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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We were both alcoholics and I quit the habit for our child, and now he has too. I feel like an empty shell now and I'm wondering if it's possible for us to live together anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6411 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for eight years to a man that is an alcoholic. I partied with him daily until we decided to have children (we have two kids, a boy 5 and a girl 4) Our children came fast to us and there wasn't much time to adapt to our new lives as parents but I had to quit ... (206 words)

Felt warm, happy and got a tingly feeling in my vagina. Did I orgasm?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

24 May 2007 (?) age 30-35 - Hiya, I am not sure if i got an orgasm or not... i know i probably sound silly but i dont actually have a clue. I kind of felt all warm and happy and like a mild tingly feeling in my vagina but that is it really. some one please help me... thanks x... (65 words)

I feel so played by my ex gf! How can I make myself feel better about this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex told her mate she was considering having a break from me in order to hook up with some guy she knows online. I confronted her about this, and she said it was girly chat and meant nothing. A week later, I'm dumped. And shes already got plans to meet this guy from the ... (174 words)

My dad has ear cancer...I've never heard of this! Can it be treated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Please someone help me. I'm 16 so I don't really understand much about it anyway but a healthcare person came round my house today to see my dad because he's unwell and suffers from epilepsy but he checked my dads ears too and said he may have a form of ear cancer. What is... (89 words)

Affairs are not worth it! Thanks for everyone's advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - about a week ago i posted this question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-dont-know-how-to-end-it-what.html I just want to thank all those who replied to me.I know what i did was wrong but i also know now that i have to live with the guilt. Forever. Affairs happe... (131 words)

He's rather small and floppy down there. If I get serious is this all I am going to get? Is this common thing with men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't want this to sound shallow or lame but I have been seeing a guy for 6 months. The sex is ok but without sounding too dirty he is rather small down below and when erect it's a bit floppy. You cannot seem to do many positions because of this problem. He has tried viagra ... (116 words)

I am finally feeling that this scar on my neck is just in my head! Thanks for the advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6415 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - dear agony aunties i would just like to give people an update from my previous question on the following question link here (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-seem-to-have-a-scar-line-on.html)and i been to the doctors and he keeps on sayin theres nothing their and its ju... (96 words)

Trying to date and move on--but I can't shake these strong feelings for my ex even after all that he has done. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I am 37 year old female with 2 children, 9 and 2. I found out 8 months ago that my husband John whom I have known for 14 years had an affair whilst on a course. I immediately kicked him out. He said he loved me but was not in love with me and did not mean for this to ... (138 words)

Worried that if we stay together her many past encouters with Men will hang over us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Im 20yrs old. I have been going out with this girl for 6 months now and the number of guys she's bin with really bothers me (around 14). She went to a festival and had unprotected anal sex with some random guy in some forest last year...she has had many of these random one ... (191 words)

He broke up with me because he said I bring him down. How do I stop the pain I am feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age - I know my partner and i are over, although we are still in the same house,with him arranging to work away some nights through the week and go away at weekends. He wants me out and I will go once i have my own place again (or move in with relatives at some point)but don't want ... (347 words)

We spend time 24/7 together for 8 months... now he wants space but not sure I can do it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there My boyfriend and i have hit a rough patch, we used to spend 7 days a week together for the last 8 months until it started to cause problems like when he wanted to go out with out me i presumed it was because he didnt want me around anymore i just didnt realise th... (304 words)

I get the feeling he's only using me for sex...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 8weeks now and i get the impression he is only using me for sex he says he isnt but thats not the impression i am getting. he wakes me up touching me and everytime that we go out he always touches me in my private place and keeps grabbing my ... (101 words)

My ex is still really angry at me for taking her virginity, when we were both 24...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

24 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. My ex is still really angry at me for taking her virginity, when we were both 24. We had been together for about 5 years before having sex for the first time, she had expained she wanted to wait until she was married before having sex. I had asked her to marry me twice ... (177 words)

