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writes:I need help. I really like this girl that I've known for nearly a year but we've only got close recently. We both go to a dance school but at different places and we only see each other on Wednesday's at our Elite dance school. She lives about 30-45 minutes away from me. We have met up on a few Saturdays before. She knows I really like her. We both liked the same things so we started calling each other 'soulmate'. We even got our own song; 'Just So You Know' by Jesse McCartney. I’ve been really close to her for weeks. There would be the odd day when we wouldn't talk but we would talk the next day as soon as possible. I trust her with my life. I bought her loads of presents to show her how much I liked her. I asked her to my prom which is in June and she was happy to go. She had to check she didn't have her Duke of Edinburgh that week. She checked and she didn't. We were both really happy. She started talking to some of my mates and my mates really liked her and they really liked her. She said to one of my mates she was confused about her feelings towards me so I was really happy because I thought we might have a chance together. We went to some dance competitions together and we were inseparable. My mum said one day that we were going to go to Alton Towers and that I could bring a friend. I chose my 'soulmate'. It turned out she would have to sleep round my house the night before. I was really looking forward to it. She got here and it was a bit awkward to begin with. I wanted to go for a walk to show her my town but she didn't want to go. Eventually we went. Her mates had told her that she might get killed which I told her was rubbish. So when we got back we talked and talked and talked more or less all night. When we got up, we were fine. We started watching a movie in the car but I felt sick but she kept watching while I slept. We got to the park and we stayed with my mum and her mate for a bit. Then we went by ourselves. We had fun and everything. Then we met back up with my mum and her mate and went on a few more rides together. We went on one and it made me feel really sick. We went on another slow, not so bad one but it made me feel worse. I said I wasn’t going to go on any more rides. I think this pissed her off. So she wanted to meet up with my mum and her mate again and go on some more rides. I then decided I wanted to go on a ride that she didn’t go on. So I left her to find my mum. I know this was wrong and I am really regretting it now. So we split and she didn’t seem in a good mood. We met back up and she was talking to me better. On the way home, we were talking and I mentioned the prom. She was saying she was looking forward to it. When we got back, she gave me and my mum a hug and got picked up. I was really happy. The next day, I got a text saying ‘I’m not sure if I’ll be able to go to the prom yet because of Duke of Edinburgh. I think you should ask someone else first. Because I don’t want to let you down last minute sorry xxx’. I was very shocked by this. We didn’t speak for a week or two. In the end, I sent her and email (a long one at that) saying I was sorry for whatever I done, that I really missed her, that she was the first person I was this crazy about, that she was the only one I wanted to go with to the prom and that I wanted her there because I wanted her to be part of my special night. She wrote to me saying that she had been busy and would talk to me when she had more time off. We didn’t speak anymore. I text her at the weekend to find out what was happening about the prom and she didn’t text back. I text her today and she replied with nothing about the prom. I text her saying that I guessed she didn’t want to go to the prom. She text back that she was really busy and wouldn’t have time. I replied and said I didn’t mind and that I was going with my oldest and bestest friends. She replied saying ‘well that great then bye’. I was going to leave it and show her that I didn’t have a prom date (which I still haven’t really) to show her that I definitely wanted to go with her. What should I do? Please, someone help me. Natexpress13 xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2007): hi i read your queston and i being a girl can relate to your "soulmate" shes confused and everything was moving too fast for her to handle! give her space ( no matter how hard this will be) she wil come around! give her a casual txt to see how her day was nothing too forward! it sounds as if she is confused and hearing about how you feel about her has probly scared her it gets scary!! just take it slow trust me she'll get in touch! annonomous xx xx xx
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