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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why was he so subdued and sat apart from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

- Thank you to all who answer this question. My ex and I broke up a couple of months ago and I really have had no contact with him till last night. We are on a committee together. I expected a hello and I got one...very subdued though. I was laughing and chatting with others at ... (132 words)

Should I try to ignore my feelings for him? Ex's are ex's for a reason right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i was seeing a guy for 2 months and we only split as i wanted a relationship.. but he wasnt ready for one.... since then he has seen someone else but has now split with her and started talking to me a lot more... complimenting me and asking to meet up! we are good fri... (136 words)

I travelled a good distance to surprise her but she wouldn't see me as she was going for coffee with a male colleague...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

9 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - What should i do? im soo confused. ive known this girl for 3 and a half months and things have developed quickly. i really really like her maybe even love her. In the space of time we've known each other we've been together once and within a week we decided to go back to being... (292 words)

Can anyone tell me what male sperm tastes like when he comes during oral and can it do harm of swallowed?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone tell me what male sperm tastes like when he comes during oral and can it do harm of swallowed?... (21 words)

I don't know whether I should put all my trust and respect toward him because I might end up heart broken

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6434 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15. And I'm in a relationship with this boy for the second time. I don't know whether I should put all my trust and respect toward him because I might end up heart broken. What Should I Do? Am I Being A Little Insecure?... (45 words)

He told his friend the only reason he broke up with me was through guilt. How do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6434 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago....long story...well he went on a school trip to europe and the day before they came back him and everyone else got drunk; he usually doesn't drink or get drunk..so what he did was he started kissing this girl and then other stuff ... (318 words)

He wants me to move out after the lease is up then at other times he holds me tight and tells me how much he loves me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Please someone help me. I have been living with my boyfriend of 7 months and ever since we moved in together things have gone down hill. I mean we do have good times but there are times when he gets so mad that all he mentions is us breaking up. Well he recently said that when ... (161 words)

My dad has taken control of my life and im sick of it!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6431 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So life has been pretty hard. I moved from public school where I was failing to a private school that then ran us dry of money to now distant learning. Along this choice of doing distant learning was because of my social life. For years I was dancing in SAB/NYCB around level 3 ... (933 words)

Why is he so cold to me now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a girl of 16 and have been having problems... Recently me and this boy who is 20 kissed and stuff and now he is all cold with me What should I do?... (36 words)

How can I get to the bottom of all that he's telling me? It's difficult as he lives in another state!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age - The man I am very much in love with lives in another state and we talk four or five times a day, unless he is with a woman that is 15 years younger than him and lives near him. We have been seeing each other and talking back and forth for the last 7 years. I am his age both are ... (185 words)

She wanted me to choke her during sex as she said it heightened her orgasm!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

9 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i am not bragging here but i do consider myself to know a bit about sex but a week ago i met a women who asked me to start choking her during sex this is... well very weird to me but i did it, anyway afterwards she said it hightens people's orgasm. Can anyone explain this and ... (66 words)

Should I be patient and see what happens or call it a day with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, i have recently started seing this guy, but after about a month, when things hadn't really progressed, i had to ask him what was making him hold back because i felt like he didn't seem to want to get into anything. but his reply has changed a few things. He open... (251 words)

Was his his dry humour or emotional abuse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dry humour or emotional abuse? I am thinking that I possibly misunderstood my ex, but I would appreciate your advice. I would like to say that I am a very sensitive soul that tends to take things to heart. My ex always told me not to take anything he said too seriously, ... (436 words)

My boyfriend's best mate is coming on to me really strongly, what should I do???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I seem to have gotten myself into an awkward situation, I've been going out with this awesome guy for 5 mnths. His best mate is also seeing my best mate and they've been seeing each other for about a year. anyway we were all walking home together last week. when it got to the ... (344 words)

Why does he never text or email me when I'm away and only calls for 5 minutes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I am a female of 21 yrs old and since october I have being doing an Erasmus exchange so I currently live in France. I return back to the UK in 5 weeks. I left behind in England my boyfriend of 20 months. He is brilliant to me when I have gone home. But whilst I am ... (162 words)

We have tried 2 have sex more than 8 times and it's still extremely painful.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and I lost my virginity to my boyfriend on March 10th. It was painful but as time went on it got easier. Since then, we have tried 2 have sex more than 8 times and it's still extremely painful. Most times he can't even get half way in because it hurts too much and ... (102 words)

In my heart it feels as if I have cheated. Even though I know I didn't.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - I need someones advice really bad. I have no one to talk to about this situation because no one really cares. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now. We have had our ups and downs. I broke it off about a week ago because it turned out to be a long distance ... (286 words)

Why am I getting these mixed signals from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - One day he, we'll call him K, tells me I'm beautiful. A few evenings later K tells me he was sad when he found out I was engaged...followed quickly by "I shouldn't have told you that." I've been having problems with my fiance, let's call him M, and I've been feeling lonely. ... (167 words)