I'm 25 and love a married man who's 52! I know it's wrong but down know what to do...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 25 and I love a married man that is 52, I know this situation is aweful, but i love him so much, everytime i yell and fight with him saying its over and i cant do it anymore, within a few hours we are talking again, I know it is wrong and I hate myself, but after being ... (127 words)

He's been seein my mate behind my back, he has broken my heart...how could he do this to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've bin with my boyfriend for 7 years, thro out these 7 years we have always been abit rocky but always felt we was in love wiv each other.i've bin thro hell an back wiv this guy, i love the bones ov this man only to find out he's been seein my mate behind my bk, he has broken ... (335 words)

I am so scared of my parents violent arguments. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

- my parents have always argued but just recently they have got worse. I reali think it wud b betta for all of us if they spilt up. they argue violenlty up to 4 times a week. its very hard to write down in words how terrified and scaryed i am as a 15 year old girl. i need your ... (70 words)

I'm still in love with him and not moving on. Is it because he was my first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex boyfriend and i split up a just over a year ago. our relationship had been very serious and we were both deeply in love with each other. he ended it because he felt too young to be so serious, but left the option open for the future. there has been on and off contact ... (156 words)

Is it normal for guys to try and have sex with a female while she sleeps?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - wanted some advice from the guys on here. well i slept with my boyfriend last night for the first time. i've been with him for about two months now. When I woke up he was on top of me and trying to have sex again, i don't know what he had been doing whilst I slept. Is this in ... (65 words)

He can say "I love you" over the phone but not in person.. why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf says he loves me on the phone and i believe him, but to my face he can only manage i like you. He can't explain himself. Whats going on?... (31 words)

I really like two different guys...whom do I choose ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im 16yrs old nd there are these two guys that i both love with all my heart! the 1st ive been out with before and it didnt work and i was very hurt. we stayed best friends and i never stopped liking him :) now i find out he likes me again. the 2nd guy i met at the same tim... (119 words)

First time sex with my bf hurt real bad! Was this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 20 year old girl and me and my boyfriend tried to have sex yesterday for the first time (I was a virgin, he wasn't) and it really hurt and I had to tell him to stop. Now I feel bad that I had to stop him and I'm scared something is wrong with me. Was the pain normal ?... (62 words)

Are we doing the right thing in trying to save this marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently decided to get back together with my husband which whom i have kids with i love him vey much but we have had such a rocky marriage it has always been on and off. I feel like its me thats putting all effort in i get very moody when he goes out thinking allsorts ... (66 words)

I have problems getting to that first official date with any women I meet. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

24 May 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Can anybody give me some advice? I don’t seem to have any trouble attracting women and consider myself lucky with the number of women I know to talk to. Most of these are women approach me initially. I do consider myself approachable and they think I’m a friendly guy. I ... (364 words)

I can't cope with idea of ever losing her! How do I deal with these feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

24 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay this is a bit complicated but I'm going to try to explain the best way I can. I'm in love with a girl. And although there is no way I can find out (you'll have to trust me on this one) I am fairly certain that she feels the same way as I do. The problem is that because of ... (172 words)

Dating 8months and I feel he is going off me! Am I being paranoid or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I've been with my boyfriend now for about 8 months but I dont know whats happened to us. At first everything was fine and even up to the last month or so everything was great, but now I dont feel I trust him anymore and everything he does I seem to question in my mind. We ... (335 words)

Is this long distance relationship worth continuing with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfirend lives thousands of miles away. We've been together for over a year but living apart. We speak a few times a week and rarely actually see each other. I have no doubt that he cares about me and would like to be with me however i'm not sure we have a future together. ... (296 words)

I dumped him by text and ignored his calls and now --I regret it! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok... SO im 14, you all probably think im silly and dont no what real love is. But I went out with this lad, i hardly knew him when he asked me out, so first time i said no. He was at my school and in my year but I had never really spoke to him. Eventually after a few d... (322 words)

