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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My 'sex buddy' guy got me pregnant-then he accused of giving him chlamydia! Any advice for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a major dilemma... please any advice would be appreciated. I started seeing a guy a few months ago, I knew he's just split up with his girlfriend and it was just sex between us... but i kinda got emotionally attached. In the end his feeling for his ex (who cheated ... (406 words)

She lied about her age but her reason was valid...I think? What do I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

29 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'v been dating a girl for almost 5 months, but recently she has told me her true age :( I initially met her in a night club (pub) hence didnt query her age when she told me she was 18. Plus she looked 18, and the staff of the club must have also thought she was 18, othe... (434 words)

Two guys and whom do I like more? I can't decide..any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I'm sorry to bother you but I'm in a big bit of trouble. A few months ago I got together with a good friend of mine who I had always thought I wanted to be with. However we never made it official and while away on holiday I got together unexpectedly with another ... (199 words)

Could it be that I am still a virgin at my age because of possibly low testosterone(male sex hormone)levels?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - NB: Please reply to THIS question; ignore the previous one- it was accidentally posted prematurely! I am a 27 year old male student, at University (a late starter), in the UK. My problem is that, at the age of 27 years, I have never had any sexual experience with the opposit... (727 words)

Can two people who genuinely care and love each other make their relationship work even if they are living two seperate lives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of three years and I have recently split. It has completely devasted me as I thought of her as my future wife. After putting the pieces together, I have come to the conclusion that the biggest reason for the break-up was because we are living two separate lives as ... (142 words)

How do I really know that I made the right decision?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Everyone - your help is needed! I split up with my partner of 4 years over two months ago now. I had been feeling confused over my feelings for him for a good few months before finally ending things. I think I have changed over time and don't know if it's because I feel ... (213 words)

He can't commit to me 100% as he is only "85% healed" from the previous relationship. Is this fair to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age - I have been with my boyfriend for one year and a half. I moved in with him as of September 1, 2006. I am newly divorced and he is legally separated. His wife left him August 31, 2005. He has told me he is still healing and that I need to be patient with him and his feelings ... (107 words)

My parents don't like my girlfriend and are starting to turn my head round to their way of thinking.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

29 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I'm 24 and my girlfriend is 37. I'm into her (I'm not sure I love her though) but my parents and family isn't big time. They're also not thrilled about her having a 15 year old son. They keep telling me I'm being suckered in cause she's much smarter than me and w... (253 words)

Why would a guy say one thing then leave me waiting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - They say men are from mars and women are from venus...how true!! ok so me and my ex have been in contact since we split up a few years ago hes been telling me over the weekend how much he still fancies me but when he arranged to meet me tonight in a packed pub he didnt turn up ... (154 words)

I'm a 27 year old male and have never had sex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

29 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I would appreciate some advice, I am a 27 year old male, at University (a late starter), in the UK. My problem is that, at the age of 27 years, I have never had any sexual experience with the opposite sex, girlfriends/relationships. I am still a VIRGIN! I am very depresse... (156 words)

This is really embarrassing, I keep itching down below its driving me mad

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, This is really embarrassing, I keep itching down below its driving me mad...I have used all the thrush creams on the market but it still persits.....To my horror I went to the GUM clinic and was tested for loads of STD's even though I am married and never strayed the test... (148 words)

I'm 14 and I think I'm gay!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6404 days ago

29 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - im 14 know. And i think im gay. I like girls still. But i cant help but look at other boys when were in the gym showers. Its strange, because i want to be with girls, yet i want to 'do thing' with boys! help?... (45 words)

He's sending signals one minute then backing off the next, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (M)

- dear agony aunts and uncles i need your help, ive have just met this guy and i cannot get him out of my head he is sending signals one minute and then backing away the next i don't know what i should do please give me some help A.S.A.P PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ LUV LBOY... (56 words)

