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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My bf is coming to visit next week---is there any way I can keep my period away or push it back a few days?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (F) age 36-40 - I'm in a long distance relationship and only get to see my BF once every few months. He's coming to visit in a week and I'm scheduled to have my period for the entire time he's here. Besides birth control pills, is there ANY WAY I can keep my period away or push it back a f... (69 words)

Can't be with her for complicated reasons! But not being with her will drive me crazy! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6425 days ago

19 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl that i'm crazy about and i know she is about me too, we've both agreed for now that we cant be together at the moment for lotsa complicated reasons, but now not being with her is just gonna drive me crazy, any advice??... (46 words)

Husband wants a big party for the guys with beer and porn! I am worried about the neighbors and am against this. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6425 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Apologies for the length of this but I am really really worried by my husband's idea. My husband told me he is holding a lads' party - in our house. He said the party rules are - no clothes, just your underwear, and bring booze and porn too, plus DVD's as well - the ultim... (329 words)

My bf is racist! Should I tell him about the boy on the bus that kissed my hand?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6423 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so im not racest but my boyfriend don't like black people that much cuz of how they act and he don't like whites and blacks going out cuz he don't think its right, me and him fought about that for about a week and i still don't care about white people and black people ... (214 words)

I want to find a partner who is a virgin like me! This is important to me...any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

19 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 22 year old single, virgin guy. I have been in fairly long term relationships which have broken down largely because I have not been able to handle the fact that the girl I was with in each case was not a virgin. I am not religious, and appreciate that to a lot of peopl... (157 words)

Does 'stimulating sex' and 'masturbation' mean the same thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - what does stimulating sex mean? what does masturbate mean? do they mean the same thing??... (17 words)

Why does this happen... when i masturbate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - why do i have this when i masturbate? i'm a female and whenever i masturbate i always feel my clit getting bigger and harder. as i gradually rub and rub i get fluids comming out. why?... (39 words)

I was with his freind before I dated him and now--he's dumping me and choosing his friendship over me! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - so i am in love with a guy and want to be with him and only him hes the first guy that ive had a relationship with ever since i got seperated and divorced the problem is iwas being honest with him and told him i made a mistake and was with one of his good friends before we got ... (155 words)

We both want different things for our future. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i love my boyfriend and have been dating for 5 yr, we both know we want different things in future. im ready to start thinking of future while he wants to continue as we are. wot do i do?... (40 words)

I feel bad he has a gf, but if he was happy with her...would he be with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I recently started a new job and i met this chef, he is amazing and after i was there about a week we kissed and it was great, the next day i found out he ad a girlfriend. so the next day i met him to confront him but i ended up kissing him again, we tried to break it up bu... (103 words)

How do I get the guts to talk to this guy I like at work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6425 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this lad who works in the same place as me the problem is i have never even had a conversation with him and i feel like a tit even if he just looks in my direction and i havent got the gurts to start to talking to him 1st any advice on what to do?... (58 words)

Anyone else in a large age gap?? I'd love to know!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been in an age gap relationship for 3 years, me and my partner got married last year and life couldn't be better. Im 20 and he is 59 so a 39 year age gap. Sometimes I feel like we are the only people in the world with a big age gap but I sometimes come across people with ... (92 words)

My partner of 6 years had a fling in november, and after 5 weeks of me not knowing if he was staying or going, decided that he would make a go of it and would help alleviate my insecure feelings.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age - I am writing again as helps to read others thoughts - so i hope you don't mind. My partner of 6 years had a fling in november, and after 5 weeks of me not knowing if he was staying or going, decided that he would make a go of it and would help alleviate my insecure feeling... (427 words)

How many time should I be having sex with my wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

19 May 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - How many time should I be having sex with my wife?... (11 words)

This is really embarassing but i'm 16 years old and everywhere i sit i leave a wet patch even if i've only sat there like 30 seconds!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This is really embarassing but i'm 16 years old and everywhere i sit i leave a wet patch even if i've only sat there like 30 seconds!! is there anything i can do to prevent this?... (36 words)

I really like this guy, who I turned down for a date, 4 years ago. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6425 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - this boy asked me out four years ago when i was 11 and i said no cause i was stupid, young and scared but soon after i started to really fancy him. now i'm 15 and i still haven't got over him properly- that's my problem. i care about him so much and i think he likes me too. i ... (111 words)

One day he acts like he likes me, the next he doesn't. Is he playing a game with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hmm there's a new guy at my work. we hit it off from the start. and started dating for about two months... he asked me out. and added me on msn and everything... im very shy so while we were going out i wouldnt even kiss him... yet we were still together... he is a very bus... (435 words)