Because I'm very good at sex-he's very insecure and thinks I will stray. How do I reassure him I won't do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I think my b/f is going through a slight insecure phase because I have a high sex drive (usually want it more often than he does) and he tells me I am great at oral sex (the best he's ever had) and when we go out he thinks I look at other men. I do sometimes look around the ... (230 words)

We're going on a party camp out..and my bf wants to have sex with me! Should I let him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hii. Well next friday I have a party and me, my boyfriend, my best girl friend and maybe her boyfriend and my best boy mate are planning to camp out. As we are typical teenagers we will obviously want booze and we want to have a good laugh. My boyfriend of 3 months has told me ... (230 words)

Feel uncomfortable about my grown-up boys having their girlfriends stay over...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (M)

age - I am 52 yrs.old and have two college-aged boys (20 and 22 years old). They've come home for the summer to live with me and work and both of their gilfriends have been hanging out with them at my house. This is fine, but then the g/f's have started spending the night with them ... (235 words)

I catch him in a lot of lies and I am concerned! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 33 yr old female and a man that is 23 is interested in me. I am secure with myself but worry that he will find someone better and that he is not ready for a commitment. I often catch him in lies and I do not know how to handle it, it is usually about where he has been and ... (78 words)

Am I bad for feeling that my Dad may think my bf is weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - Ok, say me and my boyfriend were out in the living room talking to my dad. I kept thinking "what if my dad thinks my boyfriend is weird" because i do call my boyfriend weird alot and he agrees. Anyways, i am not looking for reassuarance. Am i a bad girlfriend to even say "... (119 words)

He won't reply to my emails and I'm not sure why? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6420 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hello again! I've got a slight problem. I've known this guy since I was about 4 (so 15 years) and we lost contact a few years ago, we've started talking again and have met up a couple of times as our uni's are really close.im not sure if im just paranoid but he seems to have... (112 words)

Bf has jealousy problems with my guy friend! Bf has refused to meet him--what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - long story short , i have a boyfriend and another friend but he's a guy. And my boyfriend has problems(he's jealous) with me talking to my friend. I don't think that my friend loves me because we've known each other for like 3 years and he never mentioned anything to me !!! B... (96 words)

We're both married and having an affair! Why should I act this stupid and why does he cheat? Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - The head tells you to leave a married man while the heart doesnt. I started an affairs since this May. We both married, he with 2 kids and I dont have any. We have been classmates (part time study)for 1 year and suddenly he wrote the mail and said he liked or loved me. ... (312 words)

Is it true that some men "never get past sex"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age - Is it true that some men "never get past sex"? Like if the sexual aspect of the relationship has dipped into a less-than-hot-passion phase, then the man thinks it's over, and now you're approaching friendship, and he starts to look around. I am worried that that's what... (147 words)

Am I messing up the pill by eating so much grapefruit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm asking this here because well all the medical sites haven't wrote me back and my doctor is a...well ya know... So hopefully someone can help me out..I've been doing alot of research but I'm running in circles. I'm on the Grapefruit Diet because I have a lot of weight to ... (146 words)

My BF was sexually abused when he was 6, he is now 17 and we want to have sex but I'm scared he will panic and those feelings will come back again...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (?) age 30-35 - Hi i am 15 in 2 weeks, i live in the uk and have been going out with my boyfriend now for 17 months and he is 17. i love him. i never felt like this before and i reali want to settle with him and be with him forever. i really want to have sex with him i am just scared. we are ... (208 words)

I want to convert to Judaism but my husband doesn't - does this mean I won't be allowed to convert?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been carefully considering converting to Judaism for a few years now and believe it's what I really want. That's not the issue though; the problem is, I'm married and my husband isn't Jewish. I know that a Jewish person isn't meant to marry a non-Jewish person; does this ... (75 words)

We've been together 3 years but she is soo beautiful and I'm worried I'm too average to keep her satisified!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