I heard he's going to ask me to marry him and I don't know what to say to him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I am going out with a guy and I have been for almost a year now. His friends have told me that he's going to ask me to marry him. At first when they told me I was really excited about it because we were both really into each other, but now when I think about it I don't ... (180 words)

He finished with me, saying we were just "plodding along"!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6412 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age - I'm 43, divorced and have 1 child. I have been seeing a man who is going through a divorce for 1yr 9mths. I love him 100% and want to be with him forever. He dumped me last week saying he thought we were just plodding along but he did love me and thinks I deserve better than ... (94 words)

I'll do anything for it to be how we once were...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im 8month pregnant, 15, and by boyfriend -hes the dad- keeps forcing me into sex, he sexually abuses me and accuses me of cheating on him and goes everywere with me and if he cant he gets one of his m8s to go with me instead , he beats me up calling me a no good slut hes ... (199 words)

We broke up but I love him so much and I KNOW he still loves me. What shall I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 in we have ben to gether for at least 6 months and last night he told me we have been together too long and i ask him so what's that suppose to mean he said nothing. But before last night he told me we are going be together forever. He always ... (483 words)

She won't stop texting him and he's not interested but won't tell her plainly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My children's father and I got back together at the end of January 07. We have a 10 and 8 year old. He was dating/sleeping with this girl for about 5 months..Nothing serious at all..He basically would go over her house late night. She really feels they had something special. ... (437 words)

Do I have the right to be upset about her being so close to her work colleague?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Ive dated a girl for 3 yrs. Ive caught her in lies. At functions or a few parties she used to ignore me and talk to others, that was in the beginning. My big question, she went on a college recruiting trip for a company, when she flew up to meet the recruiter she was going to ... (145 words)

Is there something wrong and can it be fixed without going to the doctor’s?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

- I have had UTI (Urinary Tract Infection) in the past. My doctor told me I should pee after sex to avoid this to happen again. I’ve been good doing this except for a couple of times. When it starts itching, I immediately drink lots of water and cranberry juice to fix the ... (144 words)

I've been in contact with my ex for the past 4 months, should I ask him out again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, Can anyone tell me please this guy is driving me crazy, he is my ex from years back we have been e-mailing each other for the past 4 months now only about once or twice a month as we are both busy with our jobs, I keep them brief and put in a bit of humour but I always h... (159 words)

I threw my vibrator in the bin and now I can't pleasure myself properly, any suggestions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6403 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hia just a quickish question, im in a great 1 year relationship and we are a very sexual couple. but when i am not with him, i still become kinky and i cant pleasure myself no matter what. i did have a vibe but i threw that in the bin when i moved house and my finger just wont ... (79 words)

Should I patiently wait for the house or rent a flat with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

- My bf started his own business 2 weeks ago. His goal is to earn enough so we can buy a house together and live comfortably. I once said to myself I’m not going to be marrying/moving in with a guy unless we have our own house. It has been hard for me to follow what I have said ... (136 words)

I told my mom my boyfriend is 12 years older than me, now she's going to tell my stepdad!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6411 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im 19 years old and have a bf whos older then me he is 31, ive told my mom as i thought i could tell her, but she keeps saying she is going to tell my step dad but i know he will leave if she does what should i do as i really like this guy and i know he likes me too?... (64 words)

Living with the bf will mean a very long commute for me to work! Will this interfere in our relationship in the furture?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend and I are in a long distant relationship (2hrs drive) but still make every effort to see each other every weekend. Since now our relationship has become more serious, not seeing him for a week drives us crazy. We are looking into moving in together. We both are ... (192 words)

Is it true that no parents will like their daughter’s boyfriend? Any views?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

- Is it true that no parents will like their daughter’s boyfriend? My boyfriend’s parents absolutely love me and want us to get married. On the other hand, my parents always try to find things to criticize about and tell me I should wait and see longer. It’s not like they don’t ... (209 words)