Got turned on by one of my girlfriends! Now I'm confused about my sexuality...any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6402 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. Im really confused about my sexuallity. A few nights ago, I had a few girl friends over. When it was time for them to go, one of them stayed behind. We started cuddling up together. She was stroking her hand up my leg and was so close to stroking something else, but I di... (68 words)

I am skinny and my friends tell me to gain weight! Is being thin ...ugly??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - is being slim, ugly ? i'm really skiny not anorexic but like those skiny models but my friends say that i need to gain more weight!!!... (26 words)

I want to date her, but she doesn't see me in that way. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6425 days ago

19 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hey im in high school and one of my best friends since i satrted the school, is a really hot, funny girl. i have asked her out, but she said she didnt like me in that way. but i cant stop thinking about her. being with her etc. i wanna ask her out again but she ent attracte... (74 words)

Can you still get pregnant while having sex during your period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - here is a bit of an odd question. if u have sex whilst being on your period is there still a chsnce that you could end up pregnant? it was the first day of my period and we didnt use a condom. any help would be great.... (47 words)

Torn between my mistress and my family! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6002 days ago

19 May 2007 (M)

age - I have a huge delima,i started becoming friends with a female co-worker,we knew each other some, then begining of March of last year, we became close. We talk everyday, all day,tease, joke around, she is just amazing to me, very diffrent in every way possible from anyone i ev... (353 words)

We're dating, but the thought of doing anything intimate with him, doesn't appeal to me. Does this mean I don't fancy him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6425 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im with this guy who i do really like spending time with but im not sure if i fancy him. The thought of doing sexual and intimate things with him really doesnt appeal to me, does this mean i dont fancy him?? ... (42 words)

Dating 3 months and we haven't hugged or kissed! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with this boy for 3 months now and we haven't hugged or kissed. He always tell me how much I mean to him and how much he loves me but he seems really shy. I think i've waited long enough for him to make a move! Please help me! What should I do!... (60 words)

How to cope after a very close death???

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 6382 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age - Hi Everyone, AskEve here. I just wanted to let everyone know I lost my wonderful partner 2 days ago so won't be on for a bit. He was over in Switzerland on business when he passed away. (I wasn't even with him...) I loved him terribly and now have to give advice to MYSELF... (99 words)

Is it possible for me to get rid of these childhood fears about the outside world?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I find it hard to distinguish between when someone is trying to just tease me or is taking advantage or trying to fool me. As a child, some girls used to touch me physically which i did not like and though i protested, there was not much support from my parents to prevent it ... (139 words)

I am a boy and how do I calculate my penis size?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

19 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a boy and how do I calculate my penis size? What is the ideal penis age in 20-29?... (20 words)

How do I stop bitching about people who do not treat me fairly or the way I expect them to? Any help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6425 days ago

19 May 2007 (M) age 36-40 - I have adopted a bad habit from my mother, that of bitching about those people who do not treat me fairly or the way i expect them to. My mother uses this trick to disclose important private information that she knows about my father to other people when she is not able to get ... (170 words)

Found out my parter of 16 years was cheating! She's gone..so how do I stop dwelling on her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6425 days ago

19 May 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I was with my partner for 16 years and its been 8months since we separated. I found out that she might have been cheating me. Since she had found a new boyfriend within a week. She basically left with no expanation and has not made any contact since. How do I move on and reduce ... (69 words)

My partner has anger issue and a cannabis addiction! He won't listen to me when I tell him I've had enough. How can I make him accept that I don't love him and it's over?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6425 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been in a relationship for 3years and have a child with my partner, but i have completely fallen out of love with him. he has a bad temper and a bad cannabis addiction, and i'm not prepared to live with it anymore. he makes my blood boil with everything he does, but when ... (96 words)

What would happen if people found out that i was a gay and i agreed and accepted it as well?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

19 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - What would happen if people found out that i was a gay and i agreed and accepted it as well?... (20 words)

I feel aroused when I am emotionally close to both men as well as women! Does this make me bi-sexual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I feel aroused when i am emotionally close to both men as well as women. However, with men i am more comfortable compared to women, whom i hate, not all but a few whom i find to be unclean, for my own childhood experiences. Does it make me bisexual? I do not really feel like ... (102 words)

I have a "make other people happy complex". I feel guilt if I don't please people. Any advice as to whether this could be dealt with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6425 days ago

19 May 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I have a "make other people happy complex" and i feel guilty if i am not able to make others happy at the place i go. I fear criticizm from my parents if i am not able to please the people i associate with wherever i go. That seems to be the only learned etiquette for being ... (75 words)

Is there any particular reason why i like girls from western / european culture more than from my own culture?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I am an Asian. Is there any particular reason why i like girls from western / european culture more than from my own culture? Is there anything wrong about having a liking for women from culture that is not your own? ... (43 words)

I am a bit shy when it comes to the opposite sex ...any advice on how to cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6412 days ago

