)

Married for three years and tempted to stray with my co-worker... Help!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I could really do with some advice. I am happily married - or thought I was- until I met this guy at work. He is all I can think about. I have never been tempted to stray at all in my three years of marriage but I am so tempted. I know that if i take this further with this ... (214 words)

I have a feeling if I ask her out, she'll make up an excuse! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

26 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i want to ask this girl out to somewhere such as to the cinema. she's my friend and we talk often at school, she's a great friend as she listens to my problems. but we never actually meet outside of school, we've gone out twice when we all went with friends a few month's ... (144 words)

My Nan is living with us and it's creating a lot of family problems! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My nan has moved in with my mum and dad. They already have 6 People in a 3 bedroom house and my nan is now staying. This wast a problem at first, but now i feel i cant have a life. if i go out with my friends she wants me home before everyone else goes out so she aint on her ... (168 words)

I have a hard time confiding in others. When I do-I feel that my trust always being violated.What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a bad past and need to talk to someone but I have no one to talk to. My "friends" all have bfs/ gfs and when I try to talk to them alone they just say " I dunno what to say, sorry" then run back to their partners as if we hadn't spoken at all. I'm single, but I'm ha... (178 words)

Can a friendship turn into a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age - attraction does it mean that it could be a friendship and it could turn in to a relaationship. i have alot of attraction for a police officer.... (27 words)

He's mean to me and he calls me names! I like him though-does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know how to get this relli nice guy?? theres this guy i realli like but i dunt no if hes interested in me....sometimes i catch him looking at me but i cant reli tell if he does or not??....he can be really mean to me and callz mi names but in the end i no he doesnt mea... (75 words)

Now that he finally likes me back..I'm not sure if I like him anymore! any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i love this guy more than life, i even did a spell to keep him when i lost him to my best friend. i no right pathetic! but it seems to have worked now this guy really likes me and is asking me back out. But now im not sure if i still love him! please help me decide whether or ... (85 words)

Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, went to the bathroom, took the ... (110 words)

I'm 14, pregnant, beaten and kicked out of home by my mom!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6410 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i have a real problem.. im just 14 and i was with this guy for a year then i found out i was pregnant and after 3weeks i told him, he dumped me and said he hated me, 2months later i told my parents, my mom kicked me out so i live with my dad now and he wasnt too happy ... (215 words)

Problems with this girl! Why can't she just leave me alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like some opinions on why someone (my ex bfs gf) would write on peoples wall on facebook saying "omg, your friends with 'kayla'? Your so much better then that." She wrote on 3 of MY friends wall (anyone can ask anyone to be friends. That person can choose to accept ... (941 words)

Fallen out with another girl in college...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi about 4 weeks ago I fell out with a girl in college. I told her how she made me feel because in truth I felt intimidated by her. She looks down at people and talks in big posh words. I thought it would be honest to tell her how I felt and how she changed the subject ... (580 words)

Husband is unable to perform sexually, due to drinking! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age - My Husband can no longer perform sex from drinking to much, and im very sexual woman, what in the dam can i do when he is my husband and i need good sex and affection, please help me please with some wisdom....... (42 words)

She's cheated on me and I know... but she doesn't know I know - what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6410 days ago

26 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My partner has cheated on me at least once, she doesn't yet know I know. What should i do, i love her to bits, but she continues to lie to me. We have a son, he is almost two, i cant see him hurt by this, but i can hardly stand to look at her. What should I do? Only g... (82 words)

He goes to uni in 3 months! Should we break up and should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and a boy went out 2 years ago, and became very serious, but called it off because my mum wasn't well and I needed time away from everything. He totally understood, but we lost contact soon afterwards, because I was so down and depressed. Recently, we got back in contact, ... (164 words)

My hair is falling out in clumps! What is happening to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm scared, im 19 and my hair's falling out. I have been under some emotional stress lately but that part of my life has some what calmed down but my hair just seems to be falling out more and more. Whenever I touch my hair it comes away in my hand and while I was in the shower ... (112 words)

Why does my gf have a lot of vaginal discharge?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

26 May 2007 (M)

age - my girlfrien have viginal dicharge since i met her for past ten months why... (14 words)

We broke up! And I am thinking terrible thoughts about what she's doing now. How do I cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6409 days ago

26 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am in need of some relationship advice!! I broke up from my girlfriend approximately 1 and a half months ago. My relationship with her lasted just short of two years, which for both of us was the longest time we had committed to anyone before. Now i am face... (137 words)

My ex is seeing someone else! Why do I feel so gutted?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