Dealing with my bf and his ex at their daughter's b'day party. How should I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend’s daughter is having a 7th birthday party next weekend. It’s going to be at my boyfriend’s ex’s house. For some reason, I’m feeling uneasy about it. I’ve been to the girl’s birthday party last year and seeing the 3 of them together makes me very uncomfortable. I ... (272 words)

Can't orgasm and different positions don't work...what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been having sex for over a year but cant orgasm, i have tries different positions still dont work. please help... (22 words)

Not sure if he's the one I want..however, a new guy looks interesting! Should I go on a 'break'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years, and things have been great. but recently they have faded pretty badly. I know i love him and i want to be with him but i think things are going to burn out. There is another guy i know who i am interested in, and i ... (89 words)

He's pressuring me for sex! Break up now with him or later after exams are done?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend, and weve been going out for nearly 3 months. Weve done sexual things, but not sex. We have nearly had sex, but got walked in Now when he tries, i back out, and ive decied that i dont want to, and i dont regret my decision. I also dont want to do anything w... (201 words)

He sexually abused me and I can't get it out of my head.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im 14, a year ago my boy friend sexualy abused me, he didnt have sex with me, he stalked me. sent me texts, asking me to do things, asking me to send pictures, he even sent me porn...of him. It was a monday and i had chemistry, he cornered me into one of the benches once eve... (144 words)

What is she really saying? Do I just walk way and let it go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (M)

- Hi, Okay, help please. I just broke up w/ my gf of 5 years. She and I had a talk the other night, and she told me she still loves me, but because of earlier times, she doesn't trust me. I haven't cheated, but when we met, i was with someone else at the time. it was hard to l... (262 words)

We're on a break as my girlfriend has said she doesn't trust me and it's driving me mad not seeing her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

29 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I would like some input on this as its very upseting for me and i feel i have no control over the situation. Me and my girlfriend are on a break for 1 month. She feels she cannot trust me because a few weeks ago we had an argument and my ex girlfriend as a friend to cheer me up ... (168 words)

I am in a very unhappy marriage and have fallen in love with someone who is also unhappily married.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age - I am in a very unhappy marriage and have fallen in love with someone who is also unhappily married. We so much want to be together it hurts being apart. What is your advice.... (34 words)

Is it normal that sex is painful the first few times?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i just became sexually active 2 days ago. We were both virgins. In the last 2 days we have had sex 4 times. The first time it was pretty painful. And the last 3 times have been painful but not as much. The last time felt good but it was sort of still kind of... (115 words)

My 32 year old married boss has started giving me lifts home. I KNOW he wants to take it further!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im 17 years old have a boyfriend and have a part time job as a waitress. my boss is 32 and married with kids. recently when he is giving me lifts home we have started going for a drive and ended up kissing many times and i know he wants to take it further, last night he ... (90 words)

Why do men chicken out when it comes to the question of marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Why do men chicken out when it comes to the question of marriage? Even if they are mid twenty?... (19 words)

I had unprotected sex on Saturday night...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I had unprotected sex on Saturday night, I am on the pill but was just finishing my period and had taken the first pill out of my new pack on that day. How probable is it that I could get pregnant? I don't want to wait until my next period to find out... (53 words)

How do I decide if 'He genuinely made a mistake'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Soon after me and my ex boyfriend broke up he got together with a girl he knew. I removed myself from the picture as he had been rude and disrespectful towards me throughout the 1 year relationship and I guess he had her ready for when he broke up with me. A few months passed ... (152 words)

I am really not sure if this guy likes me or not as I am getting mixed signals.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am really not sure if this guy likes me or not as I am getting really mixed signals. We were best friends for about 4 years + we really close and then we both had relationships with other people for about 2 years and we drifted, but then we became really close again when we ... (417 words)

Is it my duty as a son to satisfy the emotional and psychological needs of my parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) age 41-50 - Is it my duty as a son to satisfy the emotional and psychological needs of my parents, especially my mother? Why is it that my parents want to bully me in to doing this job for them? I am 25 yrs old guy.. please advice.... (45 words)