19 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys...first time writer.....well here goes.... My name's Liam, live in Australia, in Year 12 (Senior Year), im a decent looking guy, i have a great personality, i try to do the right thing everytime, always treat girls nice, but i am yet to have kissed a girl or have a g... (136 words)

My mom is trying to break me and my boyfriend up! He's a great guy, in the military, the first relationship I've ever been able to truly commit to. She was all supportive, until she found out how much I care for him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My mom is trying to break me and my boyfriend up! He's a great guy, in the military, the first relationship I've ever been able to truly commit to. She was all supportive, until she found out how much I care for him. He screwed up once (drank too much at a party), and now ... (267 words)

He's a great guy who has a flaw--he never shows up for many of our dates! Dump him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice!, I finally found a guy who I really like he's nice, funny, romantic, well u get me, the whole package! He calls me every single night but... he has a flaw! we always make plans and he never shows this has hapened multiple times and he always calls to ... (156 words)

Is being loud during sex a good thing or a bad thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time the other day, and I was a bit...loud. Couldn't help it really! Anyway after it was over, all he said was, "Wow...you were quite loud." I always thought that was supposed to be a good thing, but the way he said it made it seem ... (73 words)

Is a 15 year old girl dating a 22 year old different from a 18 year old girl dating a 26 year old? Any views?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6107 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm 19 years old and dating a 27 year old guy. We've been dating for a year, ever since I was 18 and he was 26. And everything's fine, no problems here. Recently though, my cousin came and told me that she's dating a 22 year old - and she's 15. And I immediately reac... (205 words)

I am plagued by suspicions but afraid to ask him lest I breach the trust. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all; I am lost and turn to you again for advice. To make a long story short we've been together a little over a year. I'm 3yrs older and have 2 kids from a previous abusive marriage that ruined my self esteem and left me completly insecure. He was your typical player. He ... (253 words)

Bf is doing drugs, everyday! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and my Boyfriend is 20, He has no Job no money. We've been going out for almost 2 years he was a nice guy totaly againts Drugs. And now, We changed he started to do a drug and hes doing it almost every day. We were sepost to hang out today. But then I find out he went to ... (99 words)

I found out that my old college love is engaged and I am heartsick! Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I spent my Junior and most of my senior years of college dating a guy who I was going to spend the rest of my life with. My last year of school was stressful and my guy is 5yrs older than I so he was at a very different point of his life, which was a large part of why we split ... (365 words)

BF and his ex have a kid, and he has cheated with her, before. I still have trouble with him still seeing her for the kid's sake.What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age - Yes after my boyfriend of 14 months cheated on me with his ex gf who he has a child with....then she calls him and tells him that she is pregnant and that it might be his...I was enraged to see that he broke our trust...I hated both of them...he has never given me a reason not ... (360 words)

Is it possible to make a break from someone, after 23 years of knowing each other? Any views?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it possible to cut someone out of your life after 23 years of knowing each other? My delima is not so simple, known my husband all my life,met him at age 16 married at 18. Two grown boys both gone,alot of ups and downs over this time.Age diffrence of 10 years between us... (159 words)

How do you french kiss? All tips welcome.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - how do u french kiss? i really need some tips/advice cuz its been about 4- years sence i french kissed someone and i forgot how, my boyfriend asked me if i knew how to french kiss and i said no the he said he wuz ganna french kiss me until i said i didn't no how. please help he ... (108 words)

Is it possible to go back to a loving relationship after having casual sex for awhile?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (F) age 41-50 - if a guy starts sleeping around after a serious relationship ends in order to deal with the pain, is there a way for them to become a gentleman again in time and love another?... (34 words)

I feel like he puts his ex and his girls, before me! Is it wrong to feel this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My Husband has been feeling really guilty about things and its driving me crazy. I am 27 and have a 3m son and 2 stepgrls 10 and 13. We got married 1yr 1/2ago and didn't get a chance to be newlyweds i became stepmom. He gets the grls every 2 wks. and when i do things like ... (199 words)

She gets extremely aroused but never really reaches full orgasm...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive almost brought my partner to orgasm hundreds of times, during coital intercourse, oral intercourse and manual (finger) stimulation. She always stops me seconds before the deed is completed becuase she feels like she is going to urinate on me. She gets extremely aroused but ... (60 words)

How do I tell my married friend, that I love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6426 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i like my bestfriend Kyle but he's married and i keep getting broken hearted. and i love him to pieces how do i tell him i love him for all the right reasons. lauren... (39 words)

I really like this guy so how do I get his attention?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6425 days ago

19 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i get my crushes attention? he already knos i like him and i catch him starring at me and smiling but what am i supposed to do am i supposed to just play it cool or talk to him and if i am supposed to talk to him what should i say i mean i've never talked to him b4 i ... (97 words)