24 May 2007 (M)

age - My g/f and I have been together for almost 3 years, the first six months, just as friends, then lovers, then I asked her to move in with me and she's been there for a year-and-a-half. I love her but I'm starting to feel a little insecure about our relationship. For one thing, ... (296 words)

I feel like it may be "too soon" to love again...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

24 May 2007 (M)

age - Four years ago I was engaged to be married to a woman who I thought loved me. A month before our wedding, she broke off our relationship, and cleaned me out, she stole money from me, took all my furniture and appliances, pretty much everything that wasn't nailed down. She left ... (249 words)

My family members abuse me and make me feel abnormal - should I seek legal help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - It seems to be that none of my expectations of getting emotional and psychological support have been met by my family members. Rather they have been abusing me all this time. Yet i feel addicted to them and get tempted to relate with them to escape the anger and depression of ... (137 words)

I love my girlfriend and she loves me... what's the next step?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i love my girlfriend and i know she loves me, how do i take it to the next level. marriage is a choice but i dont want to scare her off and i just want to take a romantic step to show i care and love her... (47 words)

He still wants to be friends...should I or shouldn't I?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - "I left my troubled relationship for him. Now he has left me for pregnant ex girlfriend" He now says he would still want us to be friends. Do you think its wise for me to be friends with this guy or should i just forget he ever existed in my life and move on?... (58 words)

Decided I am moving to another country to start over! Is this a good idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - ("I fell in love with someone while i was in a troubled relationship.I decided to end the troubled relationship so i could go and start a new one with this guy i fell in love with and he was thrilled and said he was in love with me too. After a month he started acting funny and ... (282 words)

I really love a man with whom I am not sure I can share my life with, in terms of money matters.Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 26 years old, married for about 3 years. I am a positive person with self-esteem and confidence in the future. I have a great CV with high education and experience. However it is not easy to find good income work in the country I live in where most good positions rely o... (813 words)

He says he loves me when he sees me, once a month. Then I don't hear from him! Is he being sincere?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I live in different towns. I see him once a month and when we see each other he always tells me that he loves me, but as soon as he leaves, I don't hear from him for weeks. He won't even return my smses. Do you think he means it when he says he loves me?... (59 words)

How do I tell my children, their beloved Grandmother is dying? Any advice?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6396 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi can someone please help. i have just found out that my childrens grandma is dying my middle daughter loves her so much how do i tell her she will be leaving us. their grandma is not very old and my children are 10 7 5 and 2 how do i handle the hole think i am finding it very ... (149 words)

We started living together and then plans to get engaged fell through! What happened here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been a relationship with my boyfriend for two and half years and since October we have been living together. He has rented out his flat and has moved into my house. We have discussed getting engaged and were planning a holiday to celebrate my 40th birthday together with ... (72 words)

I'm 18, virgin, and furious!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

24 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm quite a pathetic case really. I'm 18 and still a virgin. Being a bloke its not something that i've admitted - I even spun my best mates off with bullshit stories about how i got layed. I hate myself for it. I don't understand why the fuck I still am a virgin anyways. ... (255 words)

Where can I get smaller condoms?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Does any body have the same problem I do? I have a penis size of 5 inches, but condoms i buy seem to be far too big for me, so when i have sex they seem to slip alot. Does anybody know where i can get smaller ones from? ... (53 words)

The girl I really want to be with keeps changing her mind about me! Do I go back to my ex gf who wants me back? Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing a girl for six months, but much of that time have secretly pined for another a girl, a shared friend. A month ago this friend told me she had feelings for me, and it was obvious to her I did as well. Shortly afterwards I broke up with my girlfriend, feeling it ... (217 words)

Despite the abuse, she wants to make a go of it with the ex. Should I give this up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I was told that a workmate fancied me. I vowed to myself that I'd play it cool as she's got a child from a previous relationship in which she also suffered abuse. I wanted to get to know her properly first before anything else happened and also to make sure that I wasn't being ... (185 words)