How can I stop? I am TOTALLY addicted to porn!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

29 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am totally addicted to porn. I try not to think about it but when im on my own all I do is sit there and stare at my laptop until I get up and look at porn. It's getting annoying but I can't stop it. I don't think it porn is acceptable either but I still do it. Please help. ... (66 words)

I fancy my cousin, I have done since I was 12. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am really confused. Ever since I was 12 I started to fancy my cousin. Is this normal because it is starting to worry me. I can't help the way I feel about her. Please help!... (36 words)

I'm madly in love with a married man, he's my world!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a lady of 44 years and am madly in love with a married man. My love is immense. Even he loves me to the core but he says he has his responsibilities. And moreover he is in Delhi and am in Bangalore. We met only once and made love. We cant be without each other. I told him ... (100 words)

I am vegetarian and my boyfriend told me he has a job... CHICKEN CATCHING!!!! I'm devastated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Even though my boyfriend knows that I am a vegetarian for animal welfare reasons, he has accepted a job offer and gone tonight chicken catching in a chicken factory. I was appalled at his decision and asked him not to go (It is a cash job for one night only..he's not desperate ... (97 words)

We had an argument and he stayed out all night, checked his phone- was put on hold and heard her talking about payment for sexual services!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi all, in a bit of a delenma, wonder could u help me with some advice or opinions. Myself and my boyfriend are 3yrs together, we have 2yr old son. Had terrible row that lasted whole weekend, we are both very head strong people and neither of us will back down, kinda sorted ... (382 words)

She invites me over to her house and all she does is snog her boyfriend, it's soooooo embarrassing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm at the end of my tether. My best friend and her boyfriend invite me over to her house. Then all they do is kiss, pull and do things infront of me that make me feel REALLY uncomfortable. They don't have any other friends becoz when they are asked to go to place with them... (141 words)

I'm married but was seeing a guy at work, now he's blocked me and I don't know how to handle being around him in the workplace.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - im married but got involved with a guy i met through work, the only thing i ask was that he would be honest with me and if he wanted to call it a day just say so, that way we could stay friends and when we did meet through work there wouldnt be a problem. well its obvio... (158 words)

I am almost 15 and I think I love my best friends older brother.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am almost 15 and I think I love my best friends older brother. I have known him since elementry school and even back then I really liked him, He is a freshman like me so at first when I became friends with his little sister it was kinda awkward between him and I, even though ... (239 words)

Should I throw a party for him as a surprise for his birthday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriends birthday is coming soon, and i want to make it special because his last two birthdays have not been so great! im thinking along the lines of a surprise. should i throw the party at his place? he has two roommates, who love throwing parties. i can collaborate with ... (72 words)

How would someone get into there 30's and still be single and never married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

- How would someone get into there 30's and still be single and never married? why would they have a lot of (short term) failed relationships? is it just bad luck or is there something wrong with them?... (43 words)

How do I stop myself being jealous about his ex's??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

- How do I get over my bf's past? I am 23 and he is 34 and has had a lot of girlfriends. We have been together for nearly 5 years we live together and have a young baby when i met him i knew he had a past- we met through a friend of mine who was an ex girl friend of his. ... (361 words)

Her guilt is eating me alive but I DON'T want to get back with her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! I asked a question a while back: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-22-lesbian-and-in-a-relationship-with.html Anyway. Here's a followup, and a new problem. I managed to leave my girlfriend, but now she won't stop calling me and sending me messages. The messages are... (203 words)

The wrong boy likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am 14 and i like this boy in my class but one of his close mates likes me and i dont know what to do should i tell him how i feel or just ignore the boy who like me?... (42 words)

I'm been with my boyfriend for almost 3 months now and want to initiate foreplay. Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid !! i have been with my boyfriend for 3 months nearly now and the sexual tension between us gets reeally high . However, we have not done any foreplay or anything and i do not know how to start it and wandered if you have any ideas xx... (50 words)