- I split up with my lover a while back because we had issues that couldn't be resolved,we were together 3 years and it was me who decided to end it.Anyway i found out that he has been seeing someone else and for some reason i felt gutted and very jealous.Why do i feel like this ... (81 words)

I'm good looking (people say) but look young for my age!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

26 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - What is the best way to start chatting to a girl in a club? I would class myself as a nice guy, i get loadsa compliments saying im good looking, but i think my downfall is i look young for my age. I'm 19, but probably only look 16, and this knocks my confidence big t... (141 words)

It bugs me that people say, couples should not look at each other's emails! Isn't that th choice of the couple involved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - You know, it really really bugs me when I see people responding saying it wasn't a gf's or a wife's place to look through her bf's or husband's email or vice-versa. Maybe some people have an understanding and are okay with things like that. I have never personally had a problem ... (134 words)

I am finally happy after a cheating ex bf and 2 abortions! Now I find out the ex is having regrets? I am confused..help??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 25 yr old girl in a relationship with a boy almost 4 yrs younger. While this relationship is working out well, the one before this was terrible. The guy I had known since forever (since I was 10 actually) but he kept cheating on me and we kept going back and forth for 3 ... (224 words)

Scared to break it off... I know she loves me but she never, ever shows it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

26 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am with my first girlfriend ever in my life. I am 20 and she is 18. Every other weekend we see each other, (because we don't drive), she doesn't french me anymore, and we don't even make out anymore. She spends most of her time on my computer and not touching me or paying ... (100 words)

My gf doesn't pay much attention to me anymore! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

26 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel so sad lately. Me and my girlfriend both still live with our parents, so we only see each other like every other weekend. She says she loves me and I love her too. But she doesn't french me anymore, and everytime she comes over she just spends time on my computer and ... (91 words)

Found a small painful lump on my armpit. What could it be?

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi ive recently been having a pain under my arm that started like 2 days ago and ive just found a lump in my armpit. its small but painful if i press it. what could this be? i cant get a doctors appointment before i go on holiday in 2 days time and dont want to spend my whole ... (63 words)

When a guy you know says he won't kiss you because you are drunk, what does that mean?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm a bit confused. I know there are lots of guys who will gladly kiss a girl when she's drunk becuase i suppose it's easier for them to be taken advantage of and all that... however, when a guy you know says he won't kiss you because you are drunk, what does that mean? ... (83 words)

I really think she is interested in my husband! What's my next move?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - I am struggling with this girl, who lives on the same street as we do (my husband and I) and since there jas been a no smoking ban in public bars and restaurants, we hang out at home. I am usually inside but since it has been considerably warm in the house, and not yet ... (597 words)

How long do I wait until I tell him I've made up my mind, and want to break it off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently told my bf of almost 9yrs I wanted to separated for a while. We started dating when I was 16, and I feel I have changed. He wants to marry and I don't. I told him that and I needed time to figure out what I want. He said it breaks his heart, but he will leave. He ... (91 words)

He stole naked pics of this other guy's wife...off their computer! Is this really creepy or what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice. My husband and I have always had a strong loving, trusting relationship. We have been married 4 years and we a have a wonderful two year old daughter. We are both highly successful working professionals. We have very close friends who are a married couple. ... (266 words)

He found a new gf after first giving me an STI ...so why can't I get over him after all this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya everyone ive got a really embarrasing problem but the thing is it hurts too n just wanted some help plz!! well the thing is i was seeing this lad 4 bout 3 months n we got on really well. we both liked the same music n had a really gud laugh but he called it off with me n ... (225 words)

I think this policeman I like knows how I feel. What do I do next time I see him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age - i really like a cop and the other day my daughter and career day at school she only 11 years old ,te cop that i like his partner was there at the school and my daughter talked to the cop and told him to tell the cop i like hi for us. i was wondering if he knows now that iam ... (80 words)

Do men sort of fall out of love with their woman after they have his baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a baby a mo. and a half ago. Lately, I feel like maybe my boyfriend resents the responsibility I have brought upon him. We were friends for like 6 yrs. before we got together and I was dating a friend of his. Well, we were just seeing eachother, he would come to mine ... (330 words)

I am a mature student and I am bi-curious.I have this mad crush on my female teacher! What should I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in my mid-twenties, happily married with a child. I am currently a mature student at college and I am head over heels madly deeply in love with my female teacher who has children older than me. She is not only beautiful outside but she's caring and understanding and a ... (119 words)

He wants a baby--but, I don't want to have child without marriage. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

26 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Break up or wait??! I'm in need of some impartial advice! I've been with my partner for nearly 5 years now. We are both professionals owning houses very near each other (don't live together). My partner is 32 was married and has a daughter - from what he tells me the r... (263 words)