I'm 15, and ready to have sex! I'm looking for fun...so should I lose my virginity to this guy who would do it with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6433 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15, and I'm ready for sex. I've not got a boyfriend, would it really matter if I lost my virginity to a guy I know would do it with me? There's nothing else to do in this town. I'm just looking for a little fun. I just wanted to know if I should go for it or wait for that ... (125 words)

He won't leave his wife for me! How do I break free of this affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i need some advice im having an affair have been for 15 months my hubby new some thing was up so packed his bags and left the man im having afaire is also with his wife she suspects too but thay r still together he says he wants to be with me and i belive him but says hes ... (123 words)

Her ex wants her back! She's confused...how do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now. Her ex has recently got back in touch and says he wants her back. Shes still with me at the moment, but is confused, and I'm scared shes gonna go back to him. How can we over-come this? ... (48 words)

I'm 17 and I want a gf but they have all turned me down. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - im 17 and never had GF is and i do not know how to feel about it. sometimes it gets me really down as a few girls i asked out have sed no what can i do ... (41 words)

She has been hurt before and is not ready to date me...is this a good or a bad thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i asked a girl out that i thought liked me. i still think she does. she said no because she has had bad relationships and want to stay single for a while and that is the only reason she is saying no,is this a good or bad thing??? ... (48 words)

Do guys assume because I wear rings, one them is from a bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

- I would really like to know a guy's opinion on girls wearing rings... (although girls views welcome too!) I have this gold ring that has a diamond heart and piece of amethyst in it. I wear it on my right hand middle finger just about every day because it was a present from m... (270 words)

I find my boyfriend embarassingly unmanly. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've recently started dating a guy, I'm 15 and he's 14, but because he's in the academic year below me my boy "friends" think it's weird. Sometimes they go as far as hitting him and tripping him up, "as a joke" For some reason, when they do this, it makes me feel l... (113 words)

She says things are getting into a routine and she's feeling used. What can I do to make her happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i've been with my girlfriend for 4 months now, and everything's been going great. but lately shes been feeling depressed and we talked about it, and she explained to me that she feels that things between us are getting too "routine" and she told me that she feels that the sex ... (96 words)

What can I do to make my boyfriend trust me more so I can have friends again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6403 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been going out with my boyfriend for just over ten months, i am sixteen and he is twenty. throughout the relationship he has always been jealous of me and people at school, and the same with me and people who are a similar age to him and his ex girlfriends. recently i have ... (197 words)

How can I get back with my ex who doesn't want to listen to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I broke up a while ago (6 months) and I have tried to see if we can work it out. I spoke to him over the weekend he was just so angry... I did handle the breakup badly, but so did he in a way. He was saying awful things like I was just a rebound for him (we were ... (380 words)

Why hasn't he called since the night we kissed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help! I recently broke up ( 3 months ago) with my boyfriend of 4 years because I found he was cheating on me. That is really beside the point. The point is I haven't dated in so long and last time I was single I was in college and it was easy to meet people. I ... (264 words)

He said he may hook up with another girl, so how do I find out if he's cheating on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - well if my boyfriend tells me he may hook up with anothor girl, then later his way changes with me,then how should i know if he is actually cheating on me ? ... (32 words)

My boyfriend stopped speaking to his backstabbing mates, I don't want them to think it's because of me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months now,but I'm having problems with one of his friends. his friend knew my bf before i did. they used to spend quite a lot of time hanging together with the rest of their friends.when we first got together his friend was always ... (244 words)

Should I try to make things work with this guy, even though he's not ready for a commitment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid I've recently been involved with a guy from my college. We started off as friends, and then started seeing each other for around 2 months, before he decided that he wasn't ready for commitment. Since then we've been on and off a couple of times, but are now just rea... (136 words)

After 10 years together he's going with another woman behind my back. Should I stick it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Why can't I leave him? Should I follow my heart or head? I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years, we have a house together which we have shared for the past 4. Last August I found out he had met someone else - someone different to me and he was 'confused' to what he wa... (429 words)

My boyfriend is moving and didn't ask my opinion, does he even care about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend wants to move to another state. He hasn't even considered me into the factor. He said the only thing on his mind right now is making money fast. Everytime I try to bring our relationship and what will happen to it when he moves he doesn't say anything. I don't ... (124 words)

My boyfriend will only love me if I loose weight. Should I dump him?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend told me that I need to lose weight. We just got back together after we broke up for a couple of months and he said that I looked like I gain weight. So I told him you don't love me the way I am? He said I'll love you if you lost some weight. Then he kept on ... (223 words)

Why did she behave so strange and how can I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I moved to a new place of work about 2 months ago and met a girl. We started texting phoning flirting and eventually I asked her out. I was gutted when she said no at first and we stopped talking for about a week. Then she started texting me again and eventually asked if I ... (895 words)

how can I be less clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm engaged and I have a a problem. I love my fiancee very much, and everything I do, is with good intention only. I have become over some time a bit more "clingy" to him,and I feel that I need to relax a bit about that...but I dont know how to do so!?!( it does not affe... (98 words)

He says that we will marry and have children, but cant seem to believe him as he wasnt there for me!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really confused about the way my boyfriend feels about me. He says he loves me, says he's going to marry, says we'll have children. He says all the right things, like i'm the most important thing to him and he just wants to see me happy. (he says all this without me askin... (190 words)