Does my gf not value my opinions? Any advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6411 days ago

24 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I was left feeling felt un-needed, Last night i spent over an hour helping my girlfriend sort out a problem.... not a huge one but still... The problem was: She has work today for a temping agency and at the same time she has a job interview... She was told by the agency (w... (227 words)

I am feeling insecure because I have a younger husband..afraid I will lose him? Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am in my mid 30s, female. I have 2 kids and i got divorce long back. now i am happly married again to a younger man who is 6 years younger to me. we also have a year old son. but my problem is that i feel insecure of my marriage, coz my husband is younger to me and i am ... (102 words)

I write out my feelings when I feel sad. Why can't the guy I'm dating could read my texts and realise that I'm hurting and I need his attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - when i am frustrated I have a tendency to scribe, i mean sending out sms and letters and notes... to the people especially the ones i am dating. What i have realised is that the more i scribe is the more i push them away, or its the more they do not pay attention. This makes me ... (190 words)

He was no good for me! How do I get back my worthiness after being with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my standards have dropped since being with a guy who was not good for me. How can I regain my standards and think that I am still worth what I once thought I was worth?... (37 words)

My in laws hate me and my husband doesn't stand up for me! Is this right?

This question has 108 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi - from the outset of my long (18 year) relationship with my husband (i have been married for 13) I have been relentlessly put down and bullied by my parents in law. This has ranged from making derogatory comments about my hair and my weight ( I am slim) accusing me of being ... (315 words)

I left my husband a year ago because I knew I no longer loved him the way a wife should... but I'm worried he'll talk me into staying

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I left my husband a year ago because I knew I no longer loved him the way a wife should. We had grown apart, and I felt no physical attraction for him anymore. But I didn't rush into divorce either because my husband insisted that I wait, hoping I'd change my mind. I waited ... (265 words)

Should I follow my mind or my heart after my husband cheated?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What should i follow,my mind or my heart? My mind tells that i have to leave my husbnd for the cheat he did in our relationship. but my heart tells that i have to give him another chance for the sake of our marriage life..Im confused...any advice would help me a lot...thanks...... (52 words)

I'm scared that I get bored with my romantic partners way too easily!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have this terrible fear that I may be the type of person who gets bored with my romantic partners too easily, but I don't know what to do to change my behavior. I got bored with my husband very early in the marriage and had a string of affairs. Each one, eventually losing ... (156 words)

Found out she was kissing another guy. Is this why she keeps asking for "breaks"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6420 days ago

24 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend started dating at the end of our 9th grade year, but the next year she moved 2 hours away. Since then we have still been together and in about 2 and a half weeks it will be 3 years since we started dating. Recently though she has been telling me that she ... (314 words)

The other woman has his baby and wants my husband back! How do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my husband have been together for a lil over a year and he has a baby by another woman and this other woman hates me and wants him back and during christmas she brought him over to see him but the whole time they were talking together and he wasnt even spending time with ... (136 words)

Married one year and he has give me oral, only 3 times! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my my husband for a little over a year and he's only given me oral pleasure 3 times. He wont talk about it with me or anything. I give him oral pleasure all the time and as soon as i bring him giving me oral pleasure he ignores me. There has been a couple of ... (97 words)

My husband says he's "b urnt out" after our 11 year relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband says he is burnt out on our 11 year relationship, i dont want to just throw it all away..am I only dreaming that this will work out?... (29 words)

Our marriage hit a rough patch and I cheated! Should I tell my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6419 days ago

24 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband is overseas hes been gone for 10 months and we were constantly fighting and he was always accusing me of cheatin on him and then my brother died and all he did was fight with me and i just couldnt take it anymore and i met a guy who was so nice and i made a huge ... (91 words)

We're drifting apart and my husband says he's burned out! But I don't want a divorce...any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Hi, I am wondering if my marriage is going to survive. My husband and I have been drifting apart for sometime now. Now, he say he is burn out on the marriage and thinks we should both go and find our own happiness. Divorce has come up to, but that isn't what I want..what do ... (60 words)

Either this guy is not interested or he's very unsure! What should I do about this?