Special evening planned for my bf..just need some lingerie..any good online lingerie shops out there?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend comes back in three weeks from a five month trip. I really want his first night back to be special and memorable. Can anyone recommend any online lingerie shops? There are a million on the net and I don't want to end up with something shoddy. Plus, any o... (83 words)

Too shy..too scared of rejection! So how can I make a move on him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am quite a shy person... when guys i am attracted to talk to me i usually freeze up and make a total and utter fool of myself. But on the same hand, i have never had any problem taking to "guy friends"... it's odd. Maybe it's just the idea of talking to a guy i don't know, ... (464 words)

She doesn't really like me so why can't I just get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) age 30-35 - Well for a starter im 13 and i like this girl and i keep putting myself down i have never really asked her out but my friends did behind my back but she says like eww or she will tell me later i know she will never date me but i cant get over her i get the message but i cant ... (72 words)

Confused over two guys! One I have feelings with-one I can have a future with..which one is best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so I'm dating this guy who was dating someone else at the time he figured out I liked him. About a month later he leaves his girlfriend and on the same day asks me out... saying he didn't think he would have asked so soon but... anyway he hugs pretty much every girl he ... (524 words)

Dilemma about telling a good buddy.. he's dating his old gf!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with a guy on and off for three years, it was always ending because he was very jealous and controlling. It ended for good three months ago, partly because he was no longer interested in having a relationship with me because of our up and down history. During this time I ... (234 words)

Hate his promiscuous past! How do I move on from this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. I find myself having a hard time accepting his permiscuous past. I find it hard to forget somethings he has told me about his past with other guys. Is this normal? Is this a sign that it wont work? How do I move forward and stop ... (66 words)

Is it right to spend time with the opposite sex when you're with someone else?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it right to spend time with the opposite sex when are you in a relationship with someone else?... (19 words)

Should I call him or just leave it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I was talking to this guy for a while like for 6 months.I started to have feelings towards him.Then he started talking to my friends which got me mad.He also started to give me mixed signals which even got me more mad.He would call me at 2:30 am just to say goodnight. Then the ... (193 words)

Should I tell her we shouldn't be friends any more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok heres the thing , i felt like ive always been bi but didnt realize there was a definition to my sexuality until the age of 13 i think, im 17 never had a boy/girlfriend, mi best friend is a girl and i dont know how to explain it but... i get these feelings like i love her and ... (251 words)

How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to break up for good?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We have lived together for about 7 months and now my boyfriend has asked for a break. He says he just needs a week to clear his head. We've had issues in the past - I, personally, have had a lot of issues with ... (238 words)

I discovered that my mother masturbates, what should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i discovered that my mother masturbates herself , what should i do?... (12 words)

Any ideas on what to do for my boyfriend's birthday? I would like to do something very unique.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some ideas to make my boyfriends birthday special. He's gonna be 17. I want to do something unique, not just a take him out to eat at a nice restaurant kind of thing. Any ideas? I would like ideas for just me and him, or things I could do with his/my friends too. ... (58 words)

My husband says he is burnt out in our marriage...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

29 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help with my marriage..To give you an idea of my relationship: Hubby is 37 I am 32..we have 2 girls 4, 9. We have been together for 11 years...married for 6. My husband recently told me he is burnt out on our marriage..the rest of his life is good..but he just ... (138 words)

My wife says she loves me like a brother and it's tearing me apart.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - What is wrong with my wife? I love my wife very much. I love her as a person and adore her physically. I am very warm and affectionate to her. However, I do not feel that physical bond towards me. She says she loves me but so does more so like a brother. She will not hold on... (123 words)

I asked her out and she said she'd tell me the next day. It this her way of politely saying no?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

29 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i asked out this girl i really like to go catch a movie with me. she asked me questions about when i wanna go, and if we're goin alone etc. she said she'll tell me the next day coz she might be busy. i cant help think that's a excuse or nice way of sayin no! is it just me?... (70 words)