So confused about our situation, finding it hard to read if he does have feelings for me!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im totally confused about if this guy has any feelings for me. we are not in a relationship, we are very close friends. but that can also be questioned, coz when i first met this guy i was interested in him and i thought he was too, and thats why we kept in contact, esp after ... (595 words)

How do you make a bloke leave his wife without actually asking him to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - how do you make a bloke leave his wife without actually asking him to?... (14 words)

I'm dating the girl at works Ex, she already has someone new so why is she so cross at me!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a friend at the firm where i am working, not a best friend but a good friend. After a 3 year relationship with her boyfriend, they broke up, for some reason i dont really know. Later on me and her ex boyfriend started to chat and to see each other, and have been in a ... (231 words)

In an affair and would love him to leave and be with me... how?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi this is crazy i got myself an affair...20 years age gap me being the young one. we are both very into each other but i dont know how much longer i can carry on. my feelings for him drive me crazy and snap for him. this was not planned or thought out, we re just here. his ... (131 words)

Does everybody need to feel important?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I feel extremely conscious about what other people speak or talk, especially those around me. Actually what i crave is some sort of attention from others so try to look for any talk that is about me. It makes me feel important as that is the feeling i have not felt while ... (91 words)

My boyfriend doesn't like me getting attention from other people!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend doesn't like me getting attention from people especially guys because my brother is a famous football player...and some of the guys who idolise my brother asked me for an autograph..help i know hes jealous he told me himself but hes jealous of me all the time..that ... (59 words)

He says my blow jobs are out of this world, so why the need to finish him off by hand ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been sleeping with this man for about a month. I really enjoy giving blowjobs and he seems to enjoy them aswell. He keeps saying that my blowjobs are 'out of this world', that I am a tease and how much he loves that... however, I'm not quite sure he's telling me the ... (90 words)

I stopped him before he penetrated me, but Im still worried Im pregnant!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was fooling about with a boy 9 days ago he was touching me and we were both naked i was pretty drunk but i stopped him when i cud feel his penis around my vagina so he didnt penetrate me.i took a pregnancy test today and it was negative. but im still sort of worried what ... (60 words)

Ive been having a sexual relationship with my best friend, help I'm now falling for her!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, For the past few months, me and my best friend have been in a sexual relationship. i think im falling for her, and dont know what to do..we both dont, because no-one could ever find out about this, and we have always like boys and this has just happened out of the blue.... (98 words)

I've not had sex in 3 months and suddenly find im masturbating more! Is this normal ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F) - I'm 25 and its going on 3 months since I last had sex. Lately I find myself masterbating more frequently and watching porn. Is there something wrong I've never been like this before. ... (33 words)

Worries about doing it anal...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am willing to try anal with my partner. We are both VERY nervous about this new "spice". Can you please give me information on the best tips on doing this. Will it hurt? What about his "thing" comming out 'diry'? How can I prepare for it? Thank you very much! ... (93 words)

How much sex is "just right"? Am I too sexual for this girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

9 May 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - If you are really in love with a girl and you have been with her for 7 years.... how many times should you be having sex a week if you really are attracted to eachother. I really want to have sex more and it seems like only twice a week maybe three times if I am lucky. I just ... (104 words)

I'm jealous at everything my bf does if it doesnt involve me!!! Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (?)

- I think I am jealous of my boyfriend!!! I've been with him for 9 months now and I have never felt like this before. Just recently I've been getting jealous. Whenever we talk on the phone I feel he pays more attention his brother and sisters more them than me. But I swaer they... (205 words)

I'm 15, he is 19 and I think I'm pregnant - can he go to jail?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 19. We've been dating for 2 1/2 years. My parents do approve of us dating, but I think I'm pregnant. Can my boyfriend go to jail?... (32 words)

Is it possible to fake my sex experience with this guy who is way ahead of me in that area?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

- Okay so I'm officially dating this guy, it's a secret though. We are crazy about each other, and we've been hanging out everyday afterschool, it's really hard though cause he lives on the otherside of town, were thinking about having sex, he's way more experienced than me, i'm ... (84 words)

He hardly ever calls me, surely if he loved me he would be calling me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend and we've been seening eachother almost everyday; the thing is that the year is almost done and he doesn't call me. I know that long distance relationsips don't work but he's the kind of guy who makes thing work. I love him and I know he loves me but what ... (73 words)

She just wants me to be her dirty little secret!!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

9 May 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Im in love with a girl who is already going out with a guy. she said she would break up with him for me but once her parents found out they forbid her from seeing me. her parents have spoken to alot of her friends and even a few of our teachers to let them know if they saw us ... (161 words)

Falling for my 45 year old boss!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6381 days ago

9 May 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i think i am falling for my 45 yr old boss. i will be 24 yrs old. he is divorced and has a 10 and 13 yr old. he told me he really likes me and finds me attractive. we have been out many times together with my friends and other coworkers. i cant stop thinking about him. i don't ... (86 words)