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24 May 2007 (F)

- Thank you to all who respond. I am dating a few men right now. There is one I like quite a bit. Mostly we email...I did ask if he would like to get together. The pattern is that I do not hear from him for a few days and then he emails back with a long and apologetic email which ... (146 words)

His gf dumped him and now--he rarely talks to me! What's going on here?

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24 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Im going crazy!! Plz any advice is soo welcome here...brutial honesty sure beats tellin me what i want to hear!! Ok...me and my ex started chattin few weeks ago and he said all the right stuff (i luv u n miss u..never luv another more then i luv u) we chatted few times a day ... (303 words)

He's progressed to seeing me at best once a week, never at his suggestion! Am I being taken for granted?

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24 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was happy single having fun, and strong in myself. I was hoping for the next year in uni when a guy I liked would be back off placement and maybe things would come together. Then he started seeing someone, and I don't know, what with Christmas coming and those stupid lovey ... (461 words)

Attraction for my neglectful bf has waned! An old friend has caught my eye..he treats me great! what should I do?

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24 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am stuck between a rock and a hard place. I am seeing a guy who is still very much in the "one of the boys" phase, if his mates arrive when we have plans he includes them, even in a special dinner. After two months the little things he used to do to make me feel special have ... (218 words)

How do I stop my fiancees accusations, that I do things intentionally to annoy him?

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24 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my fiancee thinks that im always up to something or doing something intentional agst him. But that is not true at all. For example, he cannot find the digital camera which I have put somewhere and I dont know where it is myself and am honest with him about it. That got me ... (219 words)

I'm too insecure to let him go!

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24 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have told my boyfriend i feel trapped...i cant alk to him, he bores me but i am too insercure to loose him! There is amn in my life i have known for 6 years and slept with 2 years ago once as a mistake! He is a great guy and always cheers me up and tries to help me...but he ... (119 words)

How do I drop a hint to my married co-worker, that I really him?

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24 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I work with a manager who is about 48 yrs old. I like him a lot for his maturity, confidence, and sincere pride in his job and life. I'm a 20 yr old girl, but feel like he is someone I could get along really well with. I don't know if he likes me because I've noticed that he ... (88 words)

I'm successful in my studies but have no social life and never even dated... Worried that I have a boring personality (and I'm small)

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24 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I wonder if anyone could give me some useful advice.I'd be very grateful. I am 27 year old male, of small build (171 cm tall, slim, from the UK. Soon I'll be 28 years old (July). I am still at university, studying chemistry (well , I am a late starter, but that's another ... (493 words)

He has a new gf and can't see me as friends, anymore. What should I do?

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24 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My best friend, who I went out with 7 years ago, for 2 years, and then have been friends with him for the last 5 years, is not talking to me. He has decided to not be friends with me since he has a girlfriend. I am in love with him, and want him back. She has a 3 year old ... (358 words)

Just got back from Iraq but my girlfriend has gone very cold on me... is it a phase?

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24 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I guess I have a fairly complex question. I suppose thats due to the complex situation :P. Basically I've been in and out of a relationship with this girl for almost 3 years now. I just did a tour in iraq, came back, and we got togather again. But things are not like they were. ... (116 words)

Why would he stare if he didnt like me??

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24 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like this guy, but i havent told him. Yesterday, we were sitting around with a couple of people. From the side of my eye, i caught him staring at me. I looked back, smiled, and he kept looking, even after i turned away. I think this is a good sign, maybe my feelings ... (78 words)

How can you tell if you REALLY love someone?

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24 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How can you tell when you love someone? Please, I mean I love someone but I want to know how you can really tell???... (